#Fuck your toxic bullshit

[archerons-arrow]

me, out here realizing people who hate Jude and Cardan are reading books set *checks notes* in the kingdom and courts they rule over and are angry at their inclusion in any story set in Elfhame and are comparing their fans to acotar: the fuck you say?

#i left that fucking fandom the MINUTE y'all started talking shit on those main characters #because you ruined the vibe for everyone #and it is still ruined and toxic as shit #don't bring your fucking annoying ass 'my side character is better' energy over here #we respect the high king and high queen in this house #how dare you #tfota #this fandom is not a sjm fandom so DON'T YOU START YOUR DIVISIVE BULLSHIT OVER HERE #i enjoyed the prisoner's throne BECAUSE we got more perspective through conversation #i'm sorry it didn't live up to whatever weird feral girl bullshit you built in your own head #but don't put down Holly or her characters or whine about how you hope jude and cardan aren't in the next book #they're going to be there (as they should be) #idk and idc if they are center stage or side characters #if you don't like it here's a ragwort pony get your ass outta here

[citrine-elephant]

leon s kennedy would definitely be the kind of guy to physically overexert himself and take on as much of the labor he can because he feels bad if he doesn't. even if it's fair share, he's gotta jump in and help out.

dead tired, exhausted. who cares if he's being taken advantage of and used because the other party(s) know he'll do whatever he's asked. he feels bad. he feels like he isn't doing enough.

#resident evil #hi lol this is a vent #capitalism culture is making you feel like you're never doing enough #and you know it's bullshit but! #tfw toxic masculinity pressures too #and your boss thinks that you should take on all of the physical labor because you're a man who cares if you physically cannot #and retaliates by punishing you with more and more bcuz you went to hr and politely asked if they could convince her to chill tf out- #vent in the tags #but i mean this seems canon to leon bcuz he'll sacrifice himself for anyone #fuck that #brother! #gotta force yourself to stop and think 'fuck them if they get mad i've done enough' #imagining leon being so weak he's stumbling and shaking #but then goes 'let me help with that' before passing out #leon's bitch ass is a people pleaser and he's convinced he's not! #'nah bro i just wanna help people weewoo imma cop' #nah bro ur into being stepped on! #where am i going with this idk #using my suffering to push on leon #no i dont go that far i just. feel bad if im not constantly- #anyway when i finally spoke up i started sobbin while hiding under some boxes lol #didnt realize how packed that bottle was!

[honeysfilmclub]

As a Rose (and tenrose and tentoorose stan), I’m so so scared of engaging with literally any ninerose stan. I’m so fucking scared.

#rose tyler #what’s WRONG with you #no seriously #what the fuck is wrong with you all #why are you always behind these nasty hateful misogynistic ‘criticims’ towards rose and ten(too)rose? #why are you always harrassing real people over fictional things #this is messed up #and please #do NOT come up with ‘ninerose and tenrose are the same’ #do not come up with ‘it’s not that deep’ #i’m not having any of your dismissive bullshit #like. they clearly aren’t for so many of you #so stop pretending #at the very least call out your fandom #acknowledge their actions #because this isn’t right #i’m so sorry to all my rose/ten(too)rose friends who got dismissed and harrassed #i’m sorry this fandom became so toxic

[jooeeydee]

We know how Sara Lance likes her coffee, black with lots of sugar! We learn that early on in Legends Season One. You might like your coffee differently and that's fine, so is artistic liberty in matters the show didn't elaborate on but if the show gave us the answer, stick with it. And the shows gave us several people's coffee preferences. Sara drinks it black with two sugars, Oliver likes it black, Felicity drinks a none fat latte with extra sugar (that makes zero sense on a nutrition level) just to name a few. We got the info. So do your research. Use another methaphor. Sorry things like that just really annoy me. But then again, I spend hours working out the smallest detail and researching things like Max Fuller's wife's name...

She doesn't like her coffee bitter, like her relationships and dirty martini, the woman mainly drinks scotch!, like do your research if you use it as something to make a point about a character and their actions.

