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i get so happy when you talk to me

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attracted to u in ways i cant describe

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- Chris Mc Geown

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as i continue to become a better woman. i’m really starting to understand the importance of remaining silent. everything doesn't need your input or opinion. everyone doesn’t deserve a reaction from you. some situations are really meant to bring you out character. know when to speak up. most importantly know when to remain silent.

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Sometimes things don’t work out the way you want because they’re meant to work out better than you wanted.

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Sucks to be so understanding but never understood

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A new environment can do a lot for a soul

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Sabrina Carpenter for Interview Magazine, February issue

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Focusing on the lesson and growth instead of the pain.

When we experience hurtful and negative situations, our first instinct is often to focus on the pain and the reasons why others did wrong to us. However, it can be difficult to move on and grow from these experiences if we stay stuck in this mindset. Instead one of the hardest but most important things to reflect on is what we need to do to avoid putting ourselves in that position again.

This shift in focus requires a level of self-awareness and honesty that can be uncomfortable. It means taking responsibility for our own actions and acknowledging the ways in which we may have contributed to the negative experience. It also means examining our boundaries, values, and priorities to determine how we can better protect ourselves in the future.

For example, if we find ourselves repeatedly in relationships with partners who are emotionally unavailable or abusive, we may need to reflect on why we are drawn to these types of people and what we can do to break this pattern. This might involve working on our own self-esteem and sense of self-worth, or seeking therapy to address underlying emotional wounds.

Alternatively, if we keep getting passed over for promotions or experiencing setbacks in our careers, we might need to reflect on our skills, work habits, and networking abilities to identify areas for improvement. This could mean seeking out mentorship or additional training, or taking steps to build a stronger professional network.

While it can be painful to examine our own shortcomings and mistakes, this type of reflection can ultimately lead to personal growth and resilience. By focusing on what we can do differently, we empower ourselves to create more positive and fulfilling experiences in the future.

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i’m in the middle of a rebirth give me some time

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I don’t think this line could get any sharper

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put your energy into the right people