#GET OVER IT

[bees-pees]

happy (late) valentines day!

#art #beebsart #aziraphale #crowley #aziraphale good omens #crowley good omens #ineffable husbands #aziracrow #good omens #GET OVER IT

[poisonedfate]

obsessed with the merlin and arthur dynamic that is characterised like:

merlin: i want him, i love him, but i can't. there are things i shouldn't tell him, not yet. but i want to. but i can't. and fate? what about fate? what about destiny? what would happen? no, i can't. there are so many things, so much-

arthur: (dramatic sigh) i wish i could love my manservant (you can), but he's my manservant (no one cares, everyone already assumes)

#like arthur #you could just #tell him #get over it #to ME personally this is the funniest thing ever #bbc merlin #merthur

[aman1taverna]

It's one thing to claim to be a lesbian, but to be this angry that lesbians aren't being nice enough when they reject you is crazy levels of entitlement. I know rejection hurts, but it is not "" terf rhetoric"" that causes lesbians to be attracted to other females. They're just homosexual, which is natural and beautiful.

@redditreceipts

#radical feminist safe #gender critical #receipts #terf safe #radblr #terfblr #radical feminism #lesbian means female homosexual #get over it #wren rambles

[awesomechocolatesauce]

Full offense, but if you're going to make a post about Astarion "not really being bi/pan", "is gay-coded", and/or "how weird it is to see him be romanced by feminine Tavs", then you should really expect people to get upset and accuse you of being bi/pan phobic because that is literally bi/pan erasure.

It doesn't matter that Astarion is theatrical or that he shares his history about two specific men from his past. That doesn't change the fact that he is canonically pansexual. He flirts with just about everyone in the party, including Shadowheart and Lae'zel, and can potentially sleep with Lae'zel if neither are romanced. He flirts with Tav, regardless of what gender identity they are.

If it's "weird" for you that people who play as feminine characters would romance Astarion instead of someone more "straight presenting" like Gale, for an example (which is dumb, too, he's also bi/pan), then that sounds more like a personal problem that you should definitely work through.

Have a nice day. 💕

#baldur's gate 3 #baldur's gate iii #bg3 #astarion #so tired of seeing posts like this #he's pansexual #get over it #pansexuality #lgbtqia #lgbtqpia #lgbt #jessica's personal stuff #text post

[sashi-ya]

My WOMAN.

#boa hancock #op spoilers #op anime #one piece #hebi hime #i love her #yes i know she kicked a puppy #get over it

[buckttommy]

Marisol moving in with Eddie is wild he wants to be straight and not in love with his best friend SOOOOOOO bad lmfaoooo

#sorry Eddie. You're gay #get over it

[swingingthehatchetnow]

I’m sorry Team Starkid instagram, but you know I had to

#yes I’m cringe #get over it #starkid #team starkid #nerdy prudes must die #npmd #tgwdlm #the guy who didn't like musicals #hatchetfield #starkid black friday #nightmare time

[winchester27]

If y’all are mad some of us Buddies calling us traitors because we like Buck with Tommy for the time being, are appreciative of the storyline, are letting Buck discover himself, etc.

I got some news for you. Buck is BIsexual not EDDIEsexual

I swear y’all make me gnaw on the bars of my cage with how ridiculous y’all sound.

#buddie #eddie diaz #evan buckley #911 abc #buck x eddie #buck buckley #buckley diaz family #buddie dads #911 fox #911 season 7 #I guess bucktommy is the dark side #tommy kinard #buck x tommy #welcome to the dark side #I guess #let’s be honest #once they both get there #Buck will def be Eddiesexual #evan buckley is bisexual #first and foremost #get over it #the exit door is right there

[celtic-crossbow]

I may be opening a can of worms here but why are people so bent out of shape over someone writing Daryl as a dom? I’ve seen rants all over the place today. Calling people’s works shitty.

It’s fanfiction. Dude doesn’t even get sexual on the show, so how do you know what he would or would not be? Maybe he’s asexual? Who knows? I write him as a dom, sub, and switch. I’ve also written him as asexual because that’s where I’m at. Regardless, who cares? Stop reading if you don’t like it.

I get not having a lot to choose from if you identify a certain way. But some authors don’t feel comfortable writing aspects they don’t understand. Some just don’t want to write him a certain way. Even the people that are complaining that he’s not a dom have the right to vent that they don’t see him that way and to write him however they choose. What’s not cool is putting down the work of others just because it doesn’t fit your prerogative.

The point is to let people write what they like and/or are comfortable with. That’s the fun of it. You make the story. Ugh, humans get on my nerves.

I will hop off my soap box now. /rant

Here, have this quote from Norman. I think it really leaves things open for interpretation.

#daryl dixon #daryl dixon fanfic #daryl dixon fanfiction #daryl dixon x reader #daryl dixon x y/n #daryl dixon x you #daryl dixon smut #I dislike people #rant #get over it

[noname-404s-blog]

"Healing is messy" 😢 I know it 😔

#depressing shit #falling apart #fall apart #it is no under control #i thought i was healing #i thought we were over this #i thought we were joking #it hits every time #it hits so hard #get over it #you're not weak #heartbreak #tw depressing stuff #depressing life #sadcore #and heartbreak image #depressing quotes #sad quotes #sad thoughts #im crying #healing #i am all messed up #im a mess #what a mess #everything is going to be okay #i need a hug #i need hugs #im sad and lonely #im sad and tired #im sad as fuck

[shakalakaaa]

BTS video exists

First : *hold my script* let me tell you how my bestie acts

#Yes we understand you know him the best #Get over it #They are the cutest #first kanaphan #khaotung thanawat #only friends the series #the eclipse #moonlight chicken #firstkhaotung #Firstkhao

