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Is My Boyfriend or Girlfriend A Narcissist? Ten Questions to Ask
. Proverbs says, . The prudent sees the evil and hides himself, But the naive go on, and are punished for it.  . Proverbs 22:3 . Following are ten questions to ask yourself to help determine if you might be developing a romantic relationship with a narcissist. . Is my boyfriend a narcissist? Does your boyfriend often talk about himself and his accomplishments? Does he have a tendency to…
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dcrobertsson · 1 year
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40 Ideas For Non-Monetary Christmas Gifts
40 Ideas For Non-Monetary Christmas Gifts
. My wife and I have a long-standing tradition of giving each other only “non-monetary” Christmas gifts.  Occasionally we break the rule but we want to put the focus on giving something that actually “costs us” something of ourselves.  I won’t share what we have done, but here is a list of ideas in case you’re looking for inspiration. . Write a heartfelt letter or poem expressing your love and…
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dcrobertsson · 1 year
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Narcissist* Case Studies - Satan's Narcissistic Traits
Narcissist* Case Studies – Satan’s Narcissistic Traits
. Satan is the original and most clear example of a Narcissist / One with insolent pride.   (See here for an explanation on why Satan was the original narcissist).  By understanding Satan’s insolent pride and his narcissistic traits, we can get another glimpse into the characteristics of narcissists.  Here is a partial list of Satan’s narcissistic traits: . (more…)
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dcrobertsson · 1 year
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A Response To Those Who Say God Can't Or Won't Help You
A Response To Those Who Say God Can’t Or Won’t Help You
. The challenge for those dealing with a narcissist who is “close” is to deal with the situation in a practical way while also walking in faith.  How do we allow God right into the middle of the situation?  On top of this, we are frequently told some form of “God can’t or won’t help you” – urging us to take things into our hands to solve it on our own apart from God. David was in the same…
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dcrobertsson · 2 years
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A Great Reminder
I recently came across the following phrase which is a great reminder: . “When David faced Goliath, he didn’t talk about how dangerous Goliath was.  He talked about how great God is.  Don’t talk fear, talk faith.” . And I might add, especially talk faith to yourself. . . See here for initial steps on how to know God personally  
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dcrobertsson · 2 years
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Narcissist Case Studies - Satan, The Original Narcissist
Narcissist Case Studies – Satan, The Original Narcissist
.  “How you have fallen from heaven, O star of the morning, son of the dawn! You have been cut down to the earth, You who have weakened the nations!  “But you said in your heart, ‘I will ascend to heaven; I will raise my throne above the stars of God, And I will sit on the mount of assembly In the recesses of the north.  ‘I will ascend above the heights of the clouds; I will make myself like the…
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dcrobertsson · 2 years
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A Non-trivial Trivia Question
A Non-trivial Trivia Question
. Who is the greatest person who has ever lived (other than Jesus)? (more…)
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dcrobertsson · 2 years
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The Truth Will Come Out Eventually
The Truth Will Come Out Eventually
. We all come across LOTS of things in today’s media environment.  I was just reading about a very public fairy-tale courtship, romance, and wedding – with people glowing about all the positives.  But a few people who knew the bride well said very early on that “she is not what she seems”.  And guess what, over time she revealed herself to be a big-time classic narcissist – everything is all…
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dcrobertsson · 2 years
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How Do We Know The Bible Is True?
How Do We Know The Bible Is True?
. Jesus said that establishing our lives on the solid rock of hearing … and doing.. His word is the difference between being able to weather the storms of life or crumbling in the face of them . “Therefore everyone who hears these words of Mine and acts on them, may be compared to a wise man who built his house on the rock. And the rain fell, and the came, and the winds blew and slammed against…
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dcrobertsson · 2 years
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The Contentious Woman Changes
The Contentious Woman Changes
. You will make known to me the path of life; In Your presence is fullness of joy; In Your right hand there are pleasures forever.  Psalm 16:11 . In the blog post Crying Out, Seeking God we discussed that sometimes the very first step on a road to healing is simply to cry out to God for help.  While you may not see an instant, dramatic change in your situation, you will often look back and see…
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dcrobertsson · 2 years
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It Is A Privilege To Be Heard By God
It Is A Privilege To Be Heard By God
. Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession.  For we do not have a high priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all things as we are, yet without sin.  Therefore let us draw near with confidence to the throne of grace, so that we may receive mercy and find grace…
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dcrobertsson · 2 years
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Narcissist Traits - They Seek Admiration While Doing Evil
Narcissist Traits – They Seek Admiration While Doing Evil
. In His teaching He was saying: “Beware of the scribes who like to walk around in long robes, and like respectful greetings in the market places, and chief seats in the synagogues and places of honor at banquets, who devour widows’ houses, and for appearance’s sake offer long prayers; these will receive greater condemnation.”    Mark 12:38-44 . “So when you give to the poor, do not sound a…
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dcrobertsson · 2 years
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Pray Strong In Your N Situation - Part 2
Pray Strong In Your N Situation – Part 2
. Note:  The phrase “pray strong” may give the wrong impression, as of course it is GOD’s strength that matters.  The point is that we can ask the God of the universe for His help in specific ways that can make a huge difference.  . When we are in a difficult situation with a narcissist we sometimes given the prescription to “pray about it”.  This might be given with good intentions, but often…
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dcrobertsson · 2 years
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Free Download - 5 Days Only
Free Download – 5 Days Only
. Don’t things seem to get crazier and more out of control by the day?  A year ago I decided to research for myself the Biblical signposts on the road to the end times.  The result turned into a book. From TODAY – August 10th – through August 14th, you can download a free Kindle version of that book – “Time to Prepare:  Signposts On The Road to the End”. Click the link and follow the Amazon…
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dcrobertsson · 2 years
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Pray Strong In Your N Situation - Part 1
Pray Strong In Your N Situation – Part 1
. Note:  there are times when the prescription for dealing with an N is to avoid them.  This post is for those times when we cannot do that.  . When we are in a difficult situation with a narcissist we might be given the prescription to “pray about it”.  This might be given with good intentions, but often without real understanding of what’s going on.  It’s always appropriate to bring God right…
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dcrobertsson · 2 years
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He Stretched Out His Hand With Scoffers
He Stretched Out His Hand With Scoffers
. For those suffering at the hands of narcissists – scoffers with insolent pride – a common question is “why”?  Why is God allowing this in my life? There are many things to consider, but one answer is that it could be part of His discipline.  Those that are struggling to overcome a view of God as a big “punisher”, or who do not like the idea that God allows any pain into a person’s life, will…
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dcrobertsson · 2 years
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Building A Biblical Perspective On Insolent Pride - Psalm 119
Building A Biblical Perspective On Insolent Pride – Psalm 119
. Let’s do a little exercise on how to increase your Biblical perspective on a subject – it could be any subject – using “insolent pride” (the Biblical term for narcissism) as the example. If you are starting from zero, it is impossible to immediately have the entire Biblical perspective right at the beginning.  You can only start with one piece, add another piece, and another piece, until a…
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