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abodywithnosoul · 8 months
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Why is everything so heavy? 😖
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lorenzonuti · 2 months
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Reading failure.
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fredericclouti · 3 days
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schomp-mazda · 2 years
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Rewatching Bee and Puppycat made me realize something. This show is all about failure, specifically in the workplace.
Bee begins the show fired from her job, in a studio apartment, unsure what she wants to do in her life, taking temp jobs
Puppycat is scolded as a child that if he doesn’t learn to do *something* he’ll end up as a candy collector. Which he does, and fails to do that too when his relationship wrecks his life.
Violet was pulled down along with him. She can’t even live, she’s in a coma!
Deckard is flunking out of cooking school because he can’t bake (yet).
Cas was at the bottom of her boxing league, then forces herself to do software coding, which she doesn’t enjoy.
Toast has now been degraded to the bottom of the league, due to Cas leaving.
Crispin ran away to the circus, and it looks like he’s trying to make art now?
Howell can’t cook like Deckard, so he struggles to keep the cat café in business.
When Tim was flipping through his notebook, it’s revealed that Merlin did not graduate from medical school after all!
I think this show is trying to explain that failure is ok. Taking time for yourself is ok. Pursuing your passions doesn’t guarantee success. Sometimes we have to work jobs we’re good at, but don’t really like to pay the bills. Like Cas’s clock constantly reminds her, WORK OR STARVE! But we never despair for these characters. They find joy with each other. I also like that the show allows time between the chaos to showcase beautiful scenery, characters relaxing, eating yummy food. I’m excited to see more of the series, and where these characters failures take them next!
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lindersliu · 1 year
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a little comic about missing major milestones, feelings of inadequacy, fear of failure, and the brain worms of it all
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queerism1969 · 1 year
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lalicel · 10 months
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flesheatingh0st · 2 years
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classycookiexo · 13 days
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sad-empty-lost · 1 year
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You know you’re fucked when……..you’ve accepted that your life will end by suicide, and you’re okay with it.
That is where I am right now.
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sk-lumen · 2 months
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Be so comfortable making mistakes that instead of seeing failure as a dead-end scenario, you only see it as a redirection to even more growth and success.
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serenityquest · 8 months
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depressed-ravioli · 9 months
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Even if I die I probably would disappoint someone
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loveyourlovelysoul · 3 months
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If you've been highly criticized/yelled at in your past after any sudden decision you've made or if you have been played around or been unappreciated while you were just trying to do something good/nice, the shameful/guilty feeling born at those times may still be lingering inside of you. Anytime you make a sudden decision/choice without asking for confirmation about its nature or give away something from yourself (even something material like eg. a very little amount of money) it makes you wonder if you've done the right thing or if you've been deceived somehow. This happens cause you have unconsciously learnt from similar past experiences that you're "not good enough" or a bit "too stupid/naive" to make good decisions by yourself.
This feeling may have been hindering you also in other situations, like when given an important choice or something similar you may try to avoid taking a final decision without asking for guidance or suggestions to others (generally those who criticized you, like eg. your caregivers), leaving them in charge of your life so that you won't be making mistakes or feel like a failure. But this way, you may end up never really experiencing life as you deserve to. You may end up chosing things you don't want or blocking yourself when given important occasions out of fear to fail and be seen as the usual "stupid" person you were and still are (only in your mind: you're not that for real, ever). You're not stupid nor naive nor any other adjective you have been called/calling yourself: you meant your best and just didn't know what to do exactly or how to act maybe, or you were a bit too impulsive; but you had to try and learn your lesson like that. You were so criticized because you were triggering a trauma in the other person but you had to make that mistake in order to experience life and understand something (and tbh you were very likely made believe that the mistake you made was bigger and much more important than it actually was). Please forgive yourself and remind yourself you have grown and learned all you need to try and protect yourself if that's the case. There's nothing wrong in giving away when done with pure intentions, don't ever feel guilty about it. Even more for giving to yourself.
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queerism1969 · 1 year
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the-joy-of-knowledge · 8 months
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Lessons from failure
I have failed on a small scale and I have failed largely. Some failures still shock me and some, I have gotten over. Here are some lessons I have learned:
Failure could be the beginning or the end of a goal. Only you can figure this out.
Some failures could be predicted.
It is hard to console yourself when you know you are responsible for the failure.
You may fail because you are aiming too low.
To overcome failure, look into the failures of others.
The last thing to do is worry.
You will not get over it, so find a way to get around it.
It will hurt your self-esteem, so seek other ways to repair it.
To minimize the effect of failure, expand your scope.
Don't attach yourself too much to a person, place, or thing.
Try to learn from it while it hurts.
Do not repeat the same mistake.
If you find yourself going through those same cycles, take a break.
Know when to share your failure and when to keep them to yourself.
Best, know who to share them with, let your journal know before your best friend.
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