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#Dark Psychology
kingess · 2 years
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How to love bomb a male
Tangible steps to manipulate men by love bombing them
Love bombing a male is nowhere near as simple as it is a girl, as women often desire an established partnership and oftentimes a family from way earlier ages than men. Men don't come with social expiration dates nor have societal pressure for love, so love bombing them requires deep drilling into their unhealed desires and actual passions. Do understand that mens first and primary goal with you will always be sex. That's the first thing in their mind even if they do want something more as well. Don't let this discourage you to manipulate them past it & override it.
Listen to his life goals and derive knowledge about what need he's trying to fill with that goal or what wound he's trying to patch.
Your job is to be a dopamine rush, learn those things that make him light up with positive emotions and talk about them in different forms.
Make him visualize those things that light him up by telling stories of what you two could do. Does he want to build a house? Talk about tasks you both could do. Does he want to travel Europe? Make up specific imageries of places you two could go to or even talk about yourself as an individual in this fantasy he's just sneakily placed into. Once you plant these images they're like short films he watched and affect him accordingly. Those imageries will activate in his brain when he faces triggers of his dreams & you're right on his mind.
Make him feel special by remembering his favorites and giving him compliments based on his insecurities. If he's been made feel stupid, compliment his intellect, if he feels less accomplished than others make sure to make him feel extraordinarily talented and adept. This will make him feel like you see and know him like no one else does, "the real him", even though it's just his delusional ego stroked through his coping mechanisms.
Try to be genuine with compliments. Identify qualities that are important to him & use them. And never forget to discard him and take it all away from him just when he's started to trust your love.
And hey, Happy hunting babes
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theshadowworker · 4 months
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I must also have a dark side if I am to be whole
- Carl Jung
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jean0farc · 2 months
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STRIPPED
▶︎ TRACK 001.
bad liar | Johan Liebert x Reader
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Banner Credit: @bunnysrph
Content Warnings: manipulation, inexperience, codependency, seeing through people, psychological play, implied nsfw, but still sfw.
“Do you think your sin will disappear when you lie?”
He’s circling me; it was like we were in a tango. His hands were formally placed in the back, and his mind probably wanders while I bow my head out of pure shame. He’s stripped me off of my dignity, I’m unable to form coherent sentences upon uttering what my pride told me to say.
His hand reached for the right areas, he’s being incredibly unfair. His eyes wandered. It was almost as if he saw right through me. This damn monster.
I refused to look back. I had to keep searching, search for a place to stare blankly into oblivion. I wouldn’t dare look back at the monster’s eyes as he cornered me like a hungry predator. But no, he wasn’t just any predator, he’s just playing dangerously innocent. I felt like a small, curious nymph before his gaze; he looks calm, but definitely not pure. This man was definitely far from being pure, I believe he’s hiding something from the untrained eye.
But I just know he got one or two things on his mind.
I bit my lip. My thoughts are filled with nothing but inner despair—I had to be careful with what I chose to mutter.
“I’m not lying, you’re just…..you’re just assuming things about me. I know myself far better than you do, Johan.”
“Johan, huh?” he asked, his bedroom eyes cornering me. I wasn’t looking up at him, but I can feel his haunting lips shape a crooked smile while I could only wish to escape. “Those sweet old memories of me going by that name. I’m quite surprised you’d catch up to me by deciding to pick up my call.”
“I answered your call out of respect,” I replied. “It’s not….it’s not like I like you or anything….”
“Oh? But you’re trembling. Are you perhaps curious? They say curiosity killed the cat, and it seems to me as if I dragged the cat in.”
“What?”
“Don’t play innocent, missy. You know your intentions have been quite obvious.”
“I don’t exactly know what you’re talking about, Johan.” I frowned at his remarks.
“I was just testing the waters. And it turned out that my then assumptions were correct. [Name], let’s be clear. You know very well that no one would want to sleep with you tonight, right?”
“Wha- I never said that!” I exclaimed.
“You never said anything, indeed. In fact, you never really say much. You don’t really do much, [Name].”
“So that means, you just called me for nothing?” I retorted.
He’s pausing. He looked elsewhere. This was my time to run away. He seems defeated. This was my chance. I tried to push him away. Not literally. I tried to deny him. I lifted my foot and stared at the exit.
“Staring into space, little one? Perhaps I can help with that.”
“Let go!” I retaliated. He raised his eyebrow at my response thereafter. “Oh, I’m sorry, I….didn’t mean to frighten you or anything. I just….I don’t know. Do I actually spend the night?”
“Sssshhhh…..you’re not leaving. Spend the night.”
He’s pulling me closer, I try to push him away, but he pulled me in. He’s calm, but his grip was far too strong. Next thing I know, he’s battling for access. I shivered, no fucking way. I struggled against his grasp, not because I didn’t like it, but because of my fears.
What if he’d discard me after this?
He pulled away.
“Such a sensitive, fragile little angel.” Johan smiled, tucking a strand of my hair behind my ear. He smiled. Even his smile was fake. “I’m glad you picked up the phone.”
I frowned at the remark.
