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Does anybody else get legitimately worried when a fanfic author who was updating regularly just suddenly disappears with no warning? Like, is it a serious case of writers block or are they in a coma? Did they just up and quit? Was it me? Were my reviews not good enough?! Did they die 😳?! Were they kidnapped? Do I need to file a missing persons report? Excuse me officer, there’s been 13 weekly updates and now nothing for months! Find them! What’s their name?! Name!? I don’t know their name but they write 3k+ chapters and I need them safe and back in my life!

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Someone who was concerned dating separately with zero veto with her husband but potentially organically forming a triad was Unicorn Hunting.

I would say the hope is not making you a UH. It will all come down to how you let the connection between partner and meta grow. If organically, zero pressure and I would suggest not even mentioning it, no pressure at all, other than maybe a comment in passing regarding your spouse and you potentially separately dating the same person. The reason I would suggest "separately" at first is two fold. One, she doesn't think you're a package deal. Two, her relationship with your spouse may be different/incompatible to her relationship with you (this can be a thing in the kink spaces I play in)

Good on you for thinking about this early on. And best of luck.

#polyamory #oocpa #just my thoughts #out of context #polyamory questions #new to polyamory #polyam problems

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Second vaccine so am dead/tired. Normal service will resume at some point in the future.

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On the setting of boundaries...

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My terrible horrible and I cannot stop giggling reply to this:

Is this my real life

No its just fantasy

Sitting on bus ride

Females all over me

I open my eyes

I reach for her thighs

And scream

Oh for some reason

She seems to be macing me

Its because she's easy come

What a ho

Now she smiles

But i know

Everywhere a Female is

Always means she's coming on

To me....

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This made me cackle.

#polyamory #oocpa #meme #laughter