#HOW DARE YOU ATTACK ME LIKE THIS

[57sfinest]

okay as a Jean Enjoyer i feel like i need to say this because there are different genres of jean enjoyment (jeanres if you will). i am of the faction where i don’t really vibe with the whole “jeangst” thing (as it exists as a fandom phenomenon) and here’s why. so much of the stuff i see labeled “jeangst” is WAY too sympathetic to and forgiving of jean for my taste. like he’s woobified or there’s a lot of uncritical ‘poor jean harry is so mean to him and now harry’s amnesia ruined his life :(’ type stuff which is such a fundamental misunderstanding of him and his role in harry’s past & present and it skews how we view his dynamic with harry too. and i don’t mean this as “oh considering jean’s pov is bad!!1!1″ no i consider his pov all the time i am indescribably mentally ill about the torment that the jeanharry relationship puts both jean and harry through. but when we consider his point of view i really think that just ascribing him the simple role of ‘poor depressed punching bag’ strips him of all the interesting parts of his character & also contributes to a less nuanced and accurate understanding of harry as well (it makes it easy to villainize him for his addiction and mental illness, which in and of themselves aren’t moral failings-- harry was a bad person for his behavior, which is not the same as his addiction or his illnesses)

like, jean put himself in this situation. over and over again. yes he was likely forced into working with harry, but whatever’s going on between them is more than a workplace conflict. you look at luiga’s twitter and he’s said so much about jean and harry’s codependency and the other mentions of a very close and very unhealthy personal relationship. you see the way jean talks about his own role vs harry’s in the ending-- jean WANTS to be the poor victim, he wants everyone to see him as the helpless punching bag who is being such a saint by Putting Up With Harry And His Bullshit, look at me, i’m so much better than this stupid mentally ill addict! he’s like harry you are so unprofessional, and there is something wrong with you, and we are all so tired of putting up with you and your shitty behavior, but here he is sitting in a hotel lobby in a wig to harass harry while harry is actually doing his job!! like jean my love here you are reaming harry out about “doing his fucking job” sir what are you doing!! you are sitting in a hotel looking angry for 14 hours just in case your special little partner who you are definitely sooo mad at condescends to speak to you for a few minutes!! and you dragged poor judit out here too!! jean. girl. babe. it’s time to admit you are a massive hypocrite with an even bigger victim complex. you, a mentally ill addict, are losing your shit at harry for being a mentally ill addict. why don’t you meaningfully address the actual behaviors instead of just reminding harry that he’s an alcoholic every 2 minutes.

like i’m not saying jean should have infinite patience for harry after multiple years of mistreatment but damn dude the double standards are insane. jean is instigating a messy public breakup and being pretty abusive the whole time and then he’s like everyone feel bad for ME and not STUPID HARRY who is an ALCOHOLIC in case anyone forgot. he goes on and on about how much his life sucks and how much harry sucks and boohoo poor him he’s so depressed and beaten down by the shitkid etc but then in ANY sub-ideal ending you get there’s still something that tells you that he’s still taking harry back or at least considering it. in the cuno ending “he can’t leave you behind. he just can’t. one final time...” even in the worst ending “if you make it-- if you’re sober for 10 months-- tell us. i’ll work with you again.” jean babe if you hate him so much then stay the fuck away from him!! damn!! your codependency is showing!! your victim complex is showing!! just go get harry’s name tattooed on you at this point like at the very least it might get you some sympathy from people at the bar when they ask about what’s very clearly an Ex’s Name Tattoo

#this got out of hand. sorry #anyway yeah i disagree with 'jeangst' on principle because it's too nice to jean basically #you can be sympathetic to his point of view without being a Jean Apologist or completely erasing his role in a mutually abusive dynamic #i love to think about how much this whole situation hurts him. and i love to think about how a lot of it is his fault #it's so much more interesting for him to be a participant in his own victimhood #he's standing there goading harry into punching him and then he gets punched and is like HOW DARE YOU PUNCH ME!! #well sir you see if you tape a sign on your forehead that says kick me then eventually you are going to be kicked. #the jeanharry relationship as a form of self harm for both parties involved etc etc #using each other to punish themselves etc etc #just enough good in it to keep them going. just enough bad to make it bitter the whole way through. the push and pull of addiction etc etc #see a return to jean/harry partnership after martinaise would be so funny #jean tries to provoke harry says some shitty stuff etc and harry just like. starts crying or having a panic attack or whatever #and jean is like hold on this makes ME look like the bad guy. come on quick hit me. come on say something mean. call me a slur. please #or maybe harry goes right back to being an asshole depending on ur guy. and nothing ever changes and they hurt each other for ever and ever #until they succumb to the inevitable murder-suicide #kiwipost #jv meta #jean vicquemare #I HATE THIS GUY *beating him with one of those carpet dust racket things*

