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Out of three video of "KWENTONG JOLLIBEE " that make me emotional is this video" A Christmas Special:Pamasko" because this video show us how much our parents work harder to give us what we want, love us and how they want us to make happy. They still manage to go home in celebrate their Christmas us a family, that they will make their child wish come true by going home and celebrate their christmas together.

Us a Filipino we value to celebrate our Christmas together us whole family. There so many OFW that going home to celebrate their Christmas to there family even though they are busy and working harder they still go home for celebrate their Christmas us family to make them happy...

Always remember that you have a grateful and loving family that always there for you to try to give you what you want to make you happy and be contented what they give to you always remember that..

#idealfamily #personaldevelopment

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LOVE LANGUAGE

By taking the "Love Language Test" under the teen category, I came up with the "Quality Time " result of my Love Language.

By this result, I agree with this because I'm a type of person that need an quality time by expressing your love and affection with your undivided attention. I also prefer spending time with someone that I love, that you can feel important, loved, and special, like you were intentional having a quality time that make them feel special. For my family we having a quality time to each other to talk about something happen to our day.  Time is one of the greatest things we will spend and the only one thing precious than our time and that is who we spend it on.

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Experience of Love

Hi I'm Nasja Hadji Ismael. I'm senior high school student and I'm 18. I want to share to you my experience of love but first let me remind you that I don't have an boyfriend since birth.  This story  I will share to you is base in my experience only.

They say True love is a strong and lasting affection between spouses or lovers who are in a happy, passionate and fulfilling relationship. I believe that love is a strong and lasting affection between lovers that you can love anyone, anything, even fall in love with someone and once breakup, feel apart for a week maybe a month then move on and fall inlove again that's what love is. 

 I have a crush but let me not name it. I have a crush and I was 16 when I start to have a crush, I like him being humble and when he smiles I like his dimple that's what I want on his face and ofcourse the good inside of him because I'm not the type of girl that who looks at handsome face and have a crush base on face only. I'm not that type of girl, I'm based on his good inside not at outside because there so many good in outside but inside has an bad attitude i know there no perfect person but that the thing i like him. He is my brother friend in when I meet him first I don't like him because  I thought that he have an bad attitude but yes, he have but he has an good heart why I said that because one time there is beggars that always come to him and he always give his food or money and also there are so many things that I can say that he have an good heart. 

When I see him I can't look at his face or make an eye contact to him. All my friends in junior high school know who is my crush and they always make fun of me when my crush is there and sometimes I'm gonna lie to them that I have an another crush to make them stop make fun when my crush is around but like I say I don't do crush, that I'm loyal to my first crush. I'm not the type of person that if you like someone you want him to be your boyfriend because I know that love can wait and always there. One day, I stalk him in his FB account in see that he have an girlfriend and they are 2 years in relationship, I don't know what I'm gonna feel but yes it's hurt little but I realize that I still like him until now but only in crush not in a higher level. I see how he take care to his girlfriend and how much they love each other and I wish I can experience that love, that they have. I also realize that love can wait and you can see him someday that I can feel loved not only my family and friends but also someone who can take care to me and love me .

This is my experience of  love hope you all enjoy it. Have a nice day!!.

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Pause For A Thought

What makes you happy? When are you happy?

That things that makes me happy when there's someone make me laugh and always there for me that never leave me alone, that she/he make me loved.

I'm happy when my family are complete and have an conversation to each other and especially when we have an vacation together and also when I see my love someone that there are happy that the things that make me happy.

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"Check Which Side Of Your Brain Dominant "

For this activity I found out what dominant side of brain that I have. For this activity it will entertain you and test your brain so you can found out which dominant of your brain and finally I knew it that my dominant side of my brain is left.

"4 Exercise to test how fast is your brain is"

And for this video it will give you how fast is your brain is. This video was helpful for the brain. I try the 4 exercise on this video first, when you see the video you can tell it's easy but if you will do it you can see that it's hard to perform it. But this video will help you to know how fast your brain is it.

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What situation do you consider as Positive stress? Negative stress ?Are you aware of your tripping point when it comes to stress?

There are some situations that I consider as positive stress and that is, when our family have a vacation so that our stress can be out so that we can have a relax time to ourselves. And the negative stress that I consider to my situation is when there are someone I love that I lost my contact to them and have an family problem, especially when it comes to our financial. This is the situation that I consider as Positive stress and Negative stress.

It's difficult to tell when the stress hits a breaking point, and you start suffering the effects of burnout.  Also stress will affect our health and don't know how can we fight it, especially when you don't have someone that you can talk to burst out your stress, to listen to you and give you advice.

#personaldevelopment

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What are the challenges that you face and how can you manage them?

There's more challenges that I face but most of the challenges that it really hurt me was when my grandparents were die for me this is the most challenging that, I don't know where I'm gonna start again because when I was a kid my grandparents are there for us to take care to us when my parents going to work, they always there yo us. So I manage my challenges in my life being more brave and always face it and give it as are inspiration or strength to walk again for another.

