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they’re minor inconveniences to you, to me they’re world-ending tragedies

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Don’t cry. You’re perfect.

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there is a very real tendency of teenagers with anxiety disorders self diagnosing with considerably more stigmatized and impairing mental illnesses (e.g. schizophrenia, DID, personality disorders), but the best response to that isn't to get angry with them for "appropriating" lol. instead you show them coping resources for the problems they're actually having and deemphasize diagnostic categories in general. if an 18 year old is claiming to have alzheimer's, they're probably making an innocent mistake and are in genuine distress. be kind.

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like or reblog if u save/use ♡

#i swear i'm her

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don’t!!! fake!!!! your!!!! interests!!!! to!!!! make!!!! someone!!!! like!!!!! you!!!!

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If they don’t see the value of having you, don’t try to convince them

#heartbreak diaries

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subtle intimacy is so soft!! knowing someone’s routine and slowly becoming a part of it. memorising favourite teas and soups and drink orders. good morning and good night texts and messy paragraphs of love written half asleep. nicknames only you know. just!!! small things that say “look how dear you are to me.”

#healing

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Pierre Lacombe (French, b. 1931, France) - Souvenir Exotique, 1989, Paintings: Acrylic on Panel

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Is it bad that I kinda wanna hit my crush with a car and then nurse him back to health like a baby bird or it normal? :)

yorue literaly insane

#funny

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We’re not “just friends,” we’re friends. 

Stop defining friendship as less than romance. Stop defining romance as better than friendship. 

Friendship is enough, friendship is beautiful and fulfilling and good. Friendship isn’t less than. No type of relationship is better than another. 

#this!!!!!!!!!

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not all of it is bad i think….…. we are going to be okay i think.

#stop :( #i love this

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what i am actually realising with this break up and looking at my past, i don't know how to be alone. i knew once but even then i seeked romance, i wanted it so badly. and now i'm alone for 10 days and i'm thinking i really want to be held by someone. somehow, this breakup might be so good to make me realise i need myself ABOVE ALL. people are just a bonus. this is something i want to work on, that i really need to work on. so much so that in the future i'm so comfortable being alone and by myself that love is an addition.

it's so interesting cause i've always seen love (as in romantic) as such beautiful and NEEDED thing in my life and now i'm wanting to learn to appreciate it but not need it. not need a man (or woman, can't deny maybe a chance too) to actually be able to feel a whole. this is such a trauma response that i've been having for so many years and i'm ready to cut it off. i need this break up more than i realise.

#heartbreak diaries #can't believe #i don't know how to be alone #i just had a epiphany lol #this is so revealing #i feel somehow refreshed #maybe i fucking need this break up a lot more #omg

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✨🧿Sending protection to all who read this!🧿✨

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#mp3

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Every. Fucking. Morning.