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cyberbun · 4 months
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genuine q what is it about polyamory that you like so much? no offense but theres no reason to do that other than more sex afaik.
I get that to the average singlet polyamory is just an excuse for Threesomes And Beyond on the reg but to me polyamory is three to four people thrown onto a bed shooting the shit over a dumb youtube video. It's dumb injokes born out of exhausted late night conversations. It's board game night and movie night and anime night and gaming online late into the night when people are far away.
It's about companionship. Too me.
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carriongoat64 · 3 months
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plurality experience rambling under the cut
weve been mulling over what we'd say to someone if they asked us what our plurality is like, or how it works. so far the best we've come up with is that it's like a slider between disco elysium style (everyone is present and speaking and controlling to some extent) and singularity (one person is fronting, silence from the rest) depending on circumstances and Randomness. there is definitely always one front, and that switches more or less often throughout the day but usually many times. if we're doing fucking bad, we're more likely to be less DE mode up to a point where we snap straight to singularity, or maybe only one of us shrivels up and disappears for a while. we like to think of it as them sleeping, we say good morning to them when they come back. above doing bad we're basically always DE mode except for those days where only one of us wakes up and the rest stay in bed all day. theres no real way to tell when this will happen afaik, we keep it polite but its always sad. external loneliness is nasty but internal loneliness feels like being hollow. where did my dog girlfriend and my big brother and my dog (dog) go? Who really knows, its my turn to drive the car all day or until one of them comes back, dont think about it too hard. they dont have any memories of what happened, they didnt participate and they need to be caught up. another thing is memories, its kinda like private folders or hard drive partitions. we cant really know what the others do in singularity mode, in DE mode its more flowing but we'll still have to ask depending. its a spectrum, so it depends, its somewhat rare but i can remember their experiences as if they were my own if we're in the right headspace for it. meditation and opening a text doc to type to each other helps a lot with organizing too. we're pretty vigilant about catching up because like. this is a sort of disability, and if we're having a singlet day at work and only a sleeping headmate knows what the fuck we're supposed to be doing from yesterday we're screwed. work usually tilts us towards singularity too because it just fucking sucks so god damn bad. as for what plurality is like, feelings wise, it's fuckin nice. Penny's happy about it because it doesn't have to be so damn alone all the time and it knows who "the voices" are now. i like it because i was just "the motherly voice that keeps "me" from hurting "myself" too badly" and now i get to actually be an individual. hierarchy is... he's pretty ambivalent, would like not to be a "headmate", would rather be a separate individual. he's fine though, he likes us and gets along well with lunes. lunes is a dog, there's nothing more to it than that. we've had hints of a fifth fronting, they seem completely brand new. like no prior consciousness, almost a sort of amnesiac. they front very occasionally and they always get overwhelmed and go away fast. i try to help, they don't seem to understand why a voice is introducing herself to them in their head. maybe they'll figure it out someday idk. for now they're just the stranger that stares blankly around our room trying to figure out what's going on before disappearing for another few weeks. hierarchy's been a great new addition/realization because he's like... he's like a big emo bear brother who always knows the right answer and can calm penny and i down when shit heads south. and he's better at taking care of lunes than either me or penny. you'd think the dog connection with penny would help but they mostly just rile each other up lol.. it's cute. we've been made significantly happier with our discovery of plurality and it's made life easier in a lot of ways. we used to be so destructive to each other because we didnt even know we were different, didn't know we weren't "just, like, textbook insane". life got harder as we figured this stuff out, but that was just the transmisogyny dam breaking in our local support system. overall its been very positive ♥️
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ratwavegamehouse · 1 year
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Hello, Kayla! I'm a singlet (afaik) and a big TTRPG lover, with a median plural partner who's also a big TTRPG lover. We're both& very excited to play your game Forecaster, and hella grateful to have a piece of not dangerously stereotypical plural media to enjoy together!!
But there was another game of yours with plural rep that I've been hella excited to play and/or introduce to my partner for years - Plural Witchcraft Highland Rampage. I thought getting to be members of an ass-kicking Scottish witch system with her would be super fun ^^ To my surprise, tho, when I went looking for my copy this evening to show it to her, I found it'd been scrubbed from my Itch library, and the rest of the Internet too. I could find no announcement of the game's unpublishing, and hardly any acknowledgement that it ever existed.
Is it alright if I ask what happened, and why it was taken down?
Hi! Thank you for the kind words
I need to amend the credits on Plural Witchcraft Highland Rampage as I changed my name which is why it's down. I'll try and have that back up this week (apologies for the disappointment)
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eudaemoniasystem · 5 months
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Welcome
Hi there! If you're reading this you have made it to the Eudaemonia Archives, a place in which we put our brain stuff in one place and hopefully make some new system/respectful singlet friends.
About us/BYF
Refer to us collectively as Dae, They/Them pronouns
Collective identity is Queer, Genderfluid-flux, Asexual-spec, Abrosexual/Abroromantic. Headmate identities vary, ask if curious/unsure
We are a polyfragmented DID system, Bodily an adult. We do suffer with extreme time-loss, so forgive us for our lack of consistency
We are neurodivergent
We do suffer with other mental health issues, which we will not disclose, please respect our privacy
We will not participate in syscourse, and if brought to our page, will result in instantly blocking.