[pocketramblr]

Dash simulator

Blog 1: lol anyone else seeing a lot of strawberries in new recipes now? sometimes its fun but i really dont get the appeal of adding it to everything. why did you make strawberry garlic bread

Blog 2: u kno im not a fan of strawberries, i really like the rich sweet and sour notes from oranges, oranges and chocolate is such a good combo. i altered a recipe for a smoothie with oranges last week and it was soooo good ill give you my notes if you want Reblogged by: Blog 1: ahaha yesss i love chocolate and oranges

Blog 3: I canNOT believe the hate im seeing to strawberries right now, like, you know guys know the rule don't like don't bake right?? you know you can hit the back button right?? honestly what's wrong with yall

Open draft- wait guys you know there's a difference between leaving a comment on a recipe saying you hate strawberries and the recipe writer should never use them, and going to your own blog to say you don't really like strawberries, without naming any specific people or recipes right? you know there's a difference right?? - Save - Post - Discard

Draft discarded

Blog 4: why is everyone jumping on the strawberry hate train right now. what is wrong with you. Reblogged by: Blog 5: I knowwww like guys some people stop baking because of reading things like that, please stop it, if you don't like strawberries you can be quiet about it

Open draft- im so sorry if anyone's getting sent mean messages or comments about what they're writing and baking, but i'm literally not seeing any of that and if you are, please use the block button. but someone making a post on their own blog is not that, and if you can't see the irony in you being allowed to complain on personal blogs but not them i can't help you... - save- post- discard

Draft discarded

Blog 2: are strawberries even in season?

Blog 6: woo cherry pie!

#trying so hard to be a blog 6 rn #im discarding those drafts #but clearly it has been too much for me as this one is getting posted #like i really am sorry if any. strawberry antis are directly being rude to anyone #that isnt ok #but i have seen zero of that on my dash or in the tag #i saw a few blogs saying lol they don't like strawberries #and then i saw a ton of blogs saying how dare there be any negativity at all #and seeming to act as if those blog posts were specifically about disliked fic authors i mean recipe makers #which... if any of them were... i didn't see it because of how i blocked large swaths of the fandom like three years ago #when i realized that it was determined to blow up a discourse topic every single month #and if there are people doing that. please. do what i did. block en mass #if you open a recipe that turns out to have strawberries in it and you cant hit the back button but instead leave a nasty comment that is a #you problem #but also if you see a random blog post about someone saying they dislike strawberries- hate strawberries even- and you feel personally #attacked and start crying about how now you never want to bake a strawberry shortcake again and they're so mean #that is also. a you problem. #'what fandom is this pocket' dont worry about it #not one i have any mutuals in #which. considering the mass blocking and the annoying chronic discourse explosions. perhaps is not surprising

[craycraybluejay]

strange how you claim trans men see you as nothing but a fuckable piece of meat. idk ab other guys but i do not have so little self respect as to want to have sex with someone who actively and proudly looks down on me and discriminates against me. it'd be like fucking an evangelical or some shit. you are so severely unfuckable i pity the dumbasses who try to go for it.

and wanting to have sex with someone ≠ fetishization ≠ wanting to have sex with everyone similar to them in some aspect.

like just bc i wont fuck some transphobic ahole doesnt mean i just dont like men at all. or vice versa just bc i like girls doesnt mean i want to fuck This One In Particular.

sex doesn't always have to be political but since we're making it that way; being a total asshole and bigoted makes you severely unfuckable to a pretty large number of people.