“Why the sour face, angel? I just tell it like it is.”
I can’t speak, I can’t retaliate. But he’s got me in a trance, so I gave in. He’s there to show me the ropes, and that’s all I could ever lean on for the rest of my life.
“You’re lying to yourself. Is it a lie you don’t just tell yourself, but to me as well? Too bad. I see through you.”
“I-“
“You’re trembling. Is it because of fear? Or is it simply because you can’t stand one day looking away from me?”
“No.”
“You’re lying once again, so typical of your kind indeed.”
He lowered his voice, he’s being cruel. I tried to object but he pulled me in, and he’s losing his patience. I closed my eyes, not because I didn’t want it to stop.
It felt good, far too good.
The time ticked. I could hear the clock ticking as he slowly, yet skillfully explored every inch of me. Well, not all inches, but just the right amount. It was painfully awkward, but he pulled off our confrontation so well.
Then everything came to a halt.
That intoxicating voice of his spoke once more.
“I guess it’s time for you to reach home. I have one last thing to ask of you before we part ways.”
“What is it, Johan?” I asked.
“Don’t ever make me forget you.”
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thesirencult · 3 months
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YOU NEED PEOPLE LIKE ME / DARK PSYCHOLOGY
You need people like me. You need people like me so you can point your f*****’ fingers and say, “That’s the bad guy.” So what that make you? Good? You’re not good. You just know how to hide, how to lie.
(Tony Montana, Scarface)
Most people can not handle their darker side. They can not handle their ego and their deepest desires. Now, I'm not telling you to become like Tony Montana. He was consumed by his vices and they run the show for him. I'm telling you to do what you what to do and to stop lying to yourself and hiding from your true nature.
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A couple of years ago, I met a girl who had an obsession with finding a wealthy man. She did not care about anything else other than the money. In her defense, she grew up in a poor family where, her dad beat her mom up and he even did that while her mom was pregnant with her.
That girl was studying finance. She took up Arabic and wanted to work for off shore companies where she could find a husband. She specifically told me she wanted her husband to drive a Porsche which has more prestige than a BMW and buy her a BMW cause the woman should be beneath her husband. Overall she was "micey" in character. If you didn't know her you would think she was shy and religious, but. you should know better guys, these people have more ego problems than the most outspoken, egomaniac extrovert.
So, she looked "weak" but had an agenda. She also was trying to give off the "trad wife" vibe but salivated as soon as a man breathed her direction and shamed any woman who showcased her seductiveness.
A few days ago, she messaged me. She wanted to grab a coffee with me as she would be in town. I was surprised when I saw her. In the "kindest" way I can put it, she looked like women who run on every single rally around and fight for justice (nothing wrong with taht, but if you're following me I bet you get what I'm trying to convey). A white girl with Bob Marley braids! Yup, there it is!
She told me she had given up Arabic and no longer wanted to work in a big shipping corporation because that supported big oil and their agenda. She then preached to me about equality and why the left is supreme. Now, I'm pretty straightforward so I asked her, how and why her views changed. She wanted to own 3 cars and be a stay at home mom! She looked outside the window of the coffee shop and saw my parked car.
"Do you see this car?"
I said "Yeah, I see it."
"Whoever drives this car is a right wing egomaniac who doesn't care about the environment and just wants to flaunt their money." (my car is a hybrid you guys!)
"Do you drive?"
"No, I can not afford a license and my family owns only one car. Also, I'm scared of driving. Also, did I tell you I'm running on the elections with the *left wing side*. Will you vote for me? If I make it I'll get 2k per month plus health care benefits."
"That's my car. I was going to ask you, do you want to take the train home or will you ride with me?" I just wanted this meeting to bo over, to tell you the truth.
She came with me.
Wanna know why? Here is my hypothesis (and it ties in with Tony Montana's words):
99% of people give up on their dreams by age 23. In order to make it easier for them and help them soothe the guilt this breeds, they begin to drift to the opposite "side" of the court. Pornstars turn to trad wives. Playboys turn to "faithful" husbands who preach the word of the Lord. Money and power hungry individuals take up boring jobs and blame the rich and the goverment for everything. Men who can not pick up women turn to red pill guys and so on and so forth.
Most people can not handle their darker side. They can not handle their ego and their deepest desires. Now, I'm not telling you to become like Tony Montana, he was consumed by his vices and that's who runs the show. Either you run the show or someone else or something (an addiction) runs it for you.
We see all that often with sex. Body counts, "I can not find a good man/woman" etc. People who can not get what they want hate those that have the GUTS to get it.
If my acquaintance's beliefs are that strong why did she enjoy the drive in the luxury SUV? Why did she then ask me when are we going out again and if I can bring "that" guy friend who runs a tech start up?
Because they are not her beliefs. They are just a cover up. A mask.
We've all seen how happy some people get when a dreamer fails.
So, go one. Fail. You''ll succeed at some point. You're better than those who sit on the sidelines running their mouth.
They would want to be at your shoes. They would want to run free on the court.
Own that. Own yourself and run after your goals and desires. Fuck them.
