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dino-boyo-agere · 4 months
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Hey little one!
Oh, you had a bad day? I'm really sorry to hear that.
There's no need to apologize, sweetheart. It's okay to cry. It's okay to be upset, just let it all out.
You wanna hug baba? That's right, it's okay.
Look, baba got your favorite plushie! Let's hug them too, as tight as we can, yeah?
Do you want baba to put more pressure on your body? Wrap you up tight in my arms?
You don't have to be sorry, it's okay. I love you. I love you so much.
Thank you for trusting me. I'll hold you till you feel better.
I'm not going anywhere, I'm here for you.
Baba is always going to be here for you, darling.
You're so lovable. You're worth the world. You're my world, little one.
I'm here with you. Yes, and with plushie.
Oh, was that a giggle? No? It's okay, you can giggle and still be sad. You can giggle and still cry. Feelings are complicated. But we got this.
You got this. And I got you.
You're so brave. I'm proud of you. Dealing with all those big feelings.
Baba is so proud!
.゚。.・.*.゚☆❗only interact if your blog is SFW❗☆ ゚.*.・. 。゚.
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meidui · 2 months
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Sorry I called you a 'good boy' in public. I just wanted to watch your brain short circuit.
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tiredyke · 1 year
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every time queer discourse surges on this site everyone is so quick to jump to “it was actually the evil lesbians who divided us” because y’all heard the term “political lesbian” and never bothered to figure out what that meant
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bunnelbaby · 4 months
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Regressing or dreaming due to stress does not make you or your headspace impure.
Regressing or dreaming due to anxiety does not make you or your headspace impure.
Regressing or dreaming due to trauma does not make you or your headspace impure.
Regressing or dreaming due to mental, physical or emotional health reasons does not make you or your headspace impure.
Regressing or dreaming due to overstimulation/understimulation does not make you or your headspace impure.
Regressing or dreaming due to anger or frustration does not make you or your headspace impure.
Regardless of what your reason is for entering your headspace, there is no such thing as regressing/dreaming impurely as this is a coping mechanism meant to help you.
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msgexymunson · 5 months
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This praise kink is getting out of control.
I had my wisdom tooth removed. Long story short, it shattered when I was chewing gum, so the next day I got the rest removed.
The dentist was OK. I mean, he seemed nice; big smile, clean cut, fresh faced. But the WORDS.
"Just breathe for me."
"That's it, doing such a good job."
"That's so good, you're so brave."
"Look at you, doing so well."
"I know that's uncomfortable, I'll be as quick as I can. I know you can feel me in your mouth right here." 🫣
"Good girl." 🫠
"Look at that, so good for me, well done for taking it so well."
He asked if I was OK to leave but the blood was rushing to my head so he sat me down for a little while and kept saying stuff and I DIED.
"That's it, remember to breathe."
"I know it's a lot, just take your time." 🥵
"You did so good sweetheart."
Anyway, apparently I now have a thing for dentists.
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puppys-tiny-space · 4 months
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🖍️Tips for tinies that struggle with hypersexuality🖍️
First of all it is completely valid and fine to struggle with hypersexuality while regressed or before regressing. This can be for any number of reasons and all of them are okay! It does not make you any less valid or precious. You deserve healing, love and gentleness. I will also be making a post for affirmations to deal with impure regression and hypersexuality.
🧮stop regressing if you need to, if intrusive thoughts or feelings get too much stop regressing, take a break from it, clear your head and calm down🧮
🧃do affirmations, remind yourself that you are precious, your regression is healing, you are clean and deserving of love🧃
🖍️avoid triggers, if you know what triggers hypersexuality try to avoid them extra hard while small, if it is not having close skin contact, not wearing tight close or whatever🖍️
🧮don't be shy to cope, cope however you need to, let out your painful feelings, scream, break things, run or write whatever helps you let it out do it🧮
🧃do not act on it, do not act on intrusive thoughts or feelings no matter how much you think it might help it won't, it won't make them go away it will make it worse🧃
🖍️journal, journal about your feelings, about what hurts and what helps, build skills that work for you, they don't have to be what other people do, it is your healing and nobody else's🖍️
🧃talk it trough, talk about your feelings with somebody, be it a therapist or somebody you trust, you deserve a safe space🧃
🧮teach yourself, teach yourself you do not need to do sexual things to deserve love and kindness, you have a right to gentleness and to being fragile, you don't have to be pure to be loved🧮
🖍️don't compare yourself, comparing yourself with others is never a good idea especially not with this, it might feel like you are alone with this issue but you are not, others struggle with it but most regressors don't talk about it as it's a very personal thing🖍️
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Fun fact of the day: you can tell the difference between rocks and fossils by licking them
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laur-the-cat-prince · 4 months
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… my brain is disrespectful to this puppet.
