Being “ghosted” by someone you have been intimate with or close to has got to be one of the most degrading and hurtful moments of a person’s life.
The bare minimum in human decency is to communicate that you no longer wish to know someone; there is never a benefit to ignoring them and disappearing from their life.
Being ghosted leads to so many self hating thoughts such as believing you are worthless, forgettable, unattractive, boring etc. (side note: you aren’t any of these things!).
To somebody thinking of ghosting: if you are “done” with someone, please just kindly explain to them what is going on with you. Try and avoid disappearing from their life with zero explanation.
To somebody who has been ghosted recently: I’m so sorry, I know it hurts, but it has nothing to do with you and is 100% on the person ghosting you. Please don’t take it personally, you are amazing.
There is nothing funnier to me than the fact that DJ Khaled announced that he wouldn't eat pussy then less than a week later did THIS at an owl performance
if y’all want to date anyone 5’4 an under i’m going to need you to recognize that there is effort involved. they need their outside time but you have to be willing to stand around with them too bc you never know what birds of prey are in the area and it is your responsibility as their partner to make sure they don’t get scooped up. like. that is the bare minimum. c’mon