this one is more on the serious side. I don't believe wangxian would have worked out before the time skip, not without some serious character development first. In cql, it might have taken a bit less of it because there was an actual basis of friendship there (which was lacking in the novel) but in both cases, wwx and lwj were not in a place where they could have made a relationship work (even if, say, wwx stumbled upon lwj's secret diary in which he professed his undying love or smth).
I'll focus on the novel here because I find it easier to articulate my point on its basis than on the show's because of the way certain consent issues had to be toned down in the drama. Because I think consent is what it boiks down to: Wei Wuxian frequently sacrifices his own needs for other people, people he loves or at the very least cares about, whithout asking them if such a sacrifice would even be welcome. On the other hand, Lan Wangji has a very hard time separating his love and his desires (and I don't just mean sexual desires I also mean the need to hold the things he loves close to the point of constraint). The phoenix-mountain kiss being at the very least dub-con is not an accident (there is some great mers on thus topic out there) Neither is the fact that when he is worried about Wei Wuxian, his solution is to hold him close and help him in the way he sees fit to do, instead of asking Wei Wuxian something like "hey i notice you struggling. How can I help?"
Neither of them is in a position to even consider the other one's point of view: wei wuxian because he a) does not realise that lwj cares about him and b) feels like he cannot be helped anyway and lan wangji because he is unable to communicate his feelings effectively probably on account of them being tangled with parts of himself he tries to suppress.
The only reason they work in the present timeline is that they are in a place where they are able to comprehend that there is even a need for communication between them and even then it takes them some time to figure put how to do that
(Rant over. This got longer than i wanted ot to be and i still don't feel like i effectively got my point across)
they get so many children! LOT'S of them. Every orphaned child whose parent's were killed by the latest ghost of the week gets taken into their flock until they have to build their own house because there isn't enough space in the jingshi (and also the rest of the CR was complaining about the noise)
Getting serious again, i feel like lan wangji would have a hard time communicating his needs after they first get together and start living together. Let's set aside sex (because mxtx set them up to have magically perfectly aligning kinks in the novel. I'm not hating i just fins it vaguely funny ^^) but even like, every day things. I feel like lan wangji would have a hard time admitting that "what makes wei ying happy also makes me happy" isn't always the case, even to himself. I feel like his guilt about having not been able to save wwx, paired with the sheer relief of having him back would lead him to agree to what wwx plans by default. Not to mention that our dude has so many abandonment issues
In my head, this would probably lead to their first (kinda) fight. Because wei wuxian would notice, after lan wangji had already agreed to a certain activity or course of action, that he is not actually happy with it and then he'd confront him (because yk, at that point they want to communicate and know that they have to. It's just still hard)
Do you see a pattern here? Yup, my #1 kink is healthy communication :D
What i already wrote for spleencanon kind of covers this but in the interest of variety: I junkcanon that both of them are into sensory deprivation and they only discover the fact that lwj is into it too because wei wuxian once covered his eyes and ears to lead him to a surprise (maybe bd? Who knows) and lwj got horny and thought it was foreplay 😬
For real tho, i know that theres gonna be at least a bit of a time jump between ffh and nwh since ffh took place in the summer and from what we've seen of the set there is at least 1 scene in nwh that takes place around chrismas (+ taking into consideration its release date etc) but there have also been mentions that this movie will start off right after that ffh end credit scene??? But no matter that, how will they explain this difference and how are we supposed to believe that peter went through the whole
"I'll have her home by 8" -> "she calls me daddy too" transformation in that time? Nah bro. I aint bying it 😭🤣 and to think they had cast tom so he could grow up with peter ahaha *pain*
None of this made any sense did it? I'm just word vomiting all over the place 🙏 excuse moi
You're fine, you're fine! I'm betting on loose clothes that somehow they make look ok, that's the usual method as far as I know. Hair and makeup also change how you see someone, so that helps. And camera angles! They have all the techniques and know-how at their disposal, z 😂
There were alleged set vids + casting calls asking for certain members of the crowd when Pete is in NYC with mj at the end of ffh that suggest that there will be at least one directly after the end of ffh, so I'm expecting a scene right after ffh. If it doesn't happen, I'll be upset 😁 I don't want it to be only about Peter dealing with the aftermath of his name reveal, I wanna see the whole angsty process of him having to hide and lie and cheat :((
Edit: hahahaha "grow into Peter", just noticed this 😂 someone clearly miscalculated that, sorry Sony, Peter's gonna have to catch up and fast!
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