Do your believe that adolescence is a period of stress and storm? Why?

"The term 'storm and stress' was first coined by Hall in 1904, who suggested that an adolescent must experience turmoil during their life in order to reach maturity." So for me, Yes I believe that this is a period of stress and storm. Because as we grow up there so many changes to our self and experience a physical changes, interaction and brain development, etc. We have so many priorities to handle especially now that we face a pandemic, we need to take care to our self and always be healthy don't forget to stay hydrated and now that we can't go to school in have an online class. But ofcourse as we face an stress and storm as an adolescence, we can fight to our stress and storm and we can enjoy our life .

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For today questions: How would you describe your current situation as an adolescent? Is it a period of stress or are you slowly strengthening your identity?

Living in this world for 18 years counting and through the years being ten and enjoying myself being adolescent. I faced all circumstances that I had that should I strengthen myself to face it. My insecurities to others and being not confident. I always keep looking myself down. I describe my current situation as an adolescent being not good situation.

I face trials that we must not give up and face them to overcome it. I am really grateful that I have my family and friends to my side to support me. They always make me feel loved and accept who I am right now. I am grateful and thankful for everything what they gave to me.

In every problem that I encounter, it becomes my strength to do better and better soon. "As human beings, we all mature physically from childhood to adolescence and then into adulthood, but our emotions lag behind." - Bernard Sumner

#PesonalDevelopment

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This is the amazing story of Forgiveness, with capital letters. Can a woman forgive the man who killed her daughter? This woman could, and she felt so liberated that she now is helping the man. This impressive story was the inspiration for Christian singer Matthew West and he wrote a song dedicated to her and telling her story. Here we can see the song and the story, told by the protagonists.

The song "Forgiveness" chronicles a mother dealing with the death of her daughter at the hands of a drunk driver. It was one of the first stories I read and it stuck with me the whole time and I was waiting for the right time to deliver this message through a song. Now the song is seeing the light of day, and it is my honor to share it. The song is about Renee, who lost her daughter Megan in a car accident at the hands of a drunk driver, a 24-year-old named Eric who was by all accounts a great young man, but made a tragic mistake. Renee's been on a journey of hatred, and bitterness, and she's learned how to forgive the young man who took her beloved daughter's life.

The question for today is : How you ever met a person who seem to be so complex that it is difficult to fully understand him or her? What makes this person a complex character?

Yes I do and It's me. Living 18 years in this world it seems like little by little I also know who I really am. I always make a decision that make me say that i doing wrong and that why i consider myself as one of the complex character because i make a decision and suddenly i will change it. I always questioned what I'm doing if this make my parents proud of me and people who know me or this make them disappoint to me . I always talk to God that guides me to my decisions that can't disappoint to myself. Even though I don't understand myself I always pray for the guidance to make my life goes on.

What is your take away from the lesson ?

Today lesson it's talks about Being mindful of ourselves. I am able to understand the Holism and the five development and also the Dualism. Also the human body: Physical Attributes and Organ System. The two aspects of cognitive:Cognition that process know which includes remembering, attending and reasoning and the second aspect of cognitive is Attitudes that organize of beliefs feeling and behavioral tendencies and also the elements of attitudes. This lesson will guide us to be mindful of ourselves and be aware that always take care.

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1. Do you know yourself?

In this question is also what I always ask myself, if I know who I really am because I always seem to be wrong and I do it as if I do not understand it I regret. I know myself through the things I do that make me happy like helping my parents in our store, dancing when I'm bored, and singing even if the lyrics do not match these are the things I know that make me happy and if I always feel happy but why do I lack myself these are the questions I do not know how to answer. If I have a wrong decision and I always tell myself "Why did you choose that?" but if I am asked if I know myself then my answer is yes, I know myself but not all because it seems that people who love me better than me. So I am willing to know myself better.

2. How did you learn these things about yourself?

In my answer above I said I love to help my parents, dance and sing but from what I said I know something that is not included in the question above as, I also love to help with housework and my sisters and I already have schedules who will cook so that my mother does not get tired if she is going home. I learn it by the guide of my parents because I know in myself that they know me better than I do because they raised me.

3. Where did the information come from?

For me these information come from my parents because they always say that I'm the type of person who will not do something wrong that I will make them disappoint. To be honest I am the person who is afraid that people will correct me that I know to myself that I didn't did something wrong that how can they say that I did a wrong way and I was afraid to be told bad things I did not know where they knew and to tell people I did not know, that I asked myself "Why if they judge me do they know me?" because if they knew me they would know what I really am and they would not who I am. I'm not Confident person that i know to myself I'm a shy type of person who not talking alot ang i know my friends know it.

4. Do you like what you know?

If i can get a good compliment yes, i will like it because i know that they didn't lie and they are telling the truth because i know if they know me will as me without plastic being and true to myself.

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