#'the boy trannys r sexualizing me' and 'why wont the boy trannys go out with me thats misogyny' #because. i cant stress this enough. you are a tar pit #no one who isnt exactly like you and respects themselves wants you even if they think youre really pretty #why? #because you are just fucking mean and cruel to whole entire minority groups for no reason #other than you feel hurt so you want to hurt someone easy to hurt #and that kind of misplaced vindictiveness and hate is so deeply unsexy #look if no one outside your insular bubble wants to be friends with you or fuck you maybe just maybe you are the problem #like im a pretty opinionated person and even i have made friends w ppl very diff from me #as long as theyre respectful yk #but if your ideology pushes you to beliefs that further isolate you while in a bad place #it is a bad ideology and you legitimately need to 'Go Outside' and try to hang around people not like you without attacking them #'how dare you think youre oppressed' #because even someone as Miserable and Hateful as you feels safe to harass people like me #even someone so Winner Of The Oppression Olympics knows perfectly well who they can target without pushback #if your activism hinges on the concept that other people needing equity and a space to talk about their issues is oppressing you #then you have failed. and also fallen into extremism

[utilitycaster]

I think the whole "you should print out what you're saying and show it to a family member" argument is useless when it comes to fandom drama because I think it is the human condition or at least the nerdy human condition to want to be weirdly obsessive about pretend situations and characters in a semi-anonymous setting; even if you're not doing any kind of drama, I get not wanting to explain to your grandmother why a 45 year old man is so babygirl.

At the same time though, I think it would be a good exercise for anyone sending lecturing asks of "um, your post is not nice" to imagine explaining that to their therapist because I promise any decent therapist would be like "if what they said is genuinely triggering why didn't you just block them instead of potentially opening yourself up to more of the same, and if you merely didn't like it why does it matter."

#queue #it is also. every time. someone who is like HOW DARE YOU I HAVE EVERY DISEASE YOU HAVE TO BE NICE TO ME. YOU HORRIBLE CUNT. #maybe people are not nice to you because you start fights with people who don't know you and cry when they don't immediately fold #maybe you are burnt out and unhappy because you consistently interpret neutral statements from total strangers as an attack #maybe you are a deeply antagonistic and toxic person and when people respond to that you play the victim #(to be clear this is rare but i had like three incidents happen within like a month hence writing this post)

[getitoncamera]

episode 4 was the shortest (or at least it definitely felt like it) but damn if it didn’t make me feel the most

#percy is a selfless loyal brave idiot for facing the chimera alone while literally being unable to stand up #and i was so mad & scared & now i’m so proud and inspired by him #being a hero isn’t about not being scared; it’s about being scared and doing the right thing anyway #i really liked the way this episode talked about fate #& how it kinda made percy & annabeth just a touch closer #speaking of percabeth #when percy basically fell into annabeth’s arms suddenly from the poison i think i had a mini heart attack #that startled & scared me so bad #on another note #the whole “’you have to earn your parents’ love / acknowledgment & it shouldn’t be like that’ hits very close to home #and i really liked that scene #& lastly obviously echidna is a monster but how dare she insinuate that sally did a poor job raising percy #sally did the BEST job #especially for being a young single mother #so shush you monstrous bitch #anywho i loved this episode i just wish it was a little longer #not kpop #seaweed brain 🔱💙 #pjo : the series

[ratguy-nico]

CAUTION

-this is a little spoiler from my work for Geneuary I dont know if this is legal but I wanted to share cause is super sweet. Forgive me, but take it as a little sneak peek-

You know geneuary is just around the corner and i haven't been able to make as much progress as i want. Specially for the holidays.

I was eager to end at least one lineart today but my niece and nephew visited me yesterday and stay until today. So I could only work while they were sleep.

This morning I could succesfully finish lineart and apparently I was pretty loud about my happines cause my niece come to see what I was doing, I tell her I was drawing (she loves to draw too and specially coloring books) She ask me how I could draw on the computer and I show her and we ended with a lil collab. So here it is. I didn't pick any color desision all was her ideas. Im proud of my kid.

