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Just a lonely lesbian in the void. people are welcome to join me.

#Voidcore #eldritchcore #lgbtq+ #lesbian

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I’m here

I’m queer

And the end is near

#Idk #lgbtq #poem? #queer

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Anyone else constantly listen to music as a way to ground your self so you don’t daydream and ignore people on accident and have them get mad at you? but later get really guilt that all I do is listen to music? Or just me?

#neurodivergent #adhd #mental health memes

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One of my worst fears for myself and those around me.

THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. It may save a life, It may save your life.)

An Article from Neena Susan Thomas

“Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interview…ed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

If u have compassion reblog this post. ‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW AT LEAST PEOPLE WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD. So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.

THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.”

#Reblog #important #safety

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reblog for safety of others. it shouldn’t have to be like this but… unfortunately it is.

Every girl has had the experience where a creepy guy asks for our number and we don’t want to give it to him, but we also don’t want to get gutted in a back alley. “Give him a fake number!” I hear you call, okay and then he says “okay let me call you real quick!” Because they are learning. “Give them your number and then block them!” Okay and then they can plug it into something like Spokeo, pay $10 and know everything about you. So what do you do?

First pick a fake name, I use Jessica, then download the Google Voice app, hook it up to your email, pick a number, and set up a fake greeting with your fake name. You can set it to ring your actual phone like a normal call or text but they don’t have real info on you.

Go forth and don’t get murdered, ladies!

#Important #safety

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I should be able to kudos a work more than once because it deserves it!

#Ao3 #fanfiction #memes #meme

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I’ve seen women so pretty I’ve cried

men could never

#Wlw #lgbtq #nblw #lgbtq+ #saphic #lesbian #queer

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Women… pretty … that is Your daily reminder

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From a dumb lesbian

#Wlw #lesbian #nblw #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queer #pride #lgbtq+ #Head empty only women

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That’s repulsive and downright torturous! I want out of this god forsaken country

What’s happening to autistic people right now?

(Trigger warning for abuse, electroshock therapy, torture, and ableism.)

The US court has overturned the ban on shock devices being used against disabled students, predominantly autistic students in the US.

The shock device being legalized is called the graduated electronic decelerator (or GED). This is a torture device that is used to ‘correct’ autistic behaviors / symptoms. Autistic people are shocked for stimming, and for having meltdowns, ect. This device was made popular by a behavioral center (the Judge Rosenberg Center, specifically) that is infamous for its abuse and torture of autistic / disabled patients.

(Image ID: someone is holding their arm out and resting it on a table, with their sleeve rolled up. Attached to their arm are wires, which connect to a small cube device.)

This is what the device looks like. It sends electric shocks into the victim’s skin; the victim often being restrained and held against their will. This is torture. GEDs have been reported to cause intense psychological trauma, PTSD, and physical injuries.

In March of 2020, the FDA ruled for GEDs to be banned. (Although, of course, they were still illegally used at a number of places.) This ruling has recently been appealed, and today, the US court of appeals has re-regulated the law to stop the use of GED. Sounds great, right? It would be!

... If not for a huge loophole in the wording, which basically allows this torture to continue. This device is going to have continued use on autistic students in order to “correct their behavior.”

“So.... What can I do??”

Great question! You can:

Listen to and boost autistic voices to spread awareness

As-of now (July 7th), autistic activists are trying to get #StopTheShock trending on Twitter, so Tweet out the hashtag if you have Twitter

If you’re in the US, email / call your legislators

Sign this petition if you’re in the US

Follow this case and look out for updates

If Autism Speaks (known ableist hategroup) says anything about this, DO NOT BOOST IT

That’s all! Thank you. Reblogs are very appreciated!!

#neurodivergent #neurodivergent news #News #fucking disgusting

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My love language is giving spell jars and telling you trivia/folk lore

#Witch #wicca #pagan #witchblr #love language

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Blackhat likes bugs, reptiles and any animal considered creepy. ex bats. Pass it on

#Villainous #villainous blackhat #villainous headcanons black hat #villainous headcanons

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Alfred from hetalia is a baby and no I am not accepting criticism!

#art is not mine #aph america #aph hetalia #aph #hetalia #he is my comfort character #aph headcanons

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reblog and put in the tags the real reason you joined tumblr no matter how horrible or embarrassing it is

#To post stupid thoughts I had and mainly villainous/team fortress/hetalia stuff #And a fanfic/ fan art addiction to feed

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It’s the 4th of July I hope everyone had a firework and food filled day

#fourth of july

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Here’s mine:

Narcissistic parents catch phrases:

Why do you never ask me about what I want?

You only ever think about yourself!

You’re selfish and you only care about yourself!

You never listen to me!

Why can’t you be more like xyz?

What’s wrong with you? Why can’t you be normal?

Stop being so difficult! Nobody cares what you want!

You’re just like ‘insert name of a person they hate’..!

You have a demon inside of you.

I know you better than you know yourself.

You’re disrespectful!

You should be ashamed of yourself!

You only exist to torment me! You’re only happy if I’m suffering!

I sacrificed everything for you!

When you were small, you wouldn’t sleep! Do you know what you put me thru?

You’re lucky to have me as a parent! You don’t know how much worse people have it!

You live in your imagination world! When will you start living in the real world?!

Nobody will ever love you like I do!

Get over it already! Why are you overreacting?!

You ungrateful brat!

Stop crying! Stop pretending you’re hurt! I’ll give you a reason to cry!

You’ll see what happens next. You’ll be sorry then.

You used to be so nice when you were small!

Your friend/peer/relative is manipulating you!

Look at yourself before you start criticizing others!

Everything is always my fault! I’m tired of always taking all the blame!

I was joking! Didn’t you ever hear of a joke?

I never said that.

 Pick out the ones your narcissistic parents say the most and make bingo cards! That way you can use their abusive bullshit to play bingo and always anticipate horrible things to be said, aware it’s just their regular narcissism and has nothing to do with you. People trapped with narcissists suggested this, claiming it softens the blow.

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Stardew valley is literally my favorite game and I just got the top hat from qi casino and I put it on my horse while I wear a bowler and because of my love of villainous each time I log on to my game of 180+ hours I get reminded of blackhat while playing my fav game so I put an episode of villainous on while playing( normally I would watch anything by matpat, gametheory, etc ) because I need back round noise and I love his channel.

I am in great need of a distraction to my Excellent Emotions

if you guys have any hyperfixations please infodump them to me c:

#adhd #rant #adhd rant #infodump

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Eldest child, mentally ill, American, arsonists, etc around 15

DNI: literally everyone

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