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sk-lumen · 1 month
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Dark Feminine Energy: Avoid This Common Trap
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Dark feminine energy is a hot topic in 2024.
Since the arising popularity of the femininity wave, awareness of its shadow aspects – dark femininity – followed soon after. This is most noticeable through social media trends like TikTok blowing up with #darkfeminine content and tips, followed by even Vogue articles on this topic that holds such fascination for so many of us.
I believe all women can benefit from tapping into their dark feminine energy. However, I’ve noticed a common misconception about what the dark feminine is about, and many creators (businesses, sites, blogs) are perpetuating this misconception because the toxic angle is more profitable than the self improvement angle.
In short, they’re giving dark feminine energy a bad reputation by claiming it’s all about “using dark psychology tips and tricks to manipulate men, get into their heads and get them to treat you right”.
There are many problematic things with the above. Let’s name a few:
Why it’s problematic to associate DF to manipulation
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You can’t (and shouldn’t) waste your time persuading someone of your worth. It’s not your job to prove yourself. People either appreciate you, or they don’t.
I don’t recommend playing with dark psychology the same reason I don’t recommend playing with black magic. What goes around comes around. However, I support every woman’s freedom of choice, as long as you’re taking ownership for your actions.
It’s yet again male-centered. Instead of being about self improvement or self-discovery, it revolves around… yes, male validation.
Dark femininity is an incredibly empowering tool, and this misconception is leading a lot of girls and women to play games and chase men, instead of leading them into their own power.
A more accurate term for the above trend which revolves around revenge and manipulation is simply “toxic femininity” or the wounded feminine. Yes, the female equivalent of toxic masculinity, because mistakes can be made on either side.
There is nothing feminist or empowering in chasing an ex that mistreated you, and putting on an elaborate show just to convince him you were always his dreamgirl.
Understand that through this, you are giving away your power and relying on another person to validate your...
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hello-kitty101 · 3 months
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Dark Psychology Tricks People Use, so You Can Avoid being Manipulated
3-Step Hot and Cold Technique / Pursuit and Withdrawl / Push and Pull Method / Love Bombing
Build up a pattern of pleasure and validation, making them feel amazing around you.
Break it emotionally and physically by pulling away from them, making them chase after you to get the validation back since they just got addicted to your validation.
Then start validating them again
Insinuation
Hinting that you know something without saying what you know.
Example: If someone says, "I need to tell you something," but then says "nevermind" after you ask what it is.
The Silent Treatment
Distance
Give them the space to think about you and idolize you. This is kind of a two way street
Create Desire
Don't make them feel like they have you 100%
Be There Only Source for a Certain Need
Take them Somewhere like a Horror Film or Amusement Park; Somewhere that will get Their Heart Beating Fast
This gets their adreneline up, thinking they enjoy being with you, rather than the event itself.
Mirroring
Evalute what they need through verbal or physical habits even if not genuine to evaluate what they need in a relationship to bring their guard down even if it isn't genuine.
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neonpixel-pixie · 9 months
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2. love-bombing
The form of emotional manipulation used to gain power over a person by showering them with what appears to be tons of affection and attention.
Typical signs of love-bombing are complimenting, wanting to be around the subject, dramatic professions of love and devotion, bombarding the subject with grand gestures or expensive gifts.
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olikazu · 8 months
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„The only thing all humans are equal in....is death."
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starabxlla · 8 months
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teosketches · 1 year
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When did a dragon ever die from the poison of a snake?
Nietzsche
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arcanumsposts · 11 months
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manifesting my dream body. manifesting my fame. manifesting my dream life. manifesting my career.
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kingess · 1 year
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Inspired by the dozen of anons the spiritually psychotic lady sent,
I'd like to share another chef's kiss manipulation hack with you;
Keep track of the insults the desired target uses when they're triggered.
Towards you, or someone else. Even if he's not directly verbally abusive the things he looks down upon on you or others will slip through. That's his insecurity.
When we're flustered or triggered or even just stressed and the aggression leaks out, our brain's first motive is to attack emotionally, to keep us safe. Most people aren't quick or deranged enough to hurt others with what hurts the opponent specifically custom taylored routinely. The brain asks 'what's hurtful?' and picks what your unique experience has concluded most hurtful; Aka your insecurities.
This in mind you can bring him up, or tear him down effortlessly & innocently when suitable.
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theshadowworker · 4 months
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Take care when battling your demons that you don't banish the best thing about you
- Friedrich Nietzsche
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101-darkpsych · 6 months
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Your excuses just gave someone else the opportunity.
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thesirencult · 2 months
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ON GREED
Know when enough is enough.
In all aspects of your life.
There are people who always want more.
More money, more attention, more power, more sex...
These people will never be happy.
Know that there must be "a spot of satisfaction' for you. The spot where when you exceed that it's just a surplus, additional profit.
Getting rid of greed will help you advance. You will be happier, not because you will gain more, but because you'll know you don't NEED more.
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harmony-and-peace · 7 months
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💙✨4 podstawowe potrzeby psychiczne i skutki ich zaniedbania w dzieciństwie✨💙
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