And Sara was not sleeping with whoever tickled her fancy during her time with the Legends. There were a few choice people she hooked up with but she wasn't sleeping her way through time as so many Avalance people would like to make it out.

And who the hell thinks Ava's sweet while Oliver is bitter? It's like the exact opposite. Oliver's the sweetest person on the planet, Ava is so fucking bitter it's not even funny anymore.

And I don't why I'm over here ranting. Blame it on all the people tagging fics as Canarow simply for mentioning the fact that Sara used to date Oliver. That's a fact, you don't need to tag it that for two sentences.

I swear I get heat for also tagging a Canarrow story Olicity because technically in the story Oliver is with Felicity as in the present but Avalance and Olicity people tag a story Canarrow just because Sara and Oliver having been together is mentioned or they break up in the first chapter and them actually being together is never shown in the story.

Make it make sense and stop tagging your toxic bullshit with my ship! There are so few Canarrow fics out there don't throw your anti-fics in there I don't want to see those toxic ships under my happy tag.

I think I'm done now.

And where are my fellow Canarrow writers at? I sort of want to go through with "there can't be a none Canarrow ship at the top of the Canarrow tag" but I'm one person, my muse is flakey and given the amount of Avalance and Olicity people that are currently falsely tagging their fics Canarrow I will not be able to do that.

Wow this post just turned into something entirely different.

Anyway... I hope everyone has a great day.

#sara lance appreciation #otp: i chose you / i'm gonna stay with you #canarrow #oliver x sara #sara x oliver #sara lance defence squad #pet peeve as a writer do your research! #sara lance likes her coffee sweet and that is important #oliver queen defence squad #he's the sweetest person on the planet #anti avalance I guess #anti olicity i guess #oliver and sara were so unbelievably sweet as a couple they gave you a sugar rush #stay the fuck out of our tag #keep your toxic ships out of our tag #canarrow fics are a rarety so don't taint them with wrongly tagged fics #yes I rant here because i would never make a writer feel bad by simply commenting because their tagging is in accurate bullshit #i'm not that person and i much rather uplift people with positive comments than tearing them down with negatives #inspire and motivate is the goal #but sometimes i gotta rant so here we are #arrow #legends of tomorrow

[btsbs]

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#that army fan club questionnaire floating around today #not going to reblog it because #i’m kind of over getting blocked for having spicy tags #but #man it blows my mind the toxic shit that makes it into official content sometimes #it’s one thing to leave in some of their off hand comments #from behind the scene footage but #literally the FIRST question #‘your pants don’t fit but you’re hungry- just drink water instead right?’ #like who is that for #who is feeling better about anything reading that #do you ever think about all the things they’ve been told by their teams over the years #if this is what is being put out on public display #i know i know Korea is different idols have different standards whatever #eat a fucking banana then a glass of water is not a meal #you can look hot and be fit and still consume food #hybe is well aware the fandom is made up of people #who hang on their every word #a lot of whom at least FIND bts whilst Going Through A Thing #do better man #shout out to jin for being the only one who chose food #he never gives into the not eating bullshit and I love that about him #anyway that’s my two cents #just a girl having thoughts #here on my own blog in my own lane

[elysian-eclipse]

im genuinely so sick of people acting like, with aew and wwe, one has to be better than the other.

they are two separate fucking companies. aew has been around for 4 years while wwe has been around since i dont know and i don’t care to google it; basically, a lot longer.

and you know what? they can both be good and they can especially be good for different reasons.

im also sick of people acting like one wrestler leaving is going to crash a company, especially fans who say shit like “if xyz leaves i won’t be watching” or “i only tune in for xyz” because then you aren’t a fan of wrestling as a whole you are a fan of that performer. i’ve seen so many people acting oh so high and mighty since the cm punk thing broke, acting like aew is terrible and has always been terrible.

who has the energy to care that much, christ. just watch the show or don’t but either way please shut the fuck up and let people enjoy the show(s) they want to.