There will likely be vent posts on this account, we will do our best to tag all major triggers. Please do not ask us to warn for things that will not affect a lot of people, thats just a hassle for us and, in the nicest way possible, you should remove yourself from our page if it triggers you. Yes, this is a safe space, but we will not limit our own freedom to say what we want.
Speaking of the content of this blog, there will be a range, from system experiences, to just wierd thoughts, to random infodumping, anything and everything will go here
Feel free to ask anything, or even just have a chat! We love hearing about other people's interests and hobbies! Feel free to infodump!
We do not always sign off, but our pronouns will always be listed somewhere
We swear, like a lot, and it will not be tagged, if you don't like that, dont follow.
Feel free to correct us on anything as long as you do so respectfully and informatively (example: If we accidentally use a slur, please explain to us why it's a slur or direct us to a resource where we can read up on it)
DNI List
Racist, Xenophobic, ect ect
Homophobic, Transphobic, Enbyphobic
The above includes people who hate one/think neopronouns & xenogenders are cringe, let people exist please
People who create thier own "systems", it fucking sucks to share a body sometimes, why would you want that. (Goes double if you use the word Tulpa, because afaik thats cultural appropriation) (if you "created" your own "system", imo, you're roleplaying, im sorry, thats just how most of us see it)
Syscourse
Dont think introjects are real/Valid
Invalidate fictive heavy systems
To be honest, any kind of fakeclaiming, gtfo this page
Dissing our special interests
Asking about our trauma, We do not owe you anything
Think people are problematic for liking problematic content (when they are aware and dislike that its problematic. Example: We enjoy the harry potter series, We still consume the media because it was nostalgic for us, WE DO NOT agree with JK Rowlings views and accept that parts of the story are an awful representation to certain groups of people)
Call people cringe in a non-jokey manner
All that being said, once again, welcome, and enjoy your time here should you choose to stay
Here are some tags we may use
#Eudaemonia Intros - Headmate intro posts
#Eudaemonia Gen - Random thoughts, General stuff
#Eudaemonia Chaos - Silly posts, Memes, Incorrect/Actual quotes
#Eudaemonia Vents - Self explanatory, these will have a warning for content if needed, then a read more bar
#Eudaemonia Info-Central - Infodumps. will have a read more bar after the subject matter
#Eudaemonia Appreciation - Gushing, Appreciation and stuff along those lines
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moogghost · 2 years
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like ik things are. certainly getting better in terms of inclusion with good-faith queer identities but. man i'd be lying if i said i felt completely safe being outright open about my personal labels thanks to the huge spike of exclusionism last year. and it's really hard to feel completely safe sharing some of those labels because i'm a system, and most people ik and talk to regularly are singlets afaik. which...yeah, that's not a problem but whenever i do talk about system stuff it's just extremely alienating, especially considering that my system is introject heavy (like. seriously we have three pmtok introjects). and ik that can't be helped but it's just. yeah
because honestly i'm not even sure sometimes how open to be about it or which is safer. do i risk it by just being open about our collective labels and leaving things at that? or be more open about being a system and end up being treated like it's just roleplay (it's. not lmfao), being considered just alters (i. hate that word so much we don't even have a host and it implies we do!), and/or not being taken as seriously because we don't function like other systems do.
...and i mean, it's also the really bad paranoia but also? yeah. like i get that i shouldn't care as much but like...it's kind of hard not to when a solid chunk of my trauma comes from what happened in the wof fandom last year relating to exclusionism and terf rhetoric.
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ablednt · 3 years
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I don't want to connect my main to posts about being plural bc I'm not out (yet) but re: the post about experiencing pluralphobia as part of abuse/unhealthy relationships: I have experienced that! I don't trust singlets with much, anymore, nowadays.
We out here 😔 I posted that instead of my other post i was typing of "hey maybe all the numerous callout posts in existence against random systems that have The Works(tm) all listed without much evidence that also so happen to usually fakeclaim them or bring up the fact they're a system in some way are disingenuous or at the very least exaggerated" but then I wondered if this brand of harassment is as widespread as it feels
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Heyo, I’m a new mod on this blog! It’s very nice to meet you all! I’m going to be posting interactions between me and the Jellybeans (like funny things that have happened that they forgot)
Anywayz, I thought I’d pop in to say hi :)
-“Editorial”
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the-furies · 3 years
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I'm actually 100% done with singlets.
