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enchantechante · a day ago
Would you get involved with someone who only wants you to help people of your ethnicity and gets mad if you help people that are of another ethnicity?
No, I personally wouldn’t. That sounds controlling. They shouldn’t get mad no matter who you’re helping if it’s solely a skin color problem.
It’s important to have healthy friendships w people of diff ethnicities.
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enchantechante · a day ago
To answer your question, I tried POF before.I met a lot of people on there who needed healing.Ome man I met,him and I just clicked.He seemed normal and sane.We lived in different areas but talked everyday.Everything was going so good for months and when we had a disagreement,we talked things out like adults.One night we were talking,he had been drinking before we got on the phone,I said something that he just did not like.Not even a little bit.He started going off,told me how different I am from him then ended the call by hanging up while I was still on the phone.I haven't heard from him since that night.Turns out he was feeding me lies and even if there was some truth in anything he said to me,it doesn't matter.I opened up too much and I'm very reserved. I had been single for years so to cross paths with someone who understood me,wanted what I wanted in life etc felt good.But it was all a bullshit.Some men just play too many games.For the anon who wants to try online anything,be careful.It's a lot of trifling men in these internet streets and they will try to take advantage of you.As for me,I'm just focusing on myself.I have no time for the nonsense so I'm going to continue to stay single.
There’s def a lot of grade A actors out there. It eventually all comes out eventually. Just gotta watch 👀 lol Thanks for sharing! ✨
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enchantechante · 2 days ago
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ay - do yall be datin online? 👀
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enchantechante · 2 days ago
I have a question for you and your followers. Have you ever tried online dating? If so how did it go and wgat sites did you use? The same question goes for you followers. I live in a small town with very few black people. It's so hard to meet a black man who's interested in black women. Every one of them I've met only likes white women.I haven't been out with a black man since 2018.😒
Good question! I have had relationships with men I’ve met online. 
Back in the day I met a young man on BlogTV and then he followed me on Twitter we started talking and dated for about 3 years. I’ve tried a couple sugaring websites that will go unnamed (was ok til it wasn’t lol), Plenty of Fish (started great & ended v wack experiences). 
Sometimes the networking websites that aren’t specifically about finding love are better to find someone like-minded with common interests. 
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enchantechante · 2 days ago
Yes,you're right.I need to let him go and move on.I was just curious because I don't date a lot or deal with many men so the credit score question had me confused. I was like...is this what people are doing now,all in someone's personal business after one or two days?It was so crazy.I went from ... I always wanted to meet someone like you to... Oh,I can't know your score?Word.Well fuck you then.Thanks for the advice.I'm going to go back in my shell and just focus on myself.He's the fifth man I've met since last summer and each of them seem to have some secret issues going on.
Yeah everyone has issues. I think it’s just a matter of if they’re aware of what they are and have help/support managing them. 
I always ask the things people love and their pet peeves. And that gives me a good idea of what makes them tick.
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enchantechante · 2 days ago
Hey Tae! Previous anon here again.I told him I didn't feel comfortable with letting him know my credit score.I never had a man ask me that especially when we're just getting to know each other.He told me I was childish and not mature enough for my age.I'm 27 and he's 40.I was like what in the hell is this man talking about?He was nice until we got to that point.Lucklily he stopped talking to me and I'm very happy with that.
Yes, girl he definitely did you a favor. Voicing when you’re uncomfortable with how someone talks to you is very mature. He sounds like he realized teasing you wont back you down & that turned him off. Woe to the next woman smh lol 
Wishing you better suitors in your future! ✨
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enchantechante · 2 days ago
I just started driver's lessons.How long did it take before you received your license?How many hours a week did you drive and did you use a driving school?You're do open and real,I feel like by asking you I can get a real answer.Thank you!
I actually took Drivers Ed online. So I think it was something like 12 hours for that. Then I got my permit and my dad showed me how to drive to and from school and I did that for a while and that got me driving. I’m going to be honest with you it was a while back but I feel like I didnt spend more than like 6 hours practicing that route w my Maxima before I started driving driving. 
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enchantechante · 3 days ago
Hey,boo!Girl,I was asked what my credit score is by a man that I only knew for two days.He said he needs to know to see if he should continue getting to know me.Wth?Lol.My credit score isn't the best after my student loan debt but I've been working on it recently.It's 640 but my thing is...isn't that too personal to just ask somebody so soon?He told me we have different ways of thinking then said I'm tripping because the average female would've answered.Smdh.
I don’t understand what his credit history lets him know? He seems ill-mannered and judgemental. Your credit score isn’t that bad. 
But if his treating you like a future employee makes you uncomfortable you should cut him loose. 
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enchantechante · 3 days ago
What do you think about men who get mad if you don't want to have sex or phone sex with them...and they go on a rant to try and make you feel bad about not doing so...then they bring up the fact that they're a grown man and call you a little girl who who don't know know any better or how to please a man?
He’s trying to bait you into “proving him wrong” and breaking your own self will to f*ck him. Unacceptable.