#aew #wwe #very sorry if this came up on your feed unwanted #ive seen so much bullshit today and yesterday #tumblr feels like the only decent platform to talk to people on about wrestling #everywhere else is so fucking annoying and toxic and filled with takes with absolutely no nuance or care to hear other people out #pro wrestling #rant post

[stealthylikeninja]

I don’t know how I’ve got onto anti-billy posts (I mean I do know, because they constantly occupy his fucking tag and obsess over everyone who likes him) but they are absolutely fucking vile. I feel like I should clean my eyes with a bleach for the amount of bullying and hateful behaviour they display. With the way they act you would think that Billy is comparable to fucking H*tler, not to mention the jabs at how other fans are ‘clearly’ racists and abusive because they like his character. Or how they lack media literacy? Is it me, or does that make no fucking sense? As far as I’m aware liking Hannibal doesn’t make you a human flesh connoisseur, liking Joker doesn’t make you a fucking crazy murderer clown, and liking Loki doesn’t make you a semi-genocidal demi-god. It’s fucking fiction, it doesn’t exist, liking someone doesn’t translate to being like that fucking person (it really should be a general motto of this fandom, because people forget or don’t understand that simple stupid fact).

Both of these examples just scream lack of media literacy, if not to go as far as to say lack of critical thinking skills. “Main character you are supposed to like” - so basically we are taking everything surface level, no deeper thoughts, no nothing? Just blindly guided by who you are supposed to like and who you are not supposed to like because show told you to do that?(even though it didn’t actually tell you shit, but go off) Are you able to form a single opinion that comes from your own thought process or do you just do everything someone else tells you to do?

Not to mention, fireworks and applause for a teenage, abused character to die a gruesome death after being literally mentally tortured and controlled by an inter-dimensional monster. You should get a Nobel Peace Price for your clear ability to empathise with anyone (I know, I know, you were not told to do that, it’s hard to form your own critical opinions). Just go around bullying an extremely fucking safe part of the fandom that does nothing wrong to anyone, and just posts their silly little stories and concept arts and protects other characters that are being bullied by this kind of toxic ST fans. What a puritan fucking moral warrior behaviour, absolutely vile.

#trigger warning: antis #billy hargrove #fuck off from this tag if you dont like billy #its that simple #ITS REALLY THAT FUCKING SIMPLE #stop going around throwing the word racism at people that gave no proof of being one #not to mention how many times you direct it to poc billy fans #media literacy who? #critical thinking who? #abolity to think for yourself and analyse the media beyond the surface level who? #puritan bullshit #get off your moral high horse darling you are fucking bully #and you are toxic to this whole fucking fandom making it a big pile of shit #i said it once and i will say it again #billy antis suck #harringrove #tell me you are jason stan/apologist without telling me you are #that actually looks very similar to jasons behaviour in the show #its a fucking witch hunt based on fuck all

[maryse127]

Average day on Tumblr

Scroll thorugh dash

Check selected tags

Reblog a dozen memes about stabbing Ceasar

Join the ongoing discussion about wether or not the Conduit is a weapon of mass destruction (it isn't, vote Zu Pharg) because of the Xenoblade Brackets poll

Try not to get upset about and dragged into a ship war that is older than I am but has been invigorated by the release of Final Fantasy VII Rebirth

#arguing about wether or not some fictional object counts as a weapon seems to be a better thing to waste my energy on #than the clerith vs cloti ship war #cause in the weapon discussion people are actually using real arguments and also it isn't fucking toxic #i have blocked people on both sides of the ship war because even if you are defending my fave i dont want your toxic bullshit

[transzilla]

I think as a transsexual there definitely is something seriously wrong with u but its really not a bad thing. I wish more ppl understood how hard it is lol like even trans ppl are transphobic like ok you were not scared of disownment and violence and rejection on a societal level but you were scared of not being who you were meant to be a thousand times more than any of that like that is incredibly beautiful and a gift that not everyone has. most people, the shit wrong with them results in bitter failure but us we get the consequence of transformation. Like why would you stop? You got the hardest part out of the way. Are you really scared of conquering your anxiety or having to not have depression or are you scared of your wasted potential? Are you gonna let anything paralyze you?

