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smileyface-sadmind · 2 years
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The reason I love Hurt/Comfort so much is the implicit message that even at your most vulnerable, there are others who just want to be there for you.
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smileyface-sadmind · 3 years
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(source: me on twitter)
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smileyface-sadmind · 3 years
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smileyface-sadmind · 3 years
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when you’re dead but your baby brother gets outed against his will by your asshole cousin so you have to resurrect yourself to beat the shit out of him:
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smileyface-sadmind · 3 years
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this tip tho!!!!!!!!
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smileyface-sadmind · 3 years
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Rahim has probably said this once
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smileyface-sadmind · 3 years
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I love Rahim sm 😂😂
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smileyface-sadmind · 3 years
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Benji needs therapy ASAP
I’ve been piecing together a lot of the info we have about Benji from what we’ve seen and uh… it’s not looking good out here, yall. Like, I know all the LV characters need therapy but Benji and Mia are number 1 and 2 on the list. 
(gonna tw here for child endangerment, discussions of alcoholism/addiction, trauma, basically) So what we know that’s been stated directly has been about the Wendy’s incident, the strip club incident w his dad, as well as the fact that Benji has been a year sober as of s2 despite being 16. This means that he must have been drinking when he was around 14, and it was during this time that he dated Derek, who we know (according to ep 10 in s1) is not a high school student–even if he was 18 or even 17 while dating Benji it would still not be okay because he’s a minor. This also means it was around this time that he was having sex with girls, and drinking and dating adults while he was 14-15 and not being supervised by his parents. 
This says a lot about not only the trauma he had to endure but also about his parents. Based on what we’ve seen about his parents in s2, (this is me making assumptions based on what we’ve seen, it hasn’t been confirmed so it’s up for debate), they seem affluent/neglectful. But they’re also actively engaged in harming him. Ofc the strip club thing happened, but also, how did Benji get into the strip club with his dad? He probably had a fake ID (which was also for getting alcohol i imagine) or his dad was actively involved in making sure he was allowed to go in AS A MINOR. 
Not only that but Benji’s parents were perfectly fine with Benji dating Derek, who is an ADULT, while he was 14-15. What the hell? So not only does he have to deal with addiction/alcoholism, anxiety, his horrible coming out process, basically being abused and neglected by his parents, almost dying because of his self-hatred induced drunkenness, AND dating a predator while also being codependent.
This probably explains not only why he struggles to communicate properly and set boundaries for himself and his partner, but also why he snaps at Victor in ep 7 of s2, because he’s literally managing all of this on his own and masking it all with jokes (the Wendy’s story and the stripper story and even a bit of the cirque du soleil monologue all kinda point to him being a little messed up). It also explains a bit of why he tries to appear ‘normal’ and tries to separate himself from the wealthy people around him bc his parents clearly don’t give a fuck about him and sorta just let him do what he wants, which can be detrimental when you’re really young. It can also explain why he tends to be pretty low-key aside from when he’s doing his music stuff, bc he doesn’t want to look affluent and be associated with his shitty-ass parents.
So I hope we get to delve more into Benji’s inner life and I hope Victor is there to offer him support because the expectation for him to hold it all together after all the trauma he endured… it’s a recipe for a disaster. And I wouldn’t be surprised if he relapses at the beginning of s3. 
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smileyface-sadmind · 3 years
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no you don’t understand how incredible special it is to me that there’s a whole love, victor episode that deals with victor feeling like he doesnt fit in with the lgbtq community bc of the way he looks and the things he likes and people calling him “the least gay person” ever, god I have never felt more seen
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smileyface-sadmind · 3 years
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smileyface-sadmind · 3 years
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the Love Victor cast went to a gay bar on their season 2 premiere night I love that for them
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smileyface-sadmind · 3 years
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every time simon has to open his phone to 19 text messages, 8 missed calls, and 5 voicemails from victor
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smileyface-sadmind · 3 years
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When I tell you, Love, Victor is my comfort show
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I like guys. Like I’m into them. I thought I might for a while, but I wasn’t totally sure, and I really wanted to make things work with Mia, because she’s awesome. But I, but I can’t. Because…
Love, Victor | 1x09 - “Who the Hell Is B?”
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smileyface-sadmind · 3 years
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in case u didnt kno ,, stimming by rocking back n forth doesnt only happen under duress ,,, it's simply fun to wiggle ,,,, stop asking if im okay yes bro i am you should join me
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smileyface-sadmind · 3 years
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Someone commented that they don't experience breaking down but rather, anger.
I'd argue that's two sides of the same coin.
Something goes wrong and we implode inwards or explode outwards.
[here's the link to the thread for those who can't read the picture]
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smileyface-sadmind · 3 years
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Watch: Still unsure if white privilege exists? This should clear it up.
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smileyface-sadmind · 3 years
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PEOPLE WITH ADHD WHO HAVE ONLINE CLASS I HAVE JUST DISCOVERED A BREAKTHROUGH IN FOCUSING TECHNOLOGY:
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This extension lets you doodle on any webpage just like you would doodle on a piece of paper in class to focus. I just added it to my chrome and it’s been a godsend. I watched an 11 minute video on LDAP servers without getting distracted once! I don’t know if other browsers offer this specific app as an extension but I know for sure it’s offered through chrome. I hope this helps other people as much as it’s helped me!
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