Again sorry if this is against the rules of Geneuary but I wanted to share, and nobody actually see my non-art post so the secret is well keep. Still not gonna say the prompt...thou is pretty obvious

#dont look too much into the drawing #focus on the beutiful coloring display #my art #sort of #my nephew almost give a heart attack when he saw his sis drawing with my tablet #he knows how important it is for me #he doesn't there to touch it #thou he doesn't really like to draw #he prefers videogames #wich i also like #so i bond with them differently #dont you dare think i like them #take care of kids is the most horryble thing someone coul do #sorry if im talking weird #i was just watching gentleman jack #what a good serie #but really one big praise for single mothers #how they deal with kids alone #i would never understand #really dont look to much in this post

[flickeringflame216]

✍️

#ok so this essay assignment is about whether generative AI will help or harm humanity and all the readings relate specifically to artificial #intelligence being used in an education setting OR in an art setting (film industry etc) #so i'm saying why i think this is a Bad Idea #(not against all AI per se but why art? like literally leave art alone humans are already really really good at making good art) #ANYWAY #as i was writing this one paragraph it occurred to me #the thing being attacked when AI threatens to take over art/creativity is humans' ability and innate urge to Make #which is where I most often see the Image of God in us!!! #THAT IS WHY I DO NOT LIKE AI IMAGE GENERATORS AND WRITING PROGRAMS #the sub-creator in me rebels against it I think. how dare you try to mock something sacred with your pale substitutions. #college chronicles

[scringee]

This is the only way to express how I'm feeling

#i try not to talk about my home life on here but im honestly so fucking frustrated that if i dont get this out i might just kill someone #my family car broke down in January of this year #my father refuses to get a new one because he thinks hes saving so mucj more money and he doesnt feel like he has any incentive #acting as if he was giving us free trips #i would literally pay him 100 dollars a fucking week to help take me in and out of work #and he just doesnt like acknowledge that at all #so now im having to take ubers to and from work every day. each trip is like 20+ dollars so that 40+ dollars a day five days a week #im averaging spending 200 dollars a week jusy to get into work #and i work a minimum wage shitty fucking job so all of my paycheck goes straight into ubers and fucking therapy every week #ive had to skip so many sessions becaause theyre all 50 dollars after insurance #and im just so frustrated #i want to move out so bad but how can i save enough if im constantly hemorrhaging cash #the only reason hes saving money is because he fucking works from home #i just dont know what to do at this point i feel so helpless #becayse even if hou casually bring it up my dad immediately assumes youre ATTACKING him and how DARE you and im tited im so fucking tired #how am i meant to move out in these conditions #how am i meant to do anything #i have no fucking social life because i literally just cant afford it im going to cry #i hate him. i hate my dad so fucking much #vent #ig. #scringee mouth

[skania]

I unexpectedly came across some of my old Nardo meta from 2007 and it's wild how much better I knew what to expect from Kishi back then. Some of the stuff I apparently said:

Sasuke isn't ending up alone because Kishi will want him to continue the Uchiha line

Even though there's nothing romantic from his side, chances are he will end up with 🌸 by default unless a) she ends up with Nardo b) Kishi has him bond with another girl

Karin could be it but Kishi doesn't seem interested in developing them and taking her out of comic relief hell, so I'm not expecting anything

Narrator: Long ago, she saw the writing on the wall. Then everything changed when The Killerbee Arc (2008) happened.

#fandom: naruto #personal #to think I got attacked like this when I was just looking for my old SI headcanons #how dare you 2007-me #the only thing I got wrong is that my 2007-self didn't think kishi would be fogetting about narsak #after all the time he was spending on it #aside from that I was spot on lmao #I apparently also used to argue that if he didn't end up with 🌸 or karin he would probably end up with Ino #not because of some grand foreshadowing or anything #but simply because she's the only other girl he interacted with and because she had feelings for him #so my 2007 self knew Kishi was just basic lmao #jokes aside it really was the killerbee arc that made me switch gears and start hoping for/expecting better #I wonder whether my enjoyment of the manga would have gone up or down had I known it wouldn't amount to anything

[cinnamon-notes]

screwed up my eating schedule (i decided this is what im calling my ed today) because i got tense and stressed out by a stupid stupid man telling me i will never be able to love any kind of person in any kind of way in my life since i can't love him or show love to him. so yeah- some man is mad because i don't love him, so he goes on and on about how bad of a person i am, incapable of loving

#like- i know this is not true #and i know he was just teasing me and he did it this way because somehow most men think they're being funny when they're actually being #annoying #but still- it kinda hurt me because i AM capable of love and loving. i love many things and many people. one thing you cannot say about me #is that i cannot love. you simply cannot say that. because loving is literally anything and everything i ever do. #im passionate about things. i show up for the people i care about. i do care about people. i do care about my friends. i do care about my #family. and im always trying to be the nicest and kindest version of myself. because even though im damaged and unhinged and chaotic and #depressed and mad and unsteady i do know i am nice. i am kind to people. i am passionate. i am caring. #how dare you say im the opposite of who i am just because i didnt please you so you felt the need to attack me exactly where you knew it'll #hurt? #so mature of you #cinnamon talks #cinnamon's darkness #cinnamon being cinnamon