#even dudes in lib environments like they transition to male but they wont go on t or do anything #like how are you this scared if i had what you have i would be the fucking rock by now #cus their friends are discouraging them lol under the teehee men are toxic youre so cute as a femboy bullshit

[khalesci]

dany putting daario aside in the show makes sense politically I guess but what really does *not* make sense is her leaving him to rule the city for her like??? y'all??? that man could not run a Wendy's

#♛ ooc. ⊱ ❝ 𝘖𝘩 𝘯𝘰 𝘪𝘵'𝘴 𝘔𝘢𝘳𝘪. ❞ #he is a sellsword captain not a king those styles of leadership are entirely different #sellsword law is a code of violence and greed and dany knows that #she would NOT let that man run a city I'm sorry #help keep the peace? sure. but run the place? nah. #like what is the logic in going 'you're not king material we have to end this but also I want you to rule this city' WHAT #anyway if they wanted a better excuse to break them up to make room for [redacted] to happen later #they should have just made him toxic like in the books and not the biggest simp #bc book!dany has every reason to cut this man out of her life but show!dany doing it???? she's just getting rid of her biggest supporter #it feels like the writers sabotaging her character again and making her a politically driven ice queen #instead of struggling with her own romanticism and loneliness #when really dany is a very emotion-driven person and her heart is her biggest weakness #because . . . idk bullshit 'girl power' reasons or something like that #I do not understand the logic in changing her character so much outside of 'woman with feeling WEAK woman without feeling STRONG' #dave & dan I am in your fucking walls

[godblooded]

i just gotta say peoples' obsessions with writing toxic relationships just concerns the shit outta me on this hellsite.

#ooc. your local bodega kat. #[everyone: i love complex relationships! what everyone means: couples fighting is normal! so if they're horrendous to each other #sometimes it's normal!! #couples fight like... of course. it's unhealthy NOT to fight. but there's a level where it's....uhhhHHHHHHHHHHHHH and some of what's said #or done that people condone on here is wild. if i had a nickel for every time i saw someone say their character was a wonderful spouse and #then display like 10 reasons why they're covertly emotionally or verbally abusive. the rpc has such a tendency to refer to dv in one #specific term when it comes to ic ships and it's always physical but everything else is 'complex' and man that's worrying. see also: why #i was taught in grad school never to teach streetcar with marlon brando because students excuse him immediately due to his looks and his #bullshit angst. it's alarming as fuck. coming from parents who were sometimes physically abusive (to me and each other) like... this also #needs to be recognized in self-critical media. there's so much shit that needs evaluating. and it's not like i've never written a toxic #ship. i wrote the fucking WORST on at one point because i was too chickenshit to get alana out of it. and it ended in her being DESTROYED. #you know. like those kind of relationships tend to end in. like. my ex-father beat the fuck out of a dude in a bar who hit on my mom and #then when he found out the guy died a day later it was military or jail and he went military. and then my mom took him BACK. this is REAL #LIFE SHIT. writing it is virtually incredibly depressing and writing it without making clear it's fucked up is worse. whether you've been #through it or not. in that case: why even. shit hurts enough when you go through it. why would you want to vicariously go through it #being a fake person if there was no way to turn the outcome through healing and positive growth. sorry for being an optimist basically.] #domestic violence mention / #domestic abuse mention / #abuse mention / #murder mention / #[i'm just thinking back on the most toxic fucking verse i ever had and how glad i am said person and i no longer speak.]

