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Ex-fucking-actly. 

I feel like I’d get eaten alive if I said this on twt but ppl are literally so fucking downright mean to Dream. Like if he was your friend and did shit in real life you wouldn’t say he’s the scum of the earth or that he’s untalented and uncreative. Can people please start treating content creators like people. Like real, living human beings. Because it feels like a punch to the gut to see people on Twitter bashing him for attributes that stem from neurodivergency. Now, I’m a very sensitive person but;; god being on Twitter and seeing people shit on Dream’s music made me have to sit down and. Cry. I just had to cry because those opposed to the MCYT fanbase can just be so mean and it’s so disheartening. Everyone is just so vile and so uncaring and I just wish more people could see them as people;; it’s so scary and it’s so cliche for a fan who doesn’t know anything about the true Dream to say this, but I hope he’s alright. Especially from the backlash on Mask. How cruel do you have to be to see a heartfelt song about his life experience with depression and ADHD and start tearing it to shreds? It genuinely disgusts me. If you’re one of the people who rag on Dream and frame it as “criticism”, please don’t interact w me. The negativity I’ve seen today has made me feel a little less hopeful in the world.

#dsmp #dream #cc #ableism #ablist #adhd #dni if you hate on content creators #neurodivergent

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Possible Dabi Theory???

What if, hear me out, hear me out:

- During that decade between when Toya died and Dabi was born, someone was looking after him.

- How did a severely burnt 13 year old who grew up in a wealthy household (so he probably lived a sheltered life beyond burning himself), not only be able to survive, but also hide any trace of his existence for 10 years, prior to his reappearance as Dabi.

- Endeavor was a shitty parent, but he was after all, number 2 and I can only assume one might obtain such a rank by being a good hero. 

- So why does Dabi not only seek vengeance against his father, but also wishes for the destruction and dismantling of hero society as a whole?

- Maybe during that decade he was missing, Dabi wasn’t alone instead he was with someone who possessed a hatred for the current state of hero society, a hatred which encouraged Dabi’s own wish for revenge against his father, to blossom into a hatred for all things hero.

- What if, Dabi was with Stain. 

- 🤷🏼‍♀️

#dabi #stain #bnha #mha #my hero academia #boku no hero academia #theory #spoilers

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Pussy business.

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Not really posting for any reason, I just needed to rant and I have no one to rant to.

I’m so fucking tired of being a good enough student that I am not seen as needing help, but at the same time knowing that I’m not turning in things that showcase my full potential, because of said lack of help. But here’s the kicker, even at times when I am having just as much trouble as some other students are, I’m still not seen as needing help. Like, I have two English teachers in my English class and recently we were working on a research project, I didn’t turn mine in yet and the deadline was two weeks ago; my English teachers have literally talked to every other student who hasn’t turned in their paper, on multiple occasions, but me. Like it’s not just my mental health struggles that impact my ability to learn, that are being ignored, all my problems are. They are constantly calling on me in group discussions, and relying on me to have the right answer and keep the discussion going, but they pretty much ignore me any other time. Looking back, most of my life it has been like this. Like, if someone who has been tested for the gifted program at age 9 is suddenly failing fifth grade at age 11, normally that signifies a problem. I remember in sixth grade, at parent teacher conferences, my teachers told my parents that they noticed that my spelling was really bad and I seemed to have a lot of trouble with writing, whether it be organizing paragraphs, coming up with the right words, or even writing my name using the appropriate pencil grip, but despite all that, I’m still have one of the highest, if not the highest reading level in the whole class. They didn’t suggest any reason for why they think that might be, and my parents didn’t seem to really care. I’m only bringing this up, because today my science teacher was talking to another teacher, about this other teacher’s son and how he is having trouble in school. He is in fifth grade and is pretty much experiencing the same things I did. His mother noticed, his teachers noticed, and they all want to help him. So how is it fair that I was born into a world where I will be ignored by everybody in anyway that it matters, while he gets help and support as soon as any issues begin to show themselves. How is it fair that throughout my entire life, my issues that are the exact same as my some of my classmates, the ones that are all being helped and assisted; how is it fair that I have to suffer in silence, that I have to get over it, or get used to it, while they are all being doted on. I’m tired of this shit, and I’m just tired in general.

I am sure that something that a lot of people think while reading this is, “then tell them you need some help”, but here’s the thing, any time in the past that I have gone to somebody for help, they either in some way shape or form, tell me to get over it, or give me help in the most useless and half assed way. So I am very hesitant to ask for help again.

#suspected autism #suspected adhd #rant #done with this shit #tired #done #might be some things I missed #Suspected dyslexia #suspected dysgraphia #mental illness #school #high school

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What the hell!?

