For my sweet and spiced fans, Iâm working on a lil something something - I didnât really have a plan, just let my mind run and my fingers chase. The only goal I had in mind was âsomething uber fluffy and not dramatic. Theyâve been through enoughâ. It was meant to be my sorry for making the Sour taste of caramel so angsty and traumatic.
I just read back the first draft.
Itâs angsty as hell.
Sorry about that.
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I saw that you were updating your Sweet and Spiced series, which made me re-read all of the parts again and I just wanted to say that I really feel like you are one of the best ABO genre writers lol. You just like *get* the characters and don't go down the super overplayed or dumb routes with them, they feel like real characters. Just thought I'd let you know!! :D
Oh my goodness thank you so much!!!
I really love ABO, itâs a huge guilty (except not really, we donât feel shame in this house) pleasure of mine, but it can get very toxic and abusive very quickly so I always try and avoid that!
Thank you so much for reading!! And keep your eyes peeled for some more stories in the coming weeks đđ
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Moblit: [flirts with Hange]
Levi: [stares at them silently]
Erwin: Youâre so quiet today, Levi.
Levi, still staring: Nobody plans a murder out loud.
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I have like 72 wips and 2 jobs and Iâm moving in 3 days and I still have a mountain of packing to do pls send help
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Your mixed feelings about your parents are valid.
Shout out to people like me who have parents who are loving but are black holes of emotional labor⌠It took me a long time to realize that itâs okay to have mixed feelings about your parents, about your relationship with them.
Sometimes parents can love you but be somewhat toxic to you and your growth, and thatâs a very hard realization to come to if you, like me, grew up extremely close to them.
Sometimes parents can love you genuinely but lack emotional maturity, forcing you to perform disproportionate amounts of emotional labor. Some parents manifest symptoms of their mental illness in ways that are toxic to your mental illness.
Some parents, like mine, try so hard to be good parents but fall back on habits of emotional manipulation because they havenât processed their own traumas and are modeling behavior they grew up with. That doesnât make their behavior acceptable, and itâs okay to feel exhausted and hurt when they betray you. You donât have to forgive every mistake.
I want you to know that itâs okay to protect yourself, to need some space apart from them. The love you have for your parents is still valid, and you are making the right decision.
Placing a safe emotional distance between myself and my parents has been one of the most difficult, heartbreaking processes Iâve ever gone through⌠it hurts to try to curb the strength of your own natural empathy around people you love. It feels disingenuous to your heartâs natural state.
But I promise you, you are not hard-hearted or ungrateful, and you are not abandoning them. You are making a decision about your own emotional, mental, and spiritual health.
I know what itâs like in that confusing grey area of love mixed with guilt and anxiety, of exhaustion and quasi-manipulation and unreciprocated emotional labor, and I promise you, you are not alone.
Your mixed feelings about your parents are valid.
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gay ass dan and phil podcasts twice a week while theyâre moving to a house they designed together... this is a fever dream and iâm about to wake up back in 2015 iâm convinced
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Me after Iâve finished a fanfic:
Now I want to read the same story but slightly to the left
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a person whoâs healed on their own is dangerous and powerful.
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Commenting positively on fic like
Unfamiliar author: wow I loved this!
Author youâve interacted with before: you killed me, Iâm dead
Author whoâs your friend: I hate you
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Really concerned that anti capitalism Discourse has developed into âif you have any money at all, youâre evil and part of the problemâ
Like someone who spends $200 on a practical purse is not the problem with capitalism
John Boyega having a net worth of $6 mil after multiple high profile years in the film industry is not the problem with capitalism
The enemy is the billionaires that hoard wealth and banks and companies that control entire swaths of the economy
Donât let the guy with $200 billion convince you, who makes less than $30k a year, that the doctor making $150k a year is the enemy
The enemy is like a few dozen people and a few dozen huge banks and companies
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an old married couple
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Ummm...excuse me but SWORD trying to kill Wanda in front of her kids was extremely fucked up and considering her own parents died by missiles I say she was being incredibly kind to SWORD when she returned the drone.
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Decided to give my two cents on the new chapter in meme format as I know nothing else.
[Image Description: A meme of Jim Halpert from The Office. In the first image he is pointing to a whiteboard that reads:
"Endeavour crying is not a guilt tactic and nor does it mean that anyone should be pressured into forgiving him. It is a normal human reaction. BUT those who do decide to sympathise with him are not abuse apologists, they simply recognise his growth as a character."
The second image shows Jim next to the whiteboard which now reads:
"Also, wishing death upon either Dabi or Endeavour for hurting each other is very counterproductive. They both need to be held accountable for their actions, I hope to see Dabi move on to a point where can live his life instead of dedicating it to revenge as well as Endeavour continuing to atone for what he's done. Neither of them can do this if they're dead."
End image description]
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While you're mourning Midnight, please remember that she'll never get to hear Great Explosion Murder God Dynamight's name, which makes it all the more painful
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I find it hilarious that the relationship between Grogu (who canât talk) and Din (who doesnât talk much) has been built almost entirely on the body language/facial expression between a HELMET and a PUPPET and weâre all ride or die for it anyway
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hey bro are you ok? we passed that sign and you didnât even say âyeah i sure hope it doesâ
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