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Binding PSA:
Your binder should NOT BE HARD TO PUT ON! It should NOT be so tight that you feel that you might get STUCK in it! Even if you measured yourself and the binder company’s website says that it’s the right size. If this happens GET A SIZE UP! I can not say this enough! 
To put this in perspective, I am around 4 years post top surgery and have an extremely flat chest! It is abnormally flat. And I recently lost some weight so I am now about 20 pounds less than I was when I started binding. Because of this I decided to try on one of my old binders to see how it fit and I almost popped my shoulder trying to get it on and off and I couldn’t even safely get it over my chest. And I have an 100% flat check and have lost weight!! So please, please, please bind safely!
A bit about my story, when I first started binding the other trans guys that I talked to had made jokes about getting stuck in their binders and I had seen a few posts along the same lines on here from people who bind. Because of this I didn’t think much of it when my first binder came in and was really tight. It was so tight that it was constantly a struggle to get on and off and left me in constant pain but I just thought that that was what binding was. And I still wasn’t as flat as I wanted to be, and chest dysphoria was horrible for me, so I put up with it.
Now, some important things to know is that I did size myself correctly. In fact, I even made sure to check my sizing monthly to insure that I hadn’t gone up a size. But even with checking this regularly, and wearing the right size binder according to the website, my binder was still extremely tight.
After putting up with this for around a year I saved up money to get a new binder from a different company that I had heard was good. It was a last ditch attempt to get a binder that didn’t leave me in constant pain. And the company that I bought from this time was @gc2b. Now, I have no affiliation with them, I do not get paid or any perks for promoting them. But their binder actually fit me correctly and wasn’t super tight. It went over me kind of like an undershirt, and though it didn’t compress as much as my other binder, in fact, I didn’t notice the compression very much unless I stayed in the binder for extended periods of time, but the way that the material went over my chest made me look just as flat as the other one. I was still very dysphoric over my chest though and felt like because there wasn’t as much compression that I could be doing more to make my chest look flat. But honestly, now that I am looking back on it, this was not the case. 
That is all to say that the first binder that I had, the one that still is WAY too tight after top surgery, an 100% flat chest, and weight loss, really, really messed up my back. I had some pre-existing back issues before then that were worsened so, so much. In fact, I am still in regular, near constant pain because of this. So please, please, please, if there is one thing I can ask of you all is to bind safely! And if you have a binder that is so tight that it causes you any problems getting it on or off (even a little bit) get a new binder!!
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Dr. Henry Jekyll: this is my beautiful son hyde he has every disease
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Imagine living in 2022 in the universe Strange Case is set in. You are part of the true crime community. You log on tumblr dot hell. a guy called leechfucker1984 and your mutual victoria-enthusiast are once again arguing in your dash about whether Edward Hyde was Henry Jekyll’s sugar baby or his son. Your circle is theorizing about where he came from exactly and pulling out historical evidence. The fact that Jekyll’s body was never found, embedded in a post about the mystery surrounding them both, is scrolled past. Somebody posted an archeological reconstruction of what Hyde might have looked like based off post-mortem photographs, dissections, and his preserved skull. A bunch of users are having meltdowns because he isn’t attractive enough. You reblog the image and comment “I’d still fuck that”. Two minutes later you receive anon hate for saying you would fuck a murderer that has been dead for more than 100 years.
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Basically how i imagine uchiha clan in action.
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the future is now
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on this day one year ago someone sewed a fried egg to a tshirt
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July 27, 1914: Kafka struggles to eat a peach
Ate rice à la Trautmannsdorf and a peach. A man drinking wine watched my attempts to cut the unripe little peach with my knife. I couldn’t. Stricken with shame under the old man’s eyes, I let the peach go completely and ten times leafed through Die Fliegenden Blätter. I waited to see if he wouldn’t at last turn away. Finally I collected all my strength and in defiance of him bit into the completely juiceless and expensive peach. 
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Happy International Asexuality Day!
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I decided to create a masterpost that would help you with what you are struggling with. Hopefully any of the links below will help you! Reminder; You’re going to be okay. What you are going through will pass, just remember to breathe. 
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Distractions;
Here are some distractions to help keep your mind occupied so you aren’t too focused on your thoughts. 
-Draw something
-This website translates the time into colours.
-Create your own galaxy.
-Play flowing.
-Make a 3D line travel where ever you like. 
-Listen to music.
-Calm.
-Ocean mood, do nothing for two minutes.
Sleep issues; 
- 8 hour sleep music.
-Rainy mood. 
-Meditation.
-Coping with nightmares.
-How to cope with nightmares, 11 steps.
-Calm
-Foods that can affect your sleeping, both positive and negatively. 
 Uncomfortable with silence; 
-Rainy mood.
-10 hours of rain and thunder.
-3 hours of rain and thunder.
-Human heartbeat.
-Rainforest.
-Sound of rain on a tin roof.
-Autumn wind.
-Rain on a tent
-Traffic in the rain.
-Soft traffic. 
-Fan.
-Train.
-Simply noise.
-My noise.
-Rainy cafe.
Anxiety; 
-How to stop worrying. 
-Tips to manage anxiety and stress.
