spenciebabie

[spenciebabie]

How are you ? And what is going down in your life at the moment. Du you miss writing or are you over IT? For myself I must say I miss your stuff ☺️

im good i think!

ive been at my new job a while now and i really like it, and i like the people that i work with, it’s all a good vibe to be honest

as for the writing, for a while I just couldn’t find the time, and then i couldn’t find the inspiration, like id sit down at my laptop and just stare at the outline and be like 😬

but i can feel that lifting now, because it is something that i love doing, and i just spent a bit of time rereading some of my work (including my series’) and as pompous as it sounds, i got to the last chapter of an inconvenient affection and was like ‘where’s the rest 🥺’ so that really made me want to get back into it

so im not over it, and im sure i never will be!

#anon #answered #el speaks

[spenciebabie]

im feeling like answering some asks tonight 👀

if yall want to send some through during the day ill answer them tonight

they can be about cm/spencer, concepts/thoughts, my other blog/writing, general stuff i guess?

ive just been missing this blog a lot lately and wanted to check in 🥰

#el speaks #spencer reid smut #spencer reid x reader

[spenciebabie]

#spencer eating you out in some hotel room while you’re on a case #visual #visuals #image #pic

[spenciebabie]

#spencer gives off such ‘hand holding during sex’ vibes #visual #visuals #image #pic #hands

[spenciebabie]

#getting the train to work with spencer #and he just can’t keep his hands off you #visual #visuals #image #pic #hands

[spenciebabie]

#very much a dom!spencer position #visual #visuals #image #pic

[spenciebabie]

#just making out in your underwear #something you and Spencer would do all the time #even just in a domestic way #visual #visuals #gif #gifs #hands

[spenciebabie]

seeing this go from “on hiatus” to “back soon🥺” is very exciting! i hope you can come back in a way that makes it fun again without the stress <3 -🫒

lmao thank you! im excited too 🥳

like i mentioned in the previous ask, if all goes according to plan in my personal life, it should free up a bit more time and just make this blog easier and more enjoyable to run which i can’t wait for honestly.

so i still don’t have a definitive time frame, but like let you all know as soon as I do 🥰

#🫒 #answered #el speaks

[spenciebabie]

i dont know if my last ask actually went through (i suspect it didnt bc tumblr is shite) but itd be amazing if you came back! i love this blog a lot! however you should only do it if you feel its something you can and want to do. dont force it out. we support you either way💛💛

i don’t think i got one before but i saw this one!

thank you so much, i genuinely am excited to come back, and no one has been pressuring me or anything while ive been on hiatus (because you’re all angels)

i don’t know if anyone remembers, i think i mentioned it on my main a few times but ive been job searching for the last while. and it’s been very stressful and draining (because i do have a full time job currently but id like a new one that’s more related to my field) and just this morning i did a final round interview for one im really excited about and think ive got a great chance at!

so this is all to say, that my schedule has been bananas since like, may? and if i get this job I’d have a regular schedule that would have me done at 4:30 every day with weekends off, which would mean i could structure things and have more time to work and enjoy tumblr again like i was able to when my days consisted of nothing really 🙃

so it’s more been a bunch of external stuff in my real life, along with bad time management, that made this a difficult page to keep up with, but hopefully all of that will be over soon. ill probably hear back from that employer at some stage next week 🥰

#gay-prentiss #answered #el speaks #sorry for the monologue #just thought I’d fill you guys in

[spenciebabie]

I'm excited for when you come back to this blog (but please only do it when it's what's best for you!!)