I’m so god damn hungry and my school is having free lunches, so there shouldn’t be a problem, right!? Well guess what, lunch is over and I still haven’t eaten. I’m so freaking scared of walking over to the lunch line and getting lunch. I shouldn’t be, there is no reason to be; I know this, but that doesn’t suddenly make it easier to get up and go get food. I feel like I’m paralyzed in fear, but I don’t even know what I’m scared of! This sucks. I just want to fucking eat! This shouldn’t be this hard. And I’m all alone; I sit by myself at lunch because none of my friends have this lunch period, so I can’t even ask for their help. Does anybody have any suggestions on how to overcome this? The only suggestions I’ve gotten so far, are all from my mother, and are her pretty much just telling me to ‘get over it’, followed by her saying ‘it’s not that hard’. She has no idea how hard it is; no one takes my problems seriously because they don’t impact them, and when they do, people still don’t care, they just get mad at me instead of trying to provide me with any sort of help that I have asked for on many occasions. Seriously, does anyone have any idea on how to fix this situation?

#social anxiety #suspected autism #undiagnosed autism #i’m hungry #help #advice

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Egypt's first female ship captain Marwa Elselehdar has been falsely accused as being the captain of the Ever Given by some foreign media, in a story that went viral and garnered a lot of hate towards her.

The only problem? She was 370km away at the time, acting as the first mate of another ship (Aida IV) and had nothing to do with the situation in the Suez Canal.

I think we should all help spread this, since some people are still sharing the malicious slanderous fake posts about her!

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just to be clear, the fact that music was nominated for a golden globe is absolutely disgusting. every single (adult) involved in that gross, ableist movie should be sickened by themselves.

for those of you who don't know, music (2021) is a movie being directed by sia about a nonverable autistic girl. not only does it not include any actually autistic people in the movie itself but it also only took advice from autism speaks which is looked at as a hate group by the majority of the autistic community. leaked scenes have also shown the movie glorifying prone restraints which are incredibly dangerous and have resulted in major injuries and even death to disabled people as recently as last year.

autistic people just like me have been incredibly outspoken about how harmful this movie is but the allistic have been mostly silent. we are already seeing reviews calling this movie 'inspiring' and important' and it's absolutely horrific! we need your help calling this out. please stand with us and call out this disgusting display of disrespect to autistic folks.

💛 - your local actually autistic pal

p.s. please, please reblog if you aren't autistic.

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TRYING TO PROVE SOMETHING

Reblog if you think pansexuals and bisexuals can coexist and support each other!

I'm tired of hearing people argue that pansexuals are biphobic or transphobic. I'm tired of hearing that bisexuals are panphobic. I'm tired of hearing that my sexuality exists only to erase another. Aren't you?

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So freaking true. Somebody gets it.👏🤝👍😻

It’s 2021 and people in the tags still think what Hawks did to Twice was murder. RIP.

Also, all the growing hate against Rei for daring to apologise to the man her son tried to brutally murder is disgusting. While I don’t think Rei has anything to apologise for (Dabi is the one that made that choice after all), all she’s doing is acknowledging her part in the creation of Dabi and apologising to the people he hurt like any decent person probably would (which, you know, he’s hurt a lot of people being a murdering terrorist and all. I feel like many people forget that detail).

Anyway, stan Rei and let’s hope she adopts Hawks into the Todofam <3

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If you're a creator and you needed to hear this today:

You have no idea how many people lurk on your work. No idea how many times people go back to revisit your work. How big they smile when they simply think about your work. How fast their heart beats, how excited they get when they see that you posted something.

People are shy with their feedback. Sometimes it’s because they’re simply shy. Other times it’s because they assume you already know how great and talented you are. Could be both.

My point is, even if you barely have any likes or reblogs, don’t get discouraged. You have a lot of silent fans, but they are still your fans. Keep on creating. Because there is always someone out there who will love what you have made.

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Okay so first post.

Does anybody get that feeling when you are trying to do something, but it’s like you are stuck in a ball of bubble gum and like even if you keep trying to push your way through the gum, it just keeps stretching and you just can’t get through. And it’s like the thing that you need to do is just out of your reach because the bubble gum doesn’t stretch that far or break.

#is this executive dysfunction #no work getting done right now #how to make it stop #life sucks #fucking bubble gum #I need to work #...but can’t #how to attention #pLeZ HaLp #possible ADHD

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daily reminder to click a button so you can give free food to a shelter!!

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WARNING!!!!

People, please be careful. There are also people tracking children and people and putting bids on them based on their profile pictures on whatsapp, tracking and kidnapping them. Especially young children, so please be cautious, especially parents who have their children as their profile pictures.

Please pass this on to everyone so that they are aware of the danger. I don’t how it is all around the world but I know it can’t just be here so please please spread the word. Thank you.

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I’m sick to my fucking stomach

The map flag had the same color scheme as the pan flag and now they’re switching to the bi flag

If you see anyone with this flag or any variation

Run

Don’t fucking hesitate to block because pedos are now using this new “flag” and other forms of it

Can I get a signal boost from larger accounts? Start tagging people so this will spread

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This is important hello (x)