-The 10 best ever anxiety management techniques. 
-Self-help strategies for anxiety. 
-Helping a friend with anxiety. 
-All about worrying.
-8 myths about anxiety. 
Sad, angry and depressed/depression; 
-“I’m always sad”
-Feeling sad.
-Going through trauma.
-“I’m always angry”.
-Anger management. 
-All about anger.
-National helplines and websites.
-Self-help strategies for depression.
-Dealing with depression at work.
-Dealing with depression at school.
Isolation and loneliness; 
-Pets and mental health.
-All about loneliness. 
-“I feel so alone”
-10 more ideas to help with loneliness. 
-How to deal with loneliness.
 Self-harm;
-Alternatives to self-harm and distraction techniques.
-146 things to do besides self-harm.
-More alternatives to self-harm.
-Self-harm alternatives.
-How to take care of self-harm wounds/injuries.
-Getting rid of scars.  
Addiction; 
-How to help a friend with a drug addiction.
-What is addiction?
-All about alcohol and addiction.
-The facts about drug addiction.
 Eating disorders; 
-Helping a friend with an eating disorder.
-Eating disorder treatments. 
-Support services for eating disorders. 
-Self-help tips with eating disorders.
-Eating disorder recovery. 
-Recovering from an eating disorder. 
-100+ reasons to recover. 
-Understanding and managing eating disorders. 
 Dealing with self-hatred;  
-3 ways to ease self-loathing. 
-How to turn self-hatred into self-compassion.
-Self-hatred resources.
-10 step plan to deal with self-hate. 
 Suicidal; 
-International suicide hotlines (1)  (2)
-Preventing suicide. 
-Reasons to stay alive.
-Dealing with suicidal thoughts and feelings.
-Coping with suicidal ideation.  
 Schizophrenia;
-All about schizophrenia.  
-Helping a person with schizophrenia.  
-Understanding and dealing with schizophrenia.  
-Delusions and hallucinations.  
OCD;
-Managing your OCD at home. 
-Overcoming OCD.
-How to cope with OCD. 
-Strategies for dealing with the anxious moments. 
Borderline personality disorder; 
-Helping someone with BPD. 
-All about personality disorders.
-Treatment for BPD.
Abuse; 
-Healthy relationships VS abusive relationships. 
-Emotional abuse
-Overcoming sexual abuse. 
-Hotlines services. 
-5 ways to escape an abusive relationship. 
-Domestic violence support. 
-Signs of an abusive relationship. 
-What do to if you’re in an abusive relationship. 
-Surviving abuse. 
-What you can do if you’re sexual harassed. 
-Sexual assault support.
-What to do if you’ve been sexually assaulted or abused. 
 Bullying;
-How to stand up against bullying.
-How to protect yourself when it comes to cyber bullying.
-How to help stop people bullying you. 
 Loss and grief; 
-How to cope with a suicide of a loved one.
-Grieving for a stranger. 
-Common reactions to death. 
-Working through grief.
(Other loss and grief)
-Moving away from friends and family. 
-Coping with a breakup.
 Getting help; 
-Seeking help early. 
-All about psychological treatments. 
-Types of help.
-All about age and confidentiality. 
Things you need to remember; 
- Don’t stress about being fixed because you’re not broken.
-Remember to remind yourself of your accomplishments. Tell yourself that you’re proud of yourself, even if you’re not. 
- This is temporary. You won’t always feel like this. 
-You are not alone. 
-You are enough. 
-You are important. 
-You are worth it. 
-You are strong. 
-You are not a failure, 
-Good people exist. 
-Reaching out shows strength. 
-Breathe. 
-Don’t listen to the thoughts that are not helping you. 
-Give yourself credit. 
-Don’t be ashamed of your emotions, for the good or bad ones. 
-Treat yourself the same way as you would treat a good friend. 
-Focus on the things you can change. 
-Let go of toxic people. 
-You don’t need to hide, you’re allowed to feel the way you do. 
-Try not to beat yourself up. 
-Something is always happening, you don’t want to miss out on what’s going to happen next. 
-You are not a bother.
-Your existence is more than your appearance. 
-You are smart. 
-You are loved. 
-You are wanted. 
-You are needed. 
-Better days are coming. 
-Just because your past is dark, doesn’t mean your future isn’t bright. 
-You have more potential than you think. 
- Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.
Please remember to look after yourself and know that you are more than worth it and you deserve to be happy. Keep smiling butterflies x
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you’re hearing it more and more
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Semester mood board
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Please sign the petition!!!
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dealing with the worst case scenario
your condom breaks
you feel a lump on your breast
your friends are ignoring you
you’re stranded on an island 
you got rejected by a crush
you get into a car accident
you got stung by a bee/wasp
you got fired from your job
you’re in an earthquake
your tattoo gets infected
your house is on fire
you’re lost in the woods
you get arrested abroad
you get robbed
your partner cheated on you
you’re on a ship that’s sinking
you fall into ice
you’re stuck in an elevator
you hit a deer with your car
you have food poisoning
your pet passed away
you fall off of a horse
you or your friend has alcohol poisoning
you have toxic shock syndrome
your house has a gas leak
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