Tumgik
#DONT EXPECT SHIT FROM ME
sweet-potato-42 · 30 days
Text
in such a situation lets remember how to adress this stuff
obvious main priority is supporting victims and speaking out about the things that allowed this to happen. Support Shelby and Lexie and everyone else who is hurt by the abusers
be careful on what you pressure other ccs to do. Dont pressure for a statement especially if they might have experienced stuff themselves. Expect them to stop showing support for Wilbur by unfollowing and no longer mentioning him. Dont pressure people into making a full statement and especially dont pressure them to tell personal stories
Remember we dont know these people we are just viewers. Be carefull with speculation. Ive seen a lot of people speculating about who wilbur might have been manipulative to in terms of friends.
Give ccs some time to see and react to the accusations and response. However dont go overboard and expect them to respond at some point. If a long time passes and they are still ignoring the situation while everyone else has unfollowed or spoken about it then its odd.
Dont be parasocial these peoples job is to be public figures they know that people watch their every move and will notice when they support someone.
If someone speaks out and tells a story then supprot them well and listen to what they have to say
I do admit earlier in the heat of the moment and fear for what would be revealed i did not get this across properly for what to expect from a cc. I will be more mindful of my phrasing in the future. I do want people to be carefull in general and not take advantage of reasonable comments to use as excuses for other ccs though
89 notes · View notes
hella1975 · 1 year
Text
it's been pointed out on here before that a lot of terf arguments are actually rooted in sexist idealology that feminists fought and died to unnormalise decades ago and that's its own kettle of fish but one thing i also find very frustrating about this so called 'radical' feminism is that it's so... defeatist? like the moment you categorically label an entire section of society as Bad and Inherently Evil then there's also the implication that nothing can be done about it, and it completely takes all accountability away. saying all men are evil is just another way of saying boys will be boys. he raped her because he's a man. he hit her because he's a man. he didn't listen because he's a man - it's almost offensively oversimplified. there's no point trying to fix this issue in society because men are just Like That, okay! so now what? it's not like they're going anywhere, so you just accept that 50% of the population are evil and will forever treat you terribly and there's nothing to be done about it bc they're biologically predisposed to it? like is that fr the argument here? you're soooo radical for that
#this is coming from someone who used to very genuinely be a misandrist#ironically it was only when i started actually analysing my own feminism that i got MORE confrontational with men#and started respecting my boundaries a lot better BECAUSE i started holding them accountable again#like when men treat me like shit nowadays i dont just write it off as 'what did you expect? he's a man' i get MAD about it#because i EXPECT BETTER FROM THEM even if it's just tiny shit women have to deal with daily#i hold them to just as high a standard as im held to and i make them take accountability when they dont meet that#and whether you realise it or not even on a subconscious level the MOMENT you black-and-white blanket statement all men as bad#you stop holding them accountable.#like it is literally just boys will be boys. do terfs seriously not realise they're sending feminism BACKWARDS#like if a girl came to me with her trauma and people - other girls no less - tried to comfort her with 'yeah all men are evil'#id be fucking furious. like no he did that because he was a piece of shit that had it normalised to him that women arent to be respected#dont you dare let him off the hook with something as simple and uncritical as 'he's a man'#i promise you men like that will MUCH prefer a blanket statement such as 'all men are as bad as each other'#than actually being point blank told they're an abuser or a rapist. because being lumped together is comfortable and even empowering#wheras isolating their behaviour with words that are Bad and Ugly (LIKE 'rapist') is not comfortable at all and has heavy connotations#idk i dont think radical feminism is always bad on its own it can be v liberating. just terfs and misandrists that i have a problem with#dropping this post in a piranha tank and closing tumblr knowing im gonna have some thirty year old karen yelling at me within 5 mins#i probably wont respond to any terf comments bc they literally mentally exhaust me with their stupidity#but that also depends on my mood and ability to keep my mouth shut LMFAO we shall see
510 notes · View notes
Photo
Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media
HARRY’S HOUSE by HARRY STYLES Released in May 20th, 2022. (inspo.)
365 notes · View notes
urostakako · 3 months
Text
Tumblr media
i have nothing new i want to share... have a wallpaper...
[ID: A drawing of Satoru, Shoko, and Suguru from Jujutsu Kaisen. Suguru and Satoru have their arms slung around Shoko’s shoulders, who smiles around a cigarette in her mouth and whose hands are in her pockets. Suguru, on Shoko’s right, makes a three-fingered peace sign with his right hand and leans slightly down. Satoru has his legs crossed and his left arm up in a fist, mouth open in a smile. In hiragana written above them is Sashisu! (さしす). ]
139 notes · View notes
shivasdarknight · 3 months
Text
Tumblr media Tumblr media
(link)
And speaking of biphobia. OP - Dehya - is now fully locked after receiving an onslaught of harassment that mostly consisted of victim blaming because she's bisexual, shit like this, and overall no support from any queer outside of the bisexual community.
And unsurprisingly, the comments of support are exclusively bisexuals while everyone else remains quiet.
"Why couldn't we tell X was bad"
Because you thought their biphobia was funny and used it as a launching point to harass bisexuals out of your community. I see it here, on twt, and on tiktok where people boast about abusing bi partners.