He doesn’t respect you bc he’s not taking your “no” for an answer. And he thinks teasing you w his baseless opinions can change your mind.
Release him back into the wild.
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enchantechante · 3 days ago
How's life Tae?How's Cali?
Life is good! Cali is back open so niggas is floodin the beach. Im starting to sociaize again. Hows your weekend going? 
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enchantechante · 3 days ago
My boyfriend swears he loves me and wants to spend his life with me.Tonight I said something he didn't like then he started talking about how I feel like he doesn't respect me and so much more.He then told me how him and I see things different and he's going to start doing his own thing and I should do the same.He said he'll talk to me whenever then hung up on me.I was shocked and cried a little bit.I am so confused.I know he has things going on in his life but I still can't believe he did that. Convo went from good to what the fuck just happened?Man.Has anything like this ever happened to you?Shoot,what advice can you give me right now other than I need to move on?I can't believe him.Seemes to be the man of my dreams now this.Wow
After all this why does he still “seem to be the man of your dreams”?
Partners never broken up w me. I have been blind sided w criticisms out of no where. But I am very very suspicious of everyone until they prove me otherwise. I don’t commit easily, I feel easily - but i dont commit.
I don’t think you did anything wrong here. Please feel no guilt or shame about what happened to you. It’s devastating. And he didn’t have to do that. I wish you a grateful healing as u work through that.
But I would definitely dig deep for the lesson here. You deserve better than that. It may be advisable to wait to see someone’s response/process when they’re deeply offended or their argument style before committing in the future.
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enchantechante · 3 days ago
Question - did u know him bf jail? I just realized I assumed u did.
My boyfriend is in prison.He gets out in 21 months,been in almost ten years.He tells me to live my life,not to worry about him etc.I do love him and he loves me.We have been through a lot.Lately I keep thinking about going out and meeting other men.Would I be wrong for doing so?Of course he tells me to do it but he doesn't really mean it.He just wants me to be happy and have the best life even though he loves me but knows he can only do so much.I keep thinking what if I do meet someone and we get together then he comes home.I know I'll still want to be with him.I don't want to hurt anyone.
This is complicated. And as odd as it might sound, 21 months in comparison to 10 years seems like it might go by quickly. Esp since yall been committed whole time. You sound like you really care for him and wouldn’t want to end up further complicating your life by bringing on a new partner. 
This is complicated. And as odd as it might sound, 21 months in comparison to 10 years seems like it might go by quickly. Esp since yall been committed whole time. You sound like you really care for him and wouldn’t want to end up further complicating your life by bringing on a new partner. 
You can go ahead and meet other men! There’s nothing wrong with that at all. You still deserve to be loved on and adored. But I think you’ll find anyone you want to get srs with will first require you to resolve things with your current boyfriend. 
If you want to keep this relationship, look at how it has (if at all) helped u blossom. if he’s played his part as well as he shld have in ur wellness/life.  good/healthy relationships elevate us. is he what u deserve (or more) from a partner? if so, figure out how to cope/satisfy your desires until he gets home, which sometimes happens sooner depending on good behavior in most situations. However...
if it brings you more peace to imagine your life without this commitment, free to date (or not). If he’s around or not. Two years worth of a personal re-set by and for yourself. if ultimately you’re not hopful your life is on the right track by being in this relationship -breaking up is the decision to make. and only u can make it.
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enchantechante · 4 days ago
My boyfriend is in prison.He gets out in 21 months,been in almost ten years.He tells me to live my life,not to worry about him etc.I do love him and he loves me.We have been through a lot.Lately I keep thinking about going out and meeting other men.Would I be wrong for doing so?Of course he tells me to do it but he doesn't really mean it.He just wants me to be happy and have the best life even though he loves me but knows he can only do so much.I keep thinking what if I do meet someone and we get together then he comes home.I know I'll still want to be with him.I don't want to hurt anyone.
This is complicated. And as odd as it might sound, 21 months in comparison to 10 years seems like it might go by quickly. Esp since yall been committed whole time. You sound like you really care for him and wouldn’t want to end up further complicating your life by bringing on a new partner. 
This is complicated. And as odd as it might sound, 21 months in comparison to 10 years seems like it might go by quickly. Esp since yall been committed whole time. You sound like you really care for him and wouldn’t want to end up further complicating your life by bringing on a new partner. 
You can go ahead and meet other men! There’s nothing wrong with that at all. You still deserve to be loved on and adored. But I think you’ll find anyone you want to get srs with will first require you to resolve things with your current boyfriend. 
If you want to keep this relationship, look at how it has (if at all) helped u blossom. if he’s played his part as well as he shld have in ur wellness/life.  good/healthy relationships elevate us. is he what u deserve (or more) from a partner? if so, figure out how to cope/satisfy your desires until he gets home, which sometimes happens sooner depending on good behavior in most situations. However...
if it brings you more peace to imagine your life without this commitment, free to date (or not). If he’s around or not. Two years worth of a personal re-set by and for yourself. if ultimately you’re not hopful your life is on the right track by being in this relationship -breaking up is the decision to make. and only u can make it.