[notjanine]

i am in suuuuuch a weird headspace rn, my brain is like. i want half a boyfriend i want a husband i want an easy carefree hookup i want to have sex with only one more person in my entire life i want to have a slut era i want someone to fall in love with me i want to ruin a man's life. who am i

#like okay i said that guy was messy and maybe i am messy too #but only internally! i can at least be consistent and honest in my communication and behavior #but idek what is going on with me #is this a belated quarter life crisis is this being thirty is this what happens when grad school and an internship scramble your brain #scramble your brain so hard that your emotions and physical desires also go haywire #this month is gonna be so weird for me and like i'm depressed enough to not care if i live or die which is when i do my best flirting #and i (theoretically) will have enough time off to take care of myself and get good sleep and do skincare and hair care and work out #and do all the little things to make myself feel more confident #anyway all i know is. i have baby steps initiated progress on some things. #but also the mutually agreed upon six-month post-breakup communication moratorium with my ex is almost up and i am half tempted to call him #i am also half tempted to mess with the OTHER guy in our internship cohort even though that would be THEE messy bitch move #(do not let me do it physically stop me from doing it if it seems like i'm going to) #(but y'know he's. nice. nearby. single. quietly hilarious and has full lips and a similar schedule to my own. pls stop me) #(we might hang out next week. i will not WILL NOT invite him over. i repeat do NOT let me invite him over) #earlier this week i talked to a close very cool and fun and social friend about wanting to start dating again and she was like #Oh i know like ten guys for you lemme have another party and invite all of them and you #and i'm thisclose to being like. actually just fucken see if any of them will go on a blind date with me next weekend. #what the FUCK is wrong with me rn #ANYWAY lemme go work out and finally start the vampire show #bc exercise will distract my body and that toxic relationship bullshit will put a damper on these desires right. right?? #starting to understand why so many religions are like watch out for sins of the flesh or whatever. like how they're like temptation is bad. #lizzo_boys.mp3

[lunapwrites]

I really genuinely hope that the tech industry is the next battlefront of the union wave.

I want every single person who actually touches the product and has any hand in its development and day to day maintenance to collectively walk out. I want them to scramble to try and replace you with AI (which will not work) or with cheap labor from whatever sources they can get (a patch job at best, and in my limited experience liable to cause some hilariously catastrophic failures.) I want them to feel the consequences of the unrealistic expectations they place on your shoulders. I want them to have to work the inhuman hours at the inhuman pace they force you to. I want to listen to their investors screaming as their money tree withers and burns in your wake. I want the world to tremble with the sudden and terrible realization that it cannot function without you.

And, you know, pay and benefits that reflect your skill set, experience, and value would be nice. Representation at the negotiating table. Hours that a human person can sustainably work. Just little things.

#big in my feels about the industry today #this makes me sound like a super villain lol #whatever honestly i wish all upper management a very merry fuck you #middle managers too #project management? what project management lol #i see no management here #just a bunch of chucklefucks patting themselves on the back #and exploiting people who actually know what they're doing #get fucked #take care of your people ffs #this company used to actually give a shit #and then whoops got bought out #fuck corporate #especially corporate that builds a cult around their dead founder like wtf #toxic bullshit fr #lp bitches #lp is Having A Time #disclaimer: not my job #I'm being angry on behalf of others #see you mfers on the picket lines i hope

[lakka-arts]

me one (1) netflix!geraskier mistagged as gerlion post away from blacklisting the tag all together

#IM SORRY TO MY FRIENDS AND MUTUALS WHO MAKE NETFLIX GERASKIER ARTWORK #but my standards have evolved past netflix!gerlion like im sorry but reading fics that at LEAST romanticizes somewhat toxic behavior #and me knowing what geralt's characterization COULD have been like in book/game canon #mountain scene fix it writers you are doing absolutely LOVELY job but the energy of it all is just so... im sorry thats not my cup of tea #netflix fucking did him soooooo dirty #i am void to nearly all geraskier content except for my friends and mutuals. and penandinkprincess's writing because who am i kidding #if youre somehow upset by this #i'm sorry for setting my OWN boundaries and cultivating my OWN tastes on tumblr (actually not sorry) #edit: also EMPHASIS on NETFLIX GERASKIER #hexer geraskier youre fine youre doing amazing darling i love you #because hexer geraskier i see as ALSO gerlion too depending on translation #either way hexer geraskier is welcome #BUT NETFLIX GERASKIER- #N!JASKIER is N O T dandelion #these two mfs are VERY different entities #do NOT come at me with that bullshit i will FIGHT you #what are YOUR GROUNDS huh?