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So when I was 16 years old is the first time I approached a girl. I wasn’t confident all then and I did it confidently in front of all of her friends and then I ended up talking to her for 2 months. A couple days ago at the airport and this cute girl sat next to me waiting for my flight home I took a deep breath and made a joke about not wanting to come back home. Conversation was good and I walked on the plane with her got her number and we are planning a date this week.Moving forward I have to do this all the time with girls! I truly believe it’s separates yourself from the majority of guys and it comes off super confident when you can make an approach in a man to woman frame. If anyone has any other experiences I would love to chat about it here via /r/seduction
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tl:dr Compliments tend to be emotionally devoid. They also fail to move someone if that person has a different opinion.Instead, draw attention to their (honest) effect on you.———————————————Which of these comments would get you going?“I think you’re really hot!”vs“I had to cross my legs when I saw you”For me? “I think you’re really hot” makes me feel manipulated a bit actually (I don’t take compliments very well).Whereas “I had to cross my legs when I saw you” gives me a semi.———————————————Imagine a singer had just finished a set, you like her music a lot. You approach her and say:“Your music is really good!” or “You are the best vocalist!”It’s a nice comment, but…What if they don’t like their own music?What if they can’t take a compliment?What if they grew up on some sort of weird religious commune where women were only allowed to cook, clean, and do music? She may feel “of course I’m good at music, it was my only option”You could say:“I think your music is really good!” or, “I think you’re the best vocalist I know!”This is better than “your music is really good” because it admits it’s just your assessment. Rather than societies or some fact that is just known.But it still makes you a critic to be agreed with or rejected, to hang their self-worth on or not. Maybe: “Who is this guy?”Or you could say:“Your music made me feel less alone, I don’t know why” or “Your music got me dancing. I wish it didn’t stop!”Your reaction might be annoying? (you like if you got aroused when you were comforting them over their dying father… because their boob touched your arm a bit) But if you’re honest about it it cannot be denied.You have made yourself an object in their world. Your emotions/ involuntary reactions are just things that exist. Like a rock or tree.AND If you’re honest about it, you can help turn around all those other insecurities/concerns in her. She has proof that she has affected the world. Rather than having to engage her brain verifying all these assessments.So try things along these lines: (BUT BE HONEST!!!)“You in that dress made my chest do a little thing. I’ve come to flirt with you.”“I didn’t know I had a type before I saw you. You've thrown me through a loop. I’ve come to flirt with you.”“Your feet in those cute shoes made me fully erect. I’ve come to flirt with you.”———————————————Drawing attention to your emotions/ involuntary reactions:Runs into fewer problemsIt's more vulnerable and strong (scared people hide their inner world)I think it’s easier! It’s easier to just feel things and relate that to them than to try to do fake-it-till-you-make confidence or strategize about all this crap.It forces you to look inward and you learn about yourself. Learn about what gets you going and what turns you off.It can force you to try to feel... more... to get more things you can say (Rather than come up with lies, if lies aren't your thing).I’ve found this to yield amazing results.Several girls have said I’m “captivating” since I started doing this.One girl called me a “burst of light”. I think I will marry her.Disclaimer: Everyone is different. I like to connect emotionally with a girl. I like a girl who connects emotionally with me. So this rule has been amazing for finding/sorting girls I click with.Some girls do not respond to me. Maybe they don't like this? (Could just be me. Hard to tell. I’ve got a real lumpy face, real lumpy.) But that’s a perfect cue to me that we’re not right for one another. via /r/seduction
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We haven’t had sex since March and she doesn’t want a relationship because she is busy with school even though we do kiss and touch each other and she facetimes me everyday. But whenever we do go out she expects me to pay because she is not working because of school and she just got a new place so she is on a budger. I do have fun whenever I go out with her but I don’t know if she is taking advantage of especially since she never wants to come over my apartment or go over her apartment. We always meet in public. I feel awkward asking her to pay. She wants us to go to this festival where they have food trucks this week via /r/seduction
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I'll be doing a second date tonight. I think we're both quite into each other. Although I don't see me inviting myself to her place on this date I was thinking of suggesting a third date, assuming all goes well, where I go to hers, cook and watch a movie. I'd suggest going to mine but I've moved back in with parents due to pandemic problems and starting out a new business. Too much too soon inviting myself to hers, or the right kind of third date? via /r/seduction
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I met this a cute girl over the weekend at a friend's birthday party. The girl is the best friend of my friend's GF. We hit it off and had some good conversation. Anyways, I want to set up a date to see this girl again. My friend told me that the girl and I could do a double date with his GF and him.Part of me thinks this is a good idea as the girl would be more comfortable (we both know the couple, her best friend would be there) but the other part of me wants to do a one-on-one date with this girl to get to know her personally and see if we have good chemistry. What should my move be here, go on the double date or just see her alone? via /r/seduction