[eddtollett]

i appreciate that every artist in the asoiaf fandom has a unique vision for the cast and it is truly lovely to see so many interpretations of the same characters

and if i see one i don't particularly like, i can do this fun thing called minding my own business where i go hmm not for me and i keep scrolling because i'm not entitled enough to think that every single artist owes me an interpretation i personally approve of. 10/10 would recommend

#i have seen art that makes me go he would not fucking look like that and you know what i did? #moved the fuck on. complain to a friend in private if needed #but what the hell is with this trend of hijacking artist's posts to yell at them for not recreating your personal interpretation #sorry they don't draw for you personally #get over it #asoiaf artists i love you 🫶 keep doin your thing

[dozodraws]

"Wah I'm so tired of seeing Astarion drawn with female/female presenting tavs/durges wah"

Okay then here's a wild concept, create what you want to see and leave everyone else alone!

#astarion #bg3 astarion #seriously stop complaining about what people are making and make your own stuff #you are not entitled to people's art #get over it

[caramelmacchiato07]

wtf hera

#percy jackson #percy jackson and the olympians #percy pjo #rick riordan #pjo #percy and annabeth #percabeth #the last olympian #hera is a jerk #the worst goddess #she needs therapy #she has some serious issues #almost as many grudges as hades #get over it #f off hera #leave them alone pls like come on

[sonik-kun]

Reminder that WWX did use a homophobic slur (cutsleeve) before he found out he was, in fact, a "cutsleeve" himself.

I'd also argue that him taking advantage of MXY's body and the rumours associated with him by acting as a "stereotypical gay" to get out of situations was a form of homophobia in itself.

He assumed this was how crazy, gay people act - like sexual deviants. He used that stereotype on top of the rumours about MXY just to get out of sticky situations and avoid being captured.

Whilst this isn't aggressive homophobia, nor would I consider him a raging homophobe myself, he still took advantage of the world view he was raised in, which, in modern terms, was problematic in itself.

Think the harmful, stereotypical, predatory gay trope in anime that a lot of anime fans have taken issue with. That's the stereotype WWX was trying to perpetuate and brush off as a silly joke which is bordering that harmful stereotype territory mentioned above. And yet I don't see the moral "holier than thou" crowd talking about that in their analysis on "fictional characters in an ancient Chinese setting."

(Note before I get jumped on: I don't think WWX was being cruel or malicious when he did this. Nor do I think he purposely intended to sully poor MXY's image further. And I ofc don't think that WWX is a terrible person for doing so either. The guy was desperate and needed to pull tricks to avoid capture. But that still doesn't make things right by modern standards. Even if said stereotype was used to goad a load of "homophobes." Would also like to add that even after coming out, WWX didn't really challenge the societal standard or think ill of anyone who thought like that. It's not like he toured the CW with LWJ, promoting gay rights. He'd be very extraordinary for doing that and brave, too. But he didn't. Instead, he just got up to sexy times with his husband daily and lazed about living the good life. Which is valid of him, tbh, giving the shit he went through. But my point still stands. The social norm persists.)

Also, bare in mind, WWX was heavily in denial about his own sexuality at first and struggled to come to terms with it in the beginning due to the societal norms back then, anyway.

Homophobia was the norm. Stop denying that when you know most of the characters found it bizarre.

By their standards being gay was, unfortunate as it is, unusual and to them, perhaps even immoral in its own right.

By modern standards, we know now that it is wrong. And the moral consensus is that being gay is normal and should not be vilified (even then, not all cultures today have reached that consensus and LGBT rights still have a long way to go).

With this in mind and the notion of what morality meant to people back then, you mustn't hold the characters to modern standards because that was simply the world view. What was "right" back then.

You cannot say with certainty that you wouldn't be homophobic back then, in a world where people called it strange and immoral. As much as I'd like to believe that I would be one of the few who find it wrong to treat gay people poorly, most of us probably would find homosexuality strange because that was the moral consensus of that time. As such, it is unfair to hold characters like JC, JL, and JGY to modern standards for that reason. That's the point we've all been trying to make here.

(Even then, JC and JL both watched as WWX left with his hubby into the sunset and didn't speak illy of their relationship again, nor consider them social outcasts like the Jins and Mos treated MXY. It's almost as if people can change their world views entirely (or to some extent) after things become normalised. Hmm. 🧐

Furthermore, MXTX herself said that JC wasn't a bad person. She wouldn't say that if he's the "aggressive homophobe, incapable of change" like you all seem to imply he is.)

You all make this point about historical context when us JC fans criticise WWX for his clear breach of bodily autonomy with the core transfer and his own war crimes. You should apply that logic to the period typical homophobia too. Because as I have said before, you cannot say for certain that the characters would be homophobic had this taken place in a society where being gay was the norm whilst homophobia was frowned upon. Let's use some logic and context when talking about characters from an ancient time period, shall we?

#canon jiang cheng #jiang wanyin #jiang cheng #mo dao zu shi #mdzs #so sick of this tired ass argument smh #stop holding ancient characters by modern standards #to us modern folk they're ALL problematic in their own way 😂 #get over it

[zywrite]

A Letter to Lost Love

Dear Lost Love,

There's so much things I wanted to say,

But I'd rather start it here,

It seems that I'm far from getting over you,

Though it was already a thousand days,

It still not occuring to me that it's over.

#female writers #literature #original poem #poem #poetic #poetry #poets on tumblr #quotes #spilled thoughts #words #letters #lost love #heartbreak #heartbroken #heartache #heart been broke so many times #you broke my heart #get over it