gestaltandmyniggachickpea

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The oppressor begins a sentence with: "You are..."

The oppressed begin a sentence with: "We are..." & "I am..."

That's the difference.

#difference #life #alone with my thoughts #humanity #people

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Facebook hates me. Twitter doesn't make sense. So here I am—on Tumblr.

#facebook #twitter #social media #banned #life #sad

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Calling someone "different" or "weird" is not an excuse to treat them badly.

#different #weird #mental health

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How to be a Psychiatrist 101:

Have an exceptional Poker Face.

Play "Poker Face" by Lady Gaga on repeat during all of your appointments.

If your client is a woman, consensually poke her face to determine mental health diagnosis.

Constantly cover your face with Poker cards.

Congratulations. You now have a degree in dealing drugs.

#psychology #psychiatry #pills #medication #drugs #lol #mental health #life #appointment #psychiartist #doctor #professional #i know what im talking about #trust me #poker face #poker #lady gaga

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You know what scares me more than COVID-19? Going back to normal.

Because "normal" is the reason why so many people are paranoid, willfully ignorant, manipulative, & dead right now.

What makes you think enough people have learned a god damn thing to move forward?

#alone with my thoughts #life #mental health #2020 #2021 #history repeats itself #idiots #america #pandemic

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Have you ever seen or heard someone—regardless of them being man, woman, genderless, or giraffe—and had a weird feeling that they was born and raised in St. Louis?

That means your Midwestern body is trying to tell you one thing: Run—do not walk—to the nearest exit. Your Spidey Senses are tingling, ringling, & ding-a-ling-ing.

#stl #stlouis #trash #midwest #we suck #dont come back #please help #save me #take me away #a secret place #america #halp #spiderverse #spiderman

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We're all aware that Naruto didn't coin, popularize, or invent what is often called the "Naruto-Run," right?

We're all decently informed about Japanese culture, right?

We're not simply taking a single feature from Japanese culture & associating it with a single piece of Japanese media, right?

Right, America?

#america #japan #japan aesthetic #anime #run #naruto #usa #culture

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2020 swung its hardest blow on the way out.

It's ugly, like look at you, it's a damn shame. Forever remember ALL CAPS when you spell the man name.

#DOOM #RIP #rap #hiphop

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Jhene Aiko sounds like the R&B Empress of Run-on Sentences.

That's just, like, my opinion though.

#r&b #r&b music #r&b artist #r&b/soul #controversial #opinion #sorry i had to #sorry everyone #sorry not sorry #sorry not really sorry #sorry #grammar #love #music #singer #sing #nah #change my fucking mind #bogus #pass me the aux #english #not a fan

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#macmiller #hiphop #rap #lyrics #lonely #smallworld #love #risk #music #rip (at St. Louis, Missouri) https://www.instagram.com/p/CJYsRv7L2SGbMpX3DgqBilj79yb7841gebENbM0/?igshid=63dzcgnygp2i

#macmiller #hiphop #rap #lyrics #lonely #smallworld #love #risk #music #rip

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Platonic & Romantic Relationships 101

Do: Exchange values & standards to determine if you harmonize with each other.

Don't: Make demands & have expectations of yourself as well as the other person.

Definitely Do: Chill the hell out.

Definitely Don't: Confuse exchanging values & standards with exchanging demands & expectations.

#relationship #lessonslearned #people #men #women #gender #friends #friendship #romance #love #love with flaws #loved ones #self love

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You will always be entitled to be wrong about feelings that aren't your own.

However, you're always entitled to validate someone else's feelings to decrease conflict.

Whether you agree or disagree with someone else's feelings, at least you're trying to consider them—presumably within reason.

And that's what matters first & foremost during any exchange of emotions.

#love #dating #life #mental health #relationship #people #feelings #empathy #understanding

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How to Capitalism 101: The Falsest Dichotomy

Sign away many of your rights to a collective entity of corporate leeches in exchange for being provided with an income.

Work your ass off with little or virtually no support—then rely on sheer willpower and/or your conviction that luck, your God, karma, Rudolph, Shrek, or whoever/whatever you believe in will aid you in an ironic fashion so you can earn an income.

By the way, I never said that your income would provide fulfillment & sustainability. "Fuck your feelings," replied Capitalism in its laissez-faire.

#capitalism #anti capitalist #capitalist society #money #america #murica #job #country #us politics #politics #life #trash

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It is so bizarre for me to notice a representative of the Salvation Army ringing a bell to signal requests for donations towards their Red Kettle during a pandemic—all while wearing a mask.

"Death is (literally) in the air, but so is Christmas cheer."

#alone with my thoughts #2020 #life #walmart #christmas #holiday #winter #shopping #christian #jesus #jesus christ #religion #wat #bruh #wtf #staph #pandemic

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Please don't mistake the passion in my voice as inflexibility. I will validate your feelings on that aspect of my behavior unconditionally.

#me #love your flaws #flawedhearts #love with flaws #fallible #human #accountability #love #dating #life #mental health #relationship #time #people #friendship #family #passion #introvert

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Recently, I finished the rough draft of an essay that took around 5 years to complete. I would like to receive thoughts, constructive criticism, and a thicker skin to process constructive criticism better than I have in the past.

Message me if you're interested and/or willing to help me. I'll send you a Google Docs file that contains my project. Serious inquiries only.

#2020 #writers on tumblr #my writing #writers #writing #writeblr #writblr #written #essay #rough draft #project #please help #pls help #help #feedback #honest thoughts #thoughts #constructive criticism #proofreading #reading #long reads #read #personal #opinion #opinions #google docs #edit #editing

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I'm gonna say it.

Your trauma is no excuse to waste unfair amounts of time interrogating new people about their intentions & integrity. The risk of heartbreak will always remain.

Work on yourself before developing any kind of relationship. Unless you're willing to communicate open and honestly & trust the other person's words, you cannot do both.

Have your cake if you want, but you will fail to eat it at some point.

#love #dating #relationship #alone with my thoughts #friends #being alone #friendship #trust #self care #self care reminder #people #mental health #trauma #triggering stuff #experience #time #life is short #death #life #live