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support · 7 years ago
Everything Okay?
If you or someone you know is struggling, you are not alone. There are many support services that are here to help. 
If you are located in the United States, consider reaching out to the National Alliance on Mental Illness HelpLine.
If you are located in the United Kingdom, The Mix is here to help you with any challenge you are facing.  Reach out online, on social or through their free and confidential helpline.
If you are reading this from in any other country in Europe,  Mental Health Europe has compiled a list of helplines and other resources in your country. 
For more resources, please visit our Counseling & Prevention Resources page for a list of services that may be able to help.
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thecpdiary · an hour ago
Childhood Rejection
Having experienced childhood rejection, you find a place for, it’s not something you forget. It also depends on how long the rejection goes on for.
Where parental rejection may consist of neglect, abuse, abandonment, or withholding of love and affection, it is important to understand your experiences, because parental rejection can affect you throughout your lifetime. It can also have serious consequences for future generations.
It doesn’t matter what form your rejection takes. All forms of rejection hurt, particularly when it’s done by someone you trusted. Rejection has nothing to do with you, but everything to do with the person doing the rejecting.
If you were to delve deeper, it may become obvious those who rejected you, will have been rejected themselves. In other cases, they may not know any better. Those who reject often haven’t been supported, hugged or encouraged themselves, and may be clueless as to how to show those things.
Where parents were abused, they will usually go on to repeat the same kind of parenting. In life we learn what we live, what we’ve seen, and history repeats itself. But we can change.
A narcissistic parent, may generally adopt a rejecting approach, and will attempt to abandon others before they walk away first, no matter the child’s issues, or disabilities. If they are rejected first, they will then use guilt trip tactics, to manipulation and power manoeuvres and threats.
A rejected narcissist spouse, may fight for custody of the child, not because they care about the child, but as a way to win and hurt their ex-partner.
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fangirl4thewin · 3 hours ago
Ever get that sad feeling when someone doesn't want to listen?
Like, not even about important stuff, but like... you are discussing something and that person just... changes the subject. And you're like, 'Okay. Don't be rude. Acknowledge, steer the conversation back.' But it becomes just more and more evident that they just... don't really care about what you are talking about.
It kind hurts. In a physical way.
And I'm not talking about A.D.D. people who have difficulty staying on track. Just everyday people who could give less than two shits about anything you say.
Or maybe it's just that what you have to say is so uninteresting. Which then beings in the self doubt and loathing.... which also hurts.
Just venting.
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kasiagala · 3 hours ago
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🇬🇧how long until you break? seek help. if you need to talk to someone, I'm here for you
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chi0lea · 4 hours ago
It’s getting worse.
I’ve noticed it, always wanting to sleep. Hoping that I’ll never wake back up.
I don’t wanna eat no more, I force myself but I just... don’t want it anymore.
I noticed my hair is starting to grey, not at the  roots but like full stands of hair turning silver. I feel like it’s thinning as well. Is this from the stress, the worry, and the heartbreak that you cause me? Is it a sign that maybe my heartstrings are finally breaking?
Hearing your voice still fills me with joy and helps my anxiety but now it’s starting to make me cry. Knowing that it’s different towards me now.
When people say love it feels so empty. I feel so empty.
I try to pretend that I’m still the same but to be honest I don’t feel anymore.
My passion to sing is dying out, I’ve already lost all the will to draw. There was this big piece I was working on. It was you and me and in the middle was us as chibis on various dates... it’s never gonna be finished.
You tell me you never fell in love with me, yet your eyes said different. Then you say well sometimes... sometimes... that word for some reason is worse then daggers. Piercing into my soul.
If this is how real love feels, I don’t want it anymore. I wanna be heartless. Bring me the tin man so I can hand him my heart.
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sweet-for-you · 4 hours ago
I’ve never felt this type of pain before, they weren’t lying when they said love hurts
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michellebell10 · 7 hours ago
Does anyone else get the feeling,
Even though you have a family who loves you,
A significant other who loves you,
Friends who you consider family love you;
Do you ever have the feelings of
Being forgotten
All the above?
Don’t forget to smile
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done-with-all-shit · 9 hours ago
I am alone, when I most meed it. There is no one here for me. There never was.
Why am I surprised, I should know it by now, unwanted, alone, crying and hurting myself.
No one would care if I were just... gone one day
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thats-amy · 11 hours ago
I know in Canon it was already very sad but i like to imagine after henry's second death tommy just lay there for a while leaning on him, ignoring ranboo saying it was getting dark picking up little flowers lying around to yank off the petals while silently crying
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theseareourmemories · 15 hours ago
Dear stranger, 
I’m almost at the end of the road and I'm unlearning a lot of lies. Lies I've experienced and made true to my life. I hope you don't have to go through this but you will and I pray that you'll learn from it;
They say that love is a feeling
it's when there's a flutter in your stomach or your heart begins to soften and beat fast
it's when you can't contain the happiness inside of you and you just want to be with that person all the time. 
but love, my dear friend, is a choice.
A choice to provide and protect
no matter the circumstance is
no matter who the person is
They say when you love, 
love a little, cause the one who loves most, loses the most.
but remember, stranger, that love gives and gives and does not take anything in return.
They say love is blind, 
but it is not love that is blind but the people living in the darkness of their lives.
They say love hurts, 
but love cannot hurt because love provides and protect.
It is the absence of love that hurts us.
They say follow your heart
but remember, the heart is deceitful above all things.
My mind begged to differ, unaware that my heart chose to believe these lies. And after building a fortress to protect my heart, I then built weapons.
When my heart would flutter and I told myself it’s love, I loved a little. I created pride that wouldn't let me say things I wanted to say or do things that would make others feel loved for the fear of giving all I can and being left alone with nothing. I created indifference to act like I'm not interested. I created ignorance in needing someone. Choose to ignore the crave.
And this love that is lacking is not love at all. It left people longing and it hardened the heart.
Love as active as it is will mend the soul,
It will render our heats soft, and it will give life.
Love will not lack in giving for love itself is unlimited, and uncaused.
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