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5 Things To Remember About Pregnancy

Since finding out I was pregnant it has been a rollercoaster of emotions. So many feelings from good to bad all the way up to excited and scared straight. As my pregnancy comes to an end I wanted to take the time and share five things that I wish I would have known as well as things that may keep you encouraged while you step into motherhood.

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1. First realize how big of a blessing this is and try to be realistic about what you can handle. I think naturally when you discover you are pregnant especially if it’s not planned, the first thing that comes to mind is literally “oh shit” You want to immediately allow worry to set in and think of all the negative parts of why caring for a child would be difficult. STOP! Start by breathing and then start to think about what motherhood could be like for you in a positive light. A cute little life that loves you unconditionally, Someone to share all your love with unselfishly, watching this little human grow to be someone amazing in this world etc. Always lead with love and positive thoughts.

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2. Take time to analyze your situation and what it would require to keep the baby. All of our stories and circumstances are different and deserve deep thought. I am pro life so I don’t say this to say if your circumstances are bad to just run to the nearest clinic. Absolutely Not! What I am saying is think over your situation and what you could do starting early on that would better prepare you for baby. New job, better living conditions, relocation what supports your and babies life and best interest? Be realistic!

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3. Yell, scream, cry, run around, jump for joy. Do it all! This is a major part of life and regardless if it’s a good or bad thing for you take the time to get all the emotional stuff out of the way. Don’t be afraid to openly feel the moment and respond as you feel is most necessary.

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4. Don’t tell anyone right away unless it’s a close friend or family member. Sadly women experience loss in pregnancies and after experiencing two miscarriages myself prior to this pregnancy I was careful with who I told right away. The first trimester is the most critical and anything can happen so allow yourself some time to keep your pregnancy private until about your second trimester when the ball is completely rolling and baby has developed more.

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5. Regardless if you are doing this as a single mother or have a wonderful partner continue to cherish each moment. Time will go by very fast and before you know it it’s time for baby to arrive. Every kick, every roll, every wiggle you feel your bundle of joy make just enjoy it and document it. One mistake I made is I didn’t follow my pregnancy as closely because of fear and nagging thoughts but as my time comes to a end I wish I would have done more of that.

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Lastly and most importantly Congratulations beautiful this is a big step and you are going to be a great mommy. Don’t let anyone tell you anything otherwise.

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