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We’ve been together for two years. She’s always been absolutely obsessed with me. She followed me wherever I went and was extremely attracted to me.That changed overnight. We went from being best friends to her never wanting to be around me, making sure she’s always in another room than me. When we were together, it was obvious that her attraction to me had been lost.At first, I thought she was cheating but I hired a private investigator and she wasn’t. So I don’t know how this happened. I’ve tried talking to her about it but have gotten nowhere.I would let her go but she’s the mother to my two children and I don’t want them to grow up in a broken home if I can help it.Is there any strategy I could employ to make her fall for me again? She was absolutely obsessed with me before, so that could come back somehow, right? via /r/seduction
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I have heard that girls usually dont want one fuck meetings.Bars and clubs are not an option. I dont really want to explain why. via /r/seduction
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Someone help a college kid out!!19M. After a full year online, I am finally back on campus. Of course, that means that I know literally nobody and that I am late to all the finding friends' things. So although my situation is not full-time online. I am still online 75% of the time and commuting to school twice a week. This still causes issues since I cannot commit to something on campus since I'm only there twice a week. But when I am there I mostly spend my time just sitting and doing homework.There are tons of girls everywhere and honestly, most of them seem to be just like me, sitting there all day by themselves just studying and listening to music. So here is my concern...How do I talk to them and people on campus in general? The only answer I have is cold approaches which honestly are not my move especially since I am not a regular at school. Also, any tips are appreciated for my situation and my circumstances! via /r/seduction
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Im ready for some excitement. I want something new. So, I came up with a challenge.The challenge is for me to get a girl without actually asking her. It has to be “her idea”. I think this will be a fun way to improve my game.How should I go about doing this, any tips? This will be completely new to me, since my strategy is to be very direct and to the point. I don’t beat around the bush…unless she has one of course. via /r/seduction
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So, I've got inner/outer game and looks. How do I show that to girls. via /r/seduction
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Does anyone else feel like they look different in pictures? I just feel like I look different in the mirror compared to what I look like in pictures via /r/seduction
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So I'm currently trying to overcome approach anxiety by taking small steps because just doing it is to much for me. Right now I've gotten comfortable with just saying 'Hi" or greeting pretty much any women I come across some greet me back some don't. I've been doing this for about a month now but today I've set and goal to say "Hi" to 10 women today and accomplish it. For example I saw this older women walking pass and I found her really attractive and I just blurted out "hello" but she just smiled and kept walking. But that's about it I cant get pass greeting into a conversation. I still freak out and freeze up when it comes to conversating like saying "Hey, How's your day" that makes me nervous and I freeze up. How can I get pass just saying "Hi" and how long did it take for you guys to overcome AA and what sped up the process. via /r/seduction
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Hey y'all,So basically I've been having a 2 and half year dry spell with dating (take full responsibility). I decided "okay I don't take rejection easily. So what if I ask someone out today WITH the intention of getting rejected??" So I asked out a random co-worker; cute and we've had some conversations here and there and I kid you not she said yes!I failed successfully; I didn't get rejected how I wanted too but hey I have a date this week so that's cool!!Just wanted to share that...good night. via /r/seduction
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Has lifting made a big difference in terms of attraction whether you were skinny or overweight? I’m this case I’m skinny. via /r/seduction
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Wooow!I asked to check her hearings and touched her ears.I know that's incredibly stupid and silly, but I have a thing against touching people, it's very hard and it feels out of place.It's just a small step, but I'm happy, just wanted to share it with you guys. via /r/seduction
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It’s a constant mental struggle between “be confident and positive! No one likes a downer chump!” And “stop deluding yourself, women don’t date down and you’re not that good looking or dominant”I can’t seem to find a middle ground. How should I talk to myself? via /r/seduction
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Go ahead next time u see someone cute you'd like to know more about, talk to them!Honestly first lines aren't that important, I like to embrace my humour and use it to start conversation and I am sure you can too :)Do try to be the best version of yourself (spoiler alert: you'll even become that best version soon enough) and do smile more often. Go smile imperfectly in that mirror, yess that's cute!Have a nice day, take your time but do 1% of work towards your goal everyday and you'll improve so much via /r/seduction
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