#(see quote: I'm sonewhere on the ace spectrum)

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I FEEL THIS IN EVERY SINGLE ONE OF MY VEINS

Ily eva lemme hug you!!! 🥰 It's great to know I'm not alone in this ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤

I used to be so anxious about not knowing my labels. It kind of made me feel like i was somehow faking not being straight especially as a teenager 😬 these days I'm much more relaxed and it feels great

Like, I'm definitely wlw but also *whispers* am i 100% the "w" in that equation? Not sure Definitely on the ace spectrum too but where? No idea. Also sometimes i have male fictional crushes is there even a name for that? Ah ykw? Fuck it I'm queer ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 

That's why the queer label is so great. Humans are much too complex to fit into need little boxes or even if they do somehow fit, we change!

I just want to live my life yk? And I don't want to spent it trying to squeeze myself into boxes

#this is very personal #if you feel you fit exactly into one label or the other #this is NOT an attack on you!! #i also have some labels #(see quote: I'm sonewhere on the ace spectrum) #but at a certain point #After years of questioning myself #queer as a label is so incredibly liberating #this answer turned into more of a rant than i intended eva #sorry 😅 #i just wanted to tell you I'm hugging you and that's it but then it escalated #but on that topic: so you also feel like this is slmehow easier in english than in german? #it seems like most of the words we have to describe ourselves are english #i always say I'm queer even in germany #and that's fine with most people 30 and younger but i had to explain it to my mum and her husband first #anyway ly and i hope your weekend was nice 😅🥰 #personal #sophie rambles #ask #xiaodaozhang #nice people #queer stuff