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enchantechante · 4 days ago
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enchantechante · 4 days ago
“Credit Karma doesn't hurt your credit. Also, most banks let you check it without penalty too.“ - @danielle-mertina (Thanks, friend! 👋🏽)
What sites do you use to check your credit score?Have you ever tried
Experian?
Credit Karma& Experian. But you can’t do it too much cause I heard it was bad for ur credit. Idk why that’s just what I heard lol
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enchantechante · 4 days ago
What sites do you use to check your credit score?Have you ever tried
Experian?
Credit Karma& Experian. But you can’t do it too much cause I heard it was bad for ur credit. Idk why that’s just what I heard lol
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enchantechante · 4 days ago
Good morning Tae.I have been getting to know this man who is amazing.When we first started to get to know each other,girl he blew my phone up.Texting and a lot of calling which I love.For the last two weeks,not so much but we always talk after we get from work and do that for hours and sleep on skype(we live in different states for now). When he doesn't hear from me most of the day then he calls and be like...damn shorty haven't heard from you all day etc.I be like...😒 then he apologizes.I really like him and he doesn't do anything crazy.He cares about me and is currently helping me start a business and so much more.I'm just confused by how the text and calls went from every morning to once or twice a week but we talk all night and sleep on skype.Am I missing something Tae? Be real sis.He's over 30 so he's not a baby and I'm kind of new to the dating scene.I don't know if I should trip or what.I told him about it but here we are,day two and I haven't heard from him at all.It's 1 something here and I text him at 8am.Around the same time I know he's up. Idk.Sometimes I feel like my soulmate might be a woman because the men I meet are not consistent.The women I meet always are. It's crazy.
Consistency has nothing to do w gender and everything to do w who’s involved, friend.
Women deserve better than being the it-didn’t-work-with-men-so-I option. If your goal is to find a gf/wife that’s completely diff.
Point is - there’s a lot of expectations from y’all’s habits but no form of commitment. It would be easier on your heart if you didn’t expect bf behavior (consistent communication, co-sleeping etc) from someone you’re “getting to know”. It may’ve given u a false sense of intimacy or overlook clarifying your specific needs bc everything felt so intuitive b/t u two.
If you really see potential w y’all - let him know your goal is to be in a loving committed relationship. And what you expect of your future partner. Not of him, of your future partner (bc they may or may not be the same person). Tell him how they would communicate w u. How they wld be consistent. Simplify it so a 6th grader could understand it.
His response isn’t just verbal. It’s his behavior. The convo could end on a sweet note, and u cld feel v encouraged and hopeful for his potential to fulfill your needs. Who knows? Watch how he moves and give him enough space to reach out say good morning, (stop going first), respond to u etc.
I’ve done this w men since I’ve learned to. The ones who know they’re not that person step aside. The one who knew he was stepped up and hasn’t stopped stepping up since.
You got this!
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enchantechante · 4 days ago
Heeeeeyy,Tae!How are you?I was trying to find your post about the question I have.I know someone asked before and I don't like you repeating yourself.But I can't find it.My question is...what does it mean when the man who wants to be with you or the two of you are together,falls asleep while you're on the phone or anytime you spend time with him all the time?Is that bad or good?He only does it with me.
Dang! I used to date a brotha like this lol. I don’t think it’s a problem necessarily but I personally couldn’t take it. I felt like I wanted to get to know him but his body needed more rest 😩 lol (and he was “saving head til marriage”... don’t get me started 😒)
It’s about what you yourself can handle. If it’s bothering you bring it up. It could improve. Be patient. It may be a health issue. However, if it’s not happening anywhere else and he’s just bad at managing his time you can always just leave, hang up, only pick up when he’s rested etc.
Get used to giving yourself permission to dismiss yourself. It’s not forever. That’s just bad manners period 😂 I hope he gets the hint when you change up his access to you. Cause it sounds necessary.
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enchantechante · 4 days ago
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When a girl stops checking your social media accounts she's done with your ass.
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enchantechante · 5 days ago
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Share with me something you’re celebrating?
 idc how small u think it is 😌🥳 I’ll start...
the salon i work at is ran by to recovering aa/na sponsors. their sobriety inspires me a lot to seek my own. im not as bad as i used to be, even though i do drink & smoke still. im grateful i have no more seizures, black outs, hospital visits/stays, accidental throwing up (expensive food if i ate at all smh), the room is spinning, i dont have food but i have weed and alcohol etc etc etc. 
it’s been abt 2 yrs since it was that bad abt every week. im not completely sober, but im grateful for all the progress i’ve made. even the friendships i had to cut off. 
the longest i’ve gone without either is abt 1-2 (Edit: *4 wks.) i look forward to more sobriety streaks. 
thats corny af to say but when u’ve lived the alternative it looks more like light at the end of a pit. 
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