[crystalflygeo]

Combine Zhongli and Kaeya equals a menace

no seriously combine Zhongli and Kaeya is going to be a menace just look at him, he's going to tease the fuck out of you for sure going far as making out with you in public don't care who sees, groping you shamelessly and if he's feeling a bit frisky he WILL fuck you with the door to his office halfway open so anyone can see, hear how he's fucking you when he's suppose to be working and if he's not in the mood to tease you he'll just take you on a stroll while telling you stories of old or just be at home and randomly pull to cuddle doesn't matter where in the house you're going to cuddle.

"What was that for well I was just making sure everyone knew who you belong with that kiss"

"Oh how can I resist not groping you it just makes me want to kiss and ravage you right where we stand"

"Oh does me fucking you with the door halfway open turn you on that much"

"Anyone can come and see me fucking you like a beast and you screaming for me to breed you, to give you my thick creamy load that's going to overflow in that tight cunt of yours"

"Mhm maybe next time I should make you suck me off under my desk while I do paperwork or during a meeting no"

OMG A MENACE INDEED!! take away the prim and proper and turn zhongli into a flirty cheeky lil shit

ASZXCFVHNJMLC sheep those lines are SO GOOD he would SUCH a teasing suave mf (I mean Kaeya already is but-) Just imagining Zhongli with that lil bit of his personality oh he would be a shameless TEASE I can't he would bully me fr :c

THAT ART IS SO GOOD THO HELLO??? 👀💕💕💕

#NOT THE DOOR HALF OPEN #THAT SECOND TO LAST ONE WOOOOO #how dare you use all those words together in the same sentence and tease me like that sir #god he looks so pretty #sheep how dare you attack me like this #sheep friend #crys answers

[zhimaqiu]

Miłego wieczoru ☺️

I wzajemnie :3 A jak zaśniesz to, żeby najlepsze rzeczy Ci się przyśniły, byś mógł rankiem wstać jaśniejszy od samego słońca

#ask #how dare you attack me with kindness like this

[paopuofhearts]

it's almost like the only option is dividing things further black and white then just going hardcore to an extreme.

like.

i spent all day yesterday cutting off friends and blogs of people i love in my native community because of the excessive call for violence as the answer to decolonization, maintaining nuance but only for one side and saying fuck all to everything and everyone else.

but then today.

the number of jewish friends and blogs i've had to unfollow because people are doubling down on "hamas bombed a fucking hospital" when there's clear evidence that isn't true and it's propaganda to perpetuate cycles of violence?

fucking horrifying.

#like as someone from a native background and someone working to convert it's just #heartbreaking and frustrating to feel absolutely abandoned by both sides #simply because pointing out israel is built on a settler-colonial stance even if jewish people aren't settlers and colonizers #because they are indigenous to the area #gets me beat to the ground in native circles because it means i support netanyahu and gver and genocide #and i get the same fucking condescending look of 'you shouldnt talk' from liberal jewish groups that are all for saying zionism is a diseas #and yes they agree as jewish people that they are white and israel is white supremacist like #like i'm sorry the fucking whiplash of what the absolute fuck #but then pointing out that palestinians are being mass murdered and their response is clearly understandable #and israel is purposely using this shit to perpetuate genocide #all of a sudden i'm a fucking hypocrite to both sides #and my poor fucking husband is standing here like 'yes thats what you get for being clearly aware and wanting nonviolence' #how dare i not stand solely with israel #how dare i not demand only free palestine #people are just so fucking toxic and caught up in their own opinions being the only opinions and nuance being a fucking crime for condemnin #as if talking about this shit does anything! people are dying on both sides - one clearly more than the other - and what #you truly think attacking people that aren't specifically nodding along in blind support is really the thing that'll change the world #also saw a thing today that was like “being an ally means i will fight for you” like fuck that #but that's a different thing anyway #anyway i hate both my communities and feel absolutely isolated from them and wow #community just really isn't a thing unless you're ride or die without speaking up about anything huh