Because the only ones speaking up about this are bisexuals because none of y'all fucking give a shit.
also who couldve guessed that "lea_labryssal" was a bitch 🤔 yet people love welcoming radfems into your spaces when it's time to hurt bi women again
73 notes · View notes
nukbody · 5 months
Note
i see you fellow syfyn simp 🫡
The way i am so obsessed with this unapologetic furious awkward orey-eye when she gives me the littlest hope just to break my heart once and once again 😭
Tumblr media
70 notes · View notes
mothcpu · 1 year
Text
Tumblr media Tumblr media
been playing lobcorp again
291 notes · View notes
cake-nastyy · 1 month
Text
Tumblr media
ghosts or not, this man is F L E X I B L E EEEEEEEEEE
38 notes · View notes
jabberwockprince · 8 months
Text
Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media
apparently it's way easier to plan scenes and plotpoints for a fanfic if i draw them first, so here we are <3 featuring me rambling abt this scene under the cut!!
i was specifically thinking about Haym and Rikki's entire relationship?
especially very early on, right when Rikki is properly assigned as Neon J's apprentice and whatnot. this was meant to be the moment Rikki realizes they're not coping very well with leaving Ban behind in Beachside Archipelago, and how they're actually gravitating towards Haym because of how similar he feels to Ban - yknow. being the same model and all
cause Rikki has some serious issues with needing absolute control over every aspect of their life. and right now, they're stuck with a job they don't exactly care for, trying desperately to suck up to Neon J so he'll actually promote Rikki to a DECENT job designing security bots for Vinyl City, not BABYSITTING 1010
(which isn't even babysitting, moreso than being monitored 24/7 in a localized space where they can't be shady since Neon J doesnt. trust them. at all. for various valid reasons)
so witnessing Haym pull some stupid but well-meaning stunt to force Rikki show off how good they are at fixing and repairing shit makes Rikki go????
A LITTLE FERAL????
BECAUSE THEY UNCONSCIOUSLY PROJECT ALL THEIR UNRESOLVED FEELINGS ABOUT BAN ONTO HAYM
but they only realize this when their body shuts down and cannot act the way they would've wanted, seeing Haym entirely fucking wrecked being very similar to how they found Ban when they first met makes them spiral a little
Haym doesn't even KNOW he's not the original Yellow model, he has his suspicions but is overall kept in the dark. befriending Rikki is something he does entirely out of genuine curiosity, motherfucker has no clue he's in the middle of a 4 year long unresolved break-up between two losers who are constantly pining after each other both romantically and platonically
im thinkingggg Haym might be seeking out Rikki's presence mostly because he's noticed that they treat him slightly different than the others. not necessarily better, just different enough to get him curious. so the need to build an identity away from 1010 as a group/unit and his inherent curiosity just gets him into this mess
77 notes · View notes
nerdyqueerr · 7 months
Text
Got an incredible kit screenshot today
Tumblr media
44 notes · View notes
frozenfishfillet · 1 year
Text
Rewatching hxh cannot see how anyone could hate gon hes so interesting . Never understood people who thought he was boring or generic
161 notes · View notes
cometblaster2070 · 1 year
Text
you know something that was never addressed in both ever after high and monster high; something that has bugged me for a very long time:
Cupid
cupid is something and someone who has never been properly addressed in both of the shows and worlds she is part of.
who is chariclo arganthone cupid?
she’s the adopted daughter of eros, yes, but what exactly does that even mean?
her adopted father is literally the primordial force of procreation.
was she a mortal? a demigod? was she turned into a god by eros? was she already a god? who abandoned her? how did she even come to be adopted by eros?
cupid is something of a goddess; yet she attended high schools in two different world that no one is supposed to even know about.
cupid has unthinkable power.
she can literally control the way people feel.
she’s also a bone elemental, and while im honestly not exactly too sure about what that means, it sounds horrifying in the sense that she can probably control bones.
cupid is an enigmatic figure with endless power and everyone should be rightfully terrified of her.
208 notes · View notes
give-grian-rights · 8 months
Text
i'm normal <- spent 150 dollars buying hermitcraft cards
52 notes · View notes
junotter · 8 months
Text
what i think is the reason I'm Just Ken is a good/as popular as it is is because the way it somehow explores both what its like to be a woman and man just through ken.
like the line "I'm just Ken. Anywhere else I'd be a ten." just feels very hitting as a woman in a social media world, especially if you've seen the truerateme subreddits and the ways they judge women.
and of course the fragility and inability to find meaning/self worth outside of a romantic relationship due to the strict boxes placed on men and male relationships (and even friendships between men and women).
theres more and i know im getting annoying with the barbie posts but i did really like the movie, regardless of how "bland" its feminism is. also just all the chronically online feminists complaining about how basic it is, like oh should we tell everyone? Should we throw a party? should we invite andrea dworkin.
like is it perfect? no. does it lack in intersectionality and have poc characters act as the support to white characters? yes. should ken probably of apologized? yeah. but many things can be true about one movie.
43 notes · View notes
elegyofthemoon · 1 month
Text
shaking and crying please free me
14 notes · View notes
piplicious · 6 months
Text
ok guys weather report :
likely a few more days without art or much activity coming bc while i got used to juggling uni+job+job, i now have shit ton of documentation to do after unis teachinf practise shit fuck fuck penis fuck period and boy is it not fun.
22 notes · View notes