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izzyliker · 6 years
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one of my like weirdest pastimes is reading callout posts from like 2013 like i couldn’t tell you why but they’re oddly entertaining because that’s the era of Kin Callouts and people calling others out for completely innocuous things. what i can’t however handle are callouts where all the accusations are like “this person fakes their system” and then the proof is like “i, the op, am a singlet and don’t actually know anything about did or osdd but i decided that this person is faking their whole god damn system because they have an alter that’s mean to me”
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just-antithings · 2 years
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Wait I’m confused- I’ve followed this blog for a bit and never really thought about it, are all the mods part of one system? (And if they are now, were they always?)
nah ur good
there are a couple mods on here and who were on here a bit back who were systems, but erin, noodle, jay, gatito, and i are all singlets afaik
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a-dragons-journal · 2 years
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hi i just want to say, as an endogenic system, you as a singlet (afaik lol) being so aggressively pro-endo is just. so nice. thank you /gen
o/ Good to hear, I appreciate that. I'm doin my best to do the right thing, that's all, and in my opinion, in this genre of Disk Horse that usually starts with believing people when they tell me about their subjective internal experiences rather than assuming they're lying because it seems too unbelievable or doesn't initially match up with what I already knew about psychology.
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fictionkinfessions · 2 years
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@post/678229393645125632 technically yes but also no? headspace in the sense that alters can interact with it, yes that's did/plural specific. headspace in 'there's a world in my head'/daydreaming/imagination? no, that's an everyone thing afaik. i'm a singlet so grain of salt obvi but i have friends w/ did, and that's what i've been told by them so!
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dear-systems · 3 years
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Hey, I (singlet afaik) recently started looking into DID/system information because I wanted to be a good friend to anyone part of a system, but then I saw some really relatable information... I'm well over the age most systems seem to become aware they are systems though, so I wanted to ask if it's possible for people to not know they're part of a system for a really long time? (Also I'm sorry if I worded anything poorly, I'm still learning aldkskd)
Oh, definitely!
It's getting more and more common for systems to realize they're plural from a younger age because of an increase in information, and younger systems tend to be more active in online spaces, so it makes it look like there's more of them. It's actually far more common to be well into adulthood by the time the host realizes. Especially for DID systems, realization often comes after some sort of major life change, like going to university or the birth of a child. Many systems don't realize until they're retired.
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jungledubs-archive · 3 years
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Hi hullo do you know any more blogs focused on mcyt stimboards that do requests? I've already followed mcytintroject-haven but since I'm a singlet i can't request (that would just be disrespectful) so i was wondering if you knew anyone that isn't introject focused?
Sure do! These aren’t all strictly MCYT but these are all great blogs that will do requests for MCYT stimboards (when they have requests open ofc) afaik :]
@meowdy-howdy, @slendysicksystem, @catboy-on-main, @slimeystimss, @stim-smp, @hoglin-stims, @the-far-lands-sys, and @smpstims!
(sorry for the tags everyone, just wanted to provide a quick link to your blogs!)
enjoy, anon!
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nat-stimmy · 2 years
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gotta-stim is ALSO an (afaik) singlet who regularly reblogs from strongly anti-endo and anti-mspec gay+lesbian blogs -_- and several panphobes *sighs* the fucking audacity of these blogs..... help
note before i continue: is this gottastim or gotta-stim bc those are both very different blogs KDFJLJDFKLS gotta-stim seems to only reblog from one blog gottastim is already known to me as an aspec + mogai exclusionist, thats why I stopped using their gifs (i hadn't known before but Hoo Boy Do I Know Now) so if thats who u were talking abt then . yeah that tracks
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exosupport · 2 years
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got any tips for homesickness? i miss my source, a lot. i’ve been watching some of it, and listening to music that reminds me of home and my loved ones, but that just seems to be wallowing which hasn’t really helped.
Yes we have some tips!
1. This one only applies if you're plural or interested in becoming plural (the others will assume you're singlet to be accessible) but it's possible to try and recreate places from your home and to form your friends and family in system. There's not a whole lot of formal guides but we did this (albeit unintentionally) mostly by roleplaying and writing a lot, but in general visualization and training your brain to have these things can be a big help as well.
2. Create something! The reason I wrote and roleplayed a lot was because I, still thinking they were just fictional/having no idea what exomemories were, desperately missed my sourcemates but writing about them made them feel much closer and also often brought me closure. It doesn't have to be something like writing or drawing though, you can make moodboards or edits or playlists and a lot of other things like that. Anything that brings you a sense of closeness with them.
3. Talk about them to someone! I cannot stress enough how important it is to make friends who enjoy talking about exomemory related things with you. I got lucky and have two sourcemates outside of the system but I also have a few other friends who aren't sourcemates but who also have exomemories and we share them with each other. This helps you get things off your chest (even good memories will make you feel lonely if you have no one to talk to about them) and is really fun in general.
4. This one is more of a side note and not something I've personally done so it comes with the caveat that you need to look into it a lot first to see if you're comfortable with it and make sure you're being safe/responsible but you could possibly try reality shifting since it's used as a coping mechanism for this sort of thing often. Not everyone believes in it or feels comfortable trying it though so it's perfectly fine if this won't work out for you.
5. If you don't already you could potentially try neuronarrating (i don't know much about how the community describes it but afaik it's the nondisorded version of MADD) I don't know very much about this other than it's a form of daydreaming and there's a lot of unique vocabulary for it but from what I can tell the communicaties accepting and chill.
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