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cinderellasfella · 5 months
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Chris Hemsworth
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limerence4u · 5 months
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wet joel wet joel wet joel
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yibo-wang · 4 months
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YIBO x BAZAAR (2024) : PURITY
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sunnibits · 6 months
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ok but can we talk about Izzy’s sexy little thigh holster scabbard thing he’s got goin on here bc like,, damn 😳
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deancasforcutie · 12 days
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leave me alone to die
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campgender · 1 month
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Whenever a player safewords, this is an occasion for mutual support. We understand that nobody safewords from a happy place, and that all of our egos feel frail and kind of runty when we need to back out of a scene. It is completely unethical to respond with scorn or ridicule to a person who has safeworded: S/M is not a competition, we are not playing against each other.
As tops, we have noticed that if we are having a good time and our bottom safewords, our initial feelings may not be happy. Whaddaya mean you don't like that? I do all this work and you don't appreciate it? I'm hot for being in control and you want me to stop? We have felt real anger and felt challenged in our top role... and, on a deeper level, we have felt put down, hurt and rejected. It is okay to have these feelings. It is not okay to act on them. Take three deep breaths and everybody start taking care of each other.
Sometimes bottoms get so deeply engaged in a scene that they fail to safeword, or forget, or so profoundly believe in the fantasy that it doesn't occur to them: many of the techniques we play with, like interrogation, function in the real world to undermine volition. Dossie remembers a scene in which a top offered her a choice of something or other: "I felt very confused. Some distant part of me vaguely remembered having made choices, but the response from my state of consciousness at that time was, Choose? I am not a thing that chooses." So then what is the top's responsibility?
If a bottom does not safeword and you don't pick up on what's going on, and this will happen if you play long enough and well enough, there is no blame. However, it is still your responsibility to monitor for physical safety as best you can. As ethical tops we make a commitment to never knowingly harm our bottoms. To this end we check in regularly to make sure that things are going the way we think they are, and we constantly monitor the physical and emotional safety of our bottoms. If a bottom is beyond safewording, and you as the top feel unsure about how far you should go, it is your responsibility to slow down or stop the scene and get into communication with the bottom to make sure you have informed consent. If you have to bring the bottom back into reality to do this, please remember that you helped get them into that altered state in the first place, so presumably you can help get them back there again as soon as you are sure of what's going on.
And just because someone safeworded doesn't mean that the scene has to be over. There may be times when the problem that brought either of you to safeword is so overwhelming that carrying on doesn't feel like the right thing right now - but most often we find that after we've dealt with whatever the difficulty is, we're still terrifically turned on, with the added bonus of a shared intimacy.
from The New Topping Book (2003) by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
(note: the authors use ‘top’ & ‘bottom’ in the historical S/M sense, meaning ‘person performing the act’ & ‘person receiving the act’; the act in question is not necessarily penetration.)
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lemonys-place · 9 months
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idk who the frick thought the term impure regression was nice but it's incorrect. that sounds so dumb. oooh you're sad or experiencing smth less than positive while regressing or its triggering your regression?? "oo that's impure cos everyone knows regression is only happy silly fun colors good time and not at all a very common COPING MECHANISM and therapeutic tool" /s (it is not and never has been only joy and good and silly, and it has always been a coping mechanism and it isn't even voluntary for some people!!!)
Regression exists on a spectrum, you can experience it in a variety of ways, there is no Pure way to regress. that's ridiculous and puts the unnecessary connotation of Good and Bad on people who are just trying to cope or get out of their head or don't even mean to regress at all.
NONE of my regression is impure regardless of the reason I'm regressing. when I'm sad and crying and hugging a stuffed animal or can't even hug a stuffie because I'm so upset or when I feel scared and small and need to hide a bit, I'm still regressed and there's nothing impure or less or wrong about it.
do not try to make certain regressions seem better than others, do not make regressors feel worse for their bad mood than they already do. just stoooopppp.
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your-local-lucifer · 7 days
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So I read "The Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde" by Robert Louis Stevenson and I
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