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Okay but Temple Grandin 馃挴 helped make accessible stim + comfort items for autistic people.
If you haven't heard of her, look her up. She made MONUMENTAL changes. And deserves a hearty thank you for enduring the ridicule so kids nowadays can be themselves.
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sorry your kid wouldnt stop naming pokemon in order so we had to flatten em into a sheet of lasagna
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really love dynamics that are like 'it honestly doesn't matter if you view them as romantic or platonic, the point is that they love each other. the type of love is inconsequential, all that matters is that it's there'. gotta be one of my favorite genders.
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"he would not fucking say that" but you ever be looking at fanart and suddenly its "he would not fucking have abs"
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Undulatus Asperitas聽clouds seen over New Hampshire, (2023).
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cute bpd things!!
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*small inconvenience* BREAK UP BREAK UP BREAK UP BREAK UP
yeah im fine lol look at this meme :D
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mood depending on them
every text hurts or feels way too good
intrusive thought yeouch okay ouch thats another one yeOOUCH
the 50000+ articles on how youre abusive
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fp is bad for me but its ok i love them<3
"if i hurt someone its gonna be myself"
becoming completely obsessed with someone the moment they give you the slightest attention
never being able to cut anyone off ever. immediately go running back
cry because theyre talking to someone that IS NOT ME
oh my fp isnt here. okay. oh im dissociating okay i dont have any purpose to continue living without them okay my life literally revolves around them i want to die where are they are they safe i dont know what to do with myself
"just leave. everyone does anyways"
5 minutes later theyre the worst person ever
*looking for an identity* hmmm, where could it be?
dependent on fp like theyre a parental figure you never had
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I know her tumblr would be fire
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embroidery from peacockandpinecones my friends and I have been losing our minds over all morning.
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this reply kills me 馃槶
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ZOMBIELAND: DOUBLE TAP (2019)
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DO NOT GO BACK TO YOUR EX
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DO NOT GO BACK TO YOUR EX
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At least take accountability for what you do
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If you're disabled you're going to have to learn to ask for help. And you're never a burden for doing so.
It's still a challenge for me despite spending nearly half my life with some level of disability. I get a lot of "why didn't you tell me you were having a POTS episode on the kitchen floor? I could have brought you water or been there!" "If it hurts that much to walk right now I could have refilled your water. Why didn't you say something?" "I could have brought you some food, why did you go all night without it?"
I never have a good answer. "I didn't want to be a bother" "you were busy" "I didn't want to wake you" "you have better things to do" "I'm used to handling it alone". But it's no mystery why I do it. Even before my illness I'd always been taught that my mere existence was a burden and a debt. I don't get called a burden as often as I used to but now it's too late because I internalized ableism and the idea that I was too much for a very long time.
It's the me that was told "go away you're bothering me" "fuck off I'm busy" "If I'm asleep don't bother me, I don't give a shit" "I have better and more important things to do. You're wasting my time " "You can figure it out yourself, you're not a baby anymore" that wants to apologize for taking up space and having needs. That me is so scared to ask for help.
But I've been trying to at least ask for help for the smaller things. And also do the terrifying thing that is allowing others to offer help when needed. It lets that part of me know he won't get yelled at or in trouble for having needs, things aren't like that anymore. I realized it's a crucial thing to learn how to do even if it takes baby steps
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