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Ethereal fairy moodboard ✨️

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btw if it’s hard for you to stay in a regressed headspace due to stress / other factors I love you and you’re doing great

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"harry wasnt that powerful, he literally only knew 3 spells and had a horcrux in him and he wouldnt have survived without-"

listen to me, LISTEN TO ME

the boy was in survival mode for literally all of his life. almost all of his defense teachers tried to kill him. he was more worried about surviving the next voldy jumpscare. his "mentor" was raising him to die.

do u think he had the time to learn and master an arsenal of spells when everyone who was meant to help him are either dead or keeping him in the dark ? do u think he had the time to train when hes getting into life or death scenarios practically every year ?

he was a growing teen who had to deal with a murderer going after him, a world who thinks hes just off his rockers, adults who rarely take him seriously, the natural hormonal teen years, and the typical fights between friends who have vastly different life experiences but arent emotionally mature enough to address those yet . i dont think he even had that much positive reinforcement from everyone around him

stop calling harry james potter a weakass fuckass just because he doesnt have a shiny arsenal of weapons and the mind of a master strategist . thats literally a child and then a teen who keeps on getting retraumatised over and over and over, and you keep on taking the piss on him because he doesnt react like a levelheaded YA protagonist who has everything under control ?

hes just a dude who had to practically raise himself, who tries his goddamn best but fucks up constantly and is always haunted by his fuckups, and who still manages to get the job done at the end

AND EVEN AFTER THAT the people still put more responsibilities on his shoulders like "he couldve redid society with his influence" "he couldve done this he couldve done that" "he couldve done more"

how much more of himself does he have to give before society is satisfied ? why cant the adults take charge for once and rebuild the system that THEY broke ? why's it all on harry's shoulders ALONE ?

"he couldve used his influence-" did u conveniently forget how the wizarding world showed him over and over how easily their views and treatment of him cld change at the flip of a coin ? do u think he'd trust them to listen to him after all this time ? NO

like i get it, "chosen ones" have the influence and the responsibility . "chosen ones" should be powerful and their skills and abilities varied by the end of the series . they could do more and many chosen ones have done more . but harry's just part of the subset of chosen ones that is just tired and beat down at the end of the it all .

idk give him a break, hop off his back, let him retire to the countryside

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(I will boop everyone who reblogs this post, for the record 💖)

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Still thinking about the fact that Bella was canonically listening to In The End by Linkin Park

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The theory that Dipper is trans adds a whole new level of heartbreaking to his panic attack in the body swap episode.

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Gravity Falls Headcanon I wanna make.

Dipper IS trans (ftm) and his parents are sota supportive, but not really. (Mabel is VERY supportive of Dipper) So when the twins parents called Grunkle Stan, they told him to push more girly things on Dipper and how Dipper thinks that "she" is a boy, and how that needs to get out of "her" head.

Grunkle Stan being Grunkle Stan and not doing everything he's told to. He thought Dipper was a boy so that's part of the reason he pushed him to do all those chores. More "boy" chores to get him that build or something like that. Or to make him feel like an actual boy. And would help him get those hormone pills.

Idk, just a headcanon, not saying it's canon just a thought. Have a great day/night.

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armin headcannon:

after inheriting the colossal titan, armin’s natural body temperature becomes slightly higher than average. he runs hot and can’t sleep unless the windows are open and he can feel the breeze on his face. he doesn’t like feeling too warm or stuffy and if he gets too hot it makes him start to panic, because he gets flashbacks of being burned alive :(

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jily’s seventh year pining era will never not get me.

them looking at each other during meals and lily thinking james doesn’t like her anymore while james is just aching because she’s still so beautiful>>>

them going to sleep after a gryffindor common room party only to realize they spent the entire night together talking and laughing>>>

james trying his hardest to just be lily’s friend and respect her wishes while lily has been sending signals at him for weeks>>>

lily drooling over james after quidditch practice>>>

james being in awe of lily when she gets a question right during class after trying to compete with her a moment before>>>

them all of a sudden having inside jokes and being the first ones to look at each other when something funny happens>>>

my heart is always so warm thinking about them.

(btw remus and marlene were the most excited out of everyone)

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a│s : agere & stimming.

stimming is a completely natural thing that nearly everbody does <3.

although it's most often associated with autism and anxiety, stimming can be highly benifical for everybody to help out let out build up stress (or other emotions) in tough / silent situations.

here are some usual examples:

✰ foot tapping.

✰ fingertapping.

✰ counting fingers.

✰ clicking pens.

✰ chewing lids.

✰ needing to keep your hands busy.

stimming is also used a lot in age regression.

it can used as a way for little ones to let out and work through big emotions, it can be used for a way to communicate- and it can be also used as tell signs that you're little one is uncomfortable or unhappy / stressed out about a situation.

this is why it's important for caregivers to understand both their littles verbal and silent forms of communication, because what could look like harmless stimming for one agere could be a cry of overstimulation for another <3.

here are a few examples of agere stimming.

✰ using pacifiers

✰ playing with toys.

✰ playing with fidget toys.

✰ swaying / dancing to repeated music.

✰ rocking / self soothing motions.

✰ repeated tapping on toys, blocks etc.

✰ slime / sensory play.

remember, you don't need to be in a certain catergory to stim. it's a perfectly natural release technique that a lot of people use to help <3.

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fictional cg

fictional cg .. save me

save me fictional cg

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you ever just not regress for a few weeks then it turns into months then whenever you do regress it’s involuntary

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☆read pinned b4 interacting☆

your still a valid little if

•your poc

•your chubby

•you don't watch shows that are for "your age"

•you dont have a cg

•you have "scary" mental health conditions

•your a system

•your anti touch

•you don't have gear

•you do big kid stuff outside of agere

•you smoke/do weed

•you throw tantrums

•your regression looks different than everyone else's

•your boyre

everyone's regression is different and that's what makes it special all littles are valid <3

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Teeny tiny🤲

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strawberry shortcake agere moodboard ⊹˚₊･