Do you have any tips for writing smut? I keep trying to write it, but every time I do I either get the ick from writing or essentially write something stupid like "their tongues battled for dominance" lol

ill direct you to a few posts if that’s cool, because this is something I’ve answered before and I always feel like I come up with some new nonsense each time, so have a look through some of these posts and im sure you’ll find a bit of help and inspiration

Here

Here

Here

and if you click the little ‘writing advice’ tag on the post it’ll lead you to a bunch more posts with advice for writing smut and writing generally 🥰

#anon #answered #advice #writing advice

[spenciebabie]

only come back if you absolutely thing you can and for an amount that works for your schedule. i do really miss your writing and even one night a week would be so lovely!

thank you so much for the support, you’re all so kind I don’t know what I did to deserve you 🥺

#anon #answered #el speaks

[spenciebabie]

It would be nice if you came back every so often. No pressure though. I understand needing a break. It will be lovely feeling like I have a friend again on Tumblr and a safe space like you provided to us. Please take your time and don't do anything you don't wish to do. We will be here when you are ready to return. 🖤-🦇

hey 🦇! missed you too ❤️

i did love that energy here, and being able to talk to you guys openly about pretty much anything was a really nice feeling that i do miss

so i will be back, i swear!

#🦇 #answered #el speaks

[spenciebabie]

if you decide to come back i absolutely cannot wait!

but don’t stress yourself you’re too sexy ahaha (jk) (but seriously please don’t we love you and want the best for you <3)

-🕳

hi 🕳!!!! thank you very much, you’re so kind 🥺

i really appreciate the enthusiasm and support from everyone, honestly it means so much

I don’t have a set date/timeframe im planning on coming back, or any idea of what the schedule/consistency might look like when I do, but just know that it will happen ❤️

#🕳 #i love you guys #🥺 #answered #el speaks

[spenciebabie]

We would love for you to come back but just remember! We care about you more than the blog so if its too much, trust that we'll understand. Don't feel pressured to keep going when you don't want to.

Freaky Friday's sounds good to me hahaha!

Hope you're doing well 💕

- Much love, 🍑 anon

this is so sweet, you’re all so kind honestly, it makes me feel overwhelmed!

i really appreciate it though, when i come back i’d like for it to be more sustainable so that i don’t have to take a break, or leave

so i think a once a week evening, or a ‘when i feel like it’ vibe could work from that point of view 🥰

#🍑 #i still remember all the emoji anons 🥺 #it’s so nice to see you again #answered

[spenciebabie]

Hi!

I totally get that it's hard work and time consuming so the months you did keep this Sideblog running are so appreciated! And unless you feel comfortable with it and find the time and motivation you shouldn't feel obligated to come back!!!

But it's great to hear you say you enjoyed the interactions and that kinda stuff!

Anywho, all this to say, your idea of a night a week sounds brilliant and like a good 'comeback'!!

All the love !

this is so sweet, thank you so much, i really appreciate it a lot!

i do just wish i was better at time management honestly because i did live running this blog, but it was so so much of my time, which was never gonna be sustainable!

and when i was writing blurbs i missed writing one-shots, and when i wrote those i missed writing a series, and now that ive got a series going i miss writing blurbs 🙈

im a mess! but i would love to get back into this blog again, i loved the blurbs and concepts, but i also loved the submissions and just talking to people or giving weird niche advice

#anon #answered #el speaks

[spenciebabie]

Hi I saw this on another blog and for if you do return you could do “freaky friday’s” where someone asks a nsfw blurb or one shot and you’d do that almost once a week

yeah, that’s the kind of thing i was thinking of, it might not be every week, or a set day, just knowing my schedule is a bit erratic at the moment! but my plan would be to let people know earlier in the day, or the day before so that they could send in asks, and i could answer loads while im in the mood 🥰

#anon #answered

[spenciebabie]

Are you planning to come back to spenciebabie? I love this blog and that one so much and I miss hearing from you as often

im not really sure yet honestly!

i miss it a lot. i miss the engagement and the interaction, i miss hearing from you guys, i miss writing shorter form, lower stakes pieces

but it was so much work! i just couldn’t really juggle it, and that was before i started working again.

so if i do come back, it would have to be in a different capacity. maybe like, an evening a week? i could let some asks build and just have a little nsfw night or something like that?

because i did honestly really enjoy it until it got to be more work than i could really handle.

so if people would be up for a @spenciebabie returning for a night a week / here and there, let me know!

#let me know if you’d be on board with something like that #like a night a week #id give some notice when it was hailing each time so folks could send in asks #just to make it more of a manageable thing