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This is asking about your opinion on your personal diagnosis status, NOT your opinion on formal/self diagnosis in general, and NOT whether you're happy to be autistic or not. Just whether you're happy to have that information on paper or not.

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So I just saw a post by a random personal blog that said “don’t follow me if we never even had a conversation before” and?????? Not to be rude but literally what the fuck??????????

I’ve had people (non-pornbots) try to strike conversation out of nowhere in my DMs recently, and now I’m wondering if they were doing that because they wanted to follow me and thought they needed to interact first. I feel compelled to say, just in case, that it’s totally okay to follow this blog (or my side blog, for that matter) even if we’ve never talked before.

Also, I’m legit confused. Is this how follow culture works right now? It was worded like it’s common sense but is that really a thing?

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obligatory disclaimer that assigning gender to looks is harmful to many people, what look is considered ge dered in which way depends on culture and circumstance so just think about how it would apply in your case (if you want to) and this is just a silly little poll

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Best Underdog From Fortree Gym 🎖️🪽3️⃣

Round 3 - Match 2

Our Contestants:

This poll is part of an event that allows the early eliminees from the main tournament have more time in the spotlight!

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advice for years later

you will be over it, and there will still be some stupid fucking thing on a random Tuesday that slips sideways through time and blindsides you with grief. it happens. it just happens.

live through it. put the shovel down: there is, I promise you, nothing to dig up that you’ll enjoy more than what you planted on top of the grave of what you lost.

#yeah sometimes old wounds are still struck #i try not to dwell on it when it happens

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Did you guys know that the most recent version of sharks have fins that are kinda leg like and they like to walk up onto land?

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you ever been milked big time?

I was the only almond at Silk for 5 years

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Boss is asleep, cannot stop me from frogposting

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namjoon waiting for you at the bar ♡

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(inspired by this one for the sake of full transparency)

#fridge pantry always has food? i don’t ever have to buy groceries