phoenixwwitch

[phoenixwwitch]

My queers, we really need to put the "no men" thing away. Men are not inherently bad. There are queer men. There are questioning men. There's men that are just plain cool. Denying these men a space at our table is not helping - except the TERFs. I just came off the back of reading a transphobe gleeful rant about the need to have pride without men - They of course mean me. This kind of stuff is damaging to me and I really need us all to take a step back and maybe kill this "men dni, men not allowed" stuff. What you mean is "no men who are going to do mean stuff to me." And frankly those men won't give a shit about that kind of boundary.

But I promise you there's a fleet of good honest men who will see that and be sad they're not allowed in your version of queer spaces.

PATRIARCHY is what you hate. Dni Patriarchs.

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"I cant draw" then do it bad who gives a fuck.....

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(me, my parents, my sister, and the baby are sitting at the kitchen table eating lunch)

baby, pointing at the light fixture over the table and signing "on": o.*

my sister: we actually can't turn that light on right now, because the lightbulb inside is burnt out! it needs a new one.

baby: ighbu.

sister: yes, lightbulb! granddaddy said after we eat he's going to climb up there on a ladder and change it, and then the light will come on!

baby: gadada! adda, uuu! ighbu o!

sister: exactly!

baby, signing "on" and pointing at the light and then my dad, with increasing urgency: GADADA ADDA UUUU. O.

my sister: we're going to finish eating first though, ok?

baby: nonono. O. gadada adda uuu.

[a split second goes by]

baby, pointing to himself: ba. adda uuu. ighbu.

me: you're going to climb the ladder and change the lightbulb yourself?

baby: dzyeah. *pointing to the buckle where he is buckled into the high chair* ububu.

me: unbuckle you? so you can change the lightbulb?

baby, highly businesslike: dzyeah.

*pronounced like "on" without the n

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Shout out to everyone who is just so tired So so exhausted So very very tired so very fatigued so sleepy and tired So

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As someone who has been living with severe suicidal ideation my entire life I wanna tell you all something, you don’t have to stay alive for yourself. People will say it’s a bad idea to live for external things because they’re temporary, and it’s true living for yourself is ideal but if you’re not to that point yet that’s ok too. 

I’ve lived for my dog for the past 4 years, before that I lived for my snakes, before that I lived for my cat. You can live for whatever needs you and whatever matters to you. Live for your best friend, live for your plants, live for your pets, live for your animal crossing town. Live for whatever keeps you alive and the day will come when you can live for yourself.

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me seeing a mutual's happy post: "hell yeah buddy :)" *hits like*

me seeing a mutual's sad/vent post: "aww no buddy :(" *hits like*

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everyone make sure to set out cheese & crackers for neil tonight <3

#NEIL!!!!! #buddy i missed u

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everyone make sure to set out cheese & crackers for neil tonight <3

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nah nah what the HELL is buck doing SUING THE LAFD did all his brain cells drown????

#BRO WHAT IS GOING ON #BUCK WHAT ARE U DOING BABY #911 show #911 abc

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who was the writer that pitched the TSUNAMI episode for 911- baby girl this is LOS ANGELES

#as a californian i am LAUGHING #we can do earthquakes not tsunamis #911 abc #911 show

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Rogue realizing that she would rather be with someone she loves and never touch them rather than being with someone she can touch after the dance is my everything and might just kill me

#no one is allowed to hate on my girl rogue!!!! #she just wanted to feel :((( #gambit x rogue

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☀️Eclipse🌙

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so i started watching 911 and let me tell u figuring out that ryan murphy was involved explains quite literally everything about buck in this first season

#yes i started watching because of this app #it’s really good #and i’d do anything for my queen angela bassett #911 abc #911 show

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Debbie Harry , BLONDIE

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overheard someone say “you know jensen ackles, from the boys?” and it fully made me stop in my tracks and stare in wide eyed wonder

#my heart stopped

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detective activities

#THE comfort show

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i’m hearing someone named buck is coming out on the 10 year anniversary of winter soldier… stars aligned