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yes i am alive but i am moving! my main blog moved to @cerasiium and i’m gonna move jonkler over to my multi sideblog @kanonikal 

see yall over there!

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this reviving my muse is very on brand for me

#ooc

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not to post even more Villains Discourse on main but it really bugs me how people read giving villains tragic backstories as inherently excusing their actions and/or demonizing trauma survivors.

the actual message of Tragic Villains is (almost) always “people who are never taught or given any healthy, constructive outlets for their emotions will often find unhealthy, destructive outlets.” it’s that people who are traumatized and never learn how to cope with that trauma can become a danger to themselves and others. the message isn’t “trauma makes you evil!!!!” or “genocide is okay if you’ve been sad before!!!!” it’s “people need compassion and help to recover from trauma instead of becoming increasingly angry and harming themselves and others in the process.”

this site takes an alarmingly behaviorist and punitive approach to everything and it’s literally the most annoying thing. y’all have this concept that “if we just punish people hard enough, if we just scare them enough, if we just make them feel guilty enough.” that people just Do Bad Things Because They Do Bad Things, I Guess, and Because We Didn’t Threaten Them And Shame Them Enough. but humans are an innately social species. at our very core, we need compassion and kindness. we need healthy relationships with other humans.

you can keep looking at traumatized villains and being like “haha this dumb pathetic sadboi thinks murder is okay because his parents died” but as a survivor myself, unaddressed/untreated trauma absolutely can make you ragey and destructive. i was lucky enough to have support and eventually get the treatment i needed. but it’s not hard at all for me to imagine how, if that hadn’t been the case, that could’ve been me. obviously not on a movie-villain scale like murder or war crimes, but it’s so irritating as someone whose trauma has always manifested as anger to watch people on this site be like “this is just bad writing!!! real survivors/good survivors don’t end up like that the writers just hate survivors and want the audience to condone murder!”

#clown in command ; ooc #this is my exact approach w joker fkakejkdisiwjdjdj #Bruce had alfred but Jack didn’t have anyone but the busted ass gotham foster care system

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Send your muse’s thoughts about mine on anon

And my muse will react

#jester’s message ; ask meme

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CORPSE   BRIDE   SENTENCE   STARTERS .

‘   pardon my enthusiasm.   ‘

‘   i like your enthusiasm.   ‘

‘   i was betrothed, once along time ago but tragedy bestowed my love.‘

‘   everything will go as planned.  ‘

‘   she/he/they will marry.  ‘

‘   no. i’m telling the truth. ‘

‘   [name] needs my help.   ‘

‘   she’s/he’s married a corpse.   ‘

‘   with this hand…I will take your wine…no…  ‘

‘   [name] married a dead woman!   ‘

‘   what a story it is. a tragic tale of romance, passion, and murder most foul.  ‘

‘   there’s an eye in me soup.  ‘

‘   die, die. we all pass away.  ‘

‘   don’t wear a frown ‘cause it’s really okay.  ‘

‘   you might and pray, but we all end up the remains of the day.  ‘

‘   you’re married to me! she’s/he’s/they’re the other woman/man/person!  ‘

‘   if i hadn’t just been sitting in it, i’d say you’ve lost your mind. ‘

‘   i spent so long in the darkness….i’d almost forgotten how beautiful the moonlight is! ‘

‘   what if….what if [name] and i don’t….like each other? ‘

‘   as if that has anything to do with marriage. ‘

‘   do you suppose your father/mother and i “like” each other?   ‘

‘   there’ll be a wedding after all.  ‘

‘   you cannot make me do this!  ‘

‘   please, i beg of you! there must be another way!  ‘

‘   we shall be forced penniless into the street.  ‘

‘   i’m so happy to see you! here, come by the fire. where have you been? ‘

‘   i….i…oh, dear.   ‘

‘   i s-s… i seem to find myself married.  ‘

‘   my darling, i just wanted to meet…..darling! who’s this? ‘

‘   wait, you don’t understand. ‘

‘   i never thought I’d see you again… ‘

‘   we’re going to take whatever money we can and get out of here.  ‘

‘   your dowry. it’s my right!  ‘

‘   it’s my marriage to you that will save them from the poorhouse.   ‘

‘   you’re lying. it isn’t true. tell me that you’re lying!!  ‘

‘   well, perhaps in disappointment we are perfectly matched!  ‘

‘   it’s a beautiful day! ‘

‘   a rehearsal, my dear, to be perfectly clear. ’

‘   always the bridesmaid, never the bride!   ‘

‘   tell me my dear, can a heart still break once it’s stopped beating?  ‘

‘   my dreams were taken from me. ‘

‘   but now - now i’ve stolen them from someone else. ‘

‘   i love you, [name], but you are not mine.  ‘

‘   isn’t the view beautiful? it takes my breath away. ‘

‘   it takes my breath away. well, it would if i had any.‘

‘   don’t you understand? you’re the other woman/man.  ‘

‘   you should know it’s unexpected!  ‘

‘   you shall marry [name] tomorrow. ‘

‘   i….felt i should be with you always ‘

‘   i should be with you always, and that our wedding could not come soon enough! ‘

‘   i confess. this morning i was…terrified of marriage.  ‘

‘   i was…terrified of marriage.  ‘

‘   if i touch a burning candle, i can feel no pain.  ‘

‘   in the ice or in the sun, it’s all the same. ‘

‘   yet i feel my heart is aching. though it doesn’t beat, it’s breaking.  ‘

‘   the pain here that i feel, try and tell me it’s not real. ‘

‘   i know that i died, yet it seems that i still have some tears to shed.  ‘

‘   i still have some tears to shed.  ‘

‘   with this hand i will lift your sorrows.  ‘

‘   with this candle, i will light your way into darkness. ‘  

‘   with this ring, i ask you to be mine.  ‘

‘   i’ll strangle him/her with my bare hands!  ‘

‘   i’m sure he’ll/she’ll be back shortly. he’s/she’s terrified of the dark. ‘

‘   i am terribly sorry about what’s happened to you and i would like to help.  ‘

‘   since i was a child, i’ve dreamt of my wedding day.  ‘

‘   you kept your promise. you set me free. now i can do the same for you.  ‘

‘   i made a promise.  ‘

#jester’s message ; ask meme

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bought a harley quinn BoP necklace at the halloween store today so im back on my dc bullshit

#clown in command ; ooc

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“We CANCEL the batman”

- The Woker

#ark ham ass ; shitposting

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there is something 

                                    at work in my soul, 

                                                                        which I do not understand.

#self pro mo #I’m finally gonna have time set this up and write bruce!!!

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my friend just compared hen.ry mch.enry to the jok.er and she was right and im having an existential crisis …. Also I’ll be returning to writing soon 🧍‍♀️

#ooc

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*walks around Spirit Halloween but in an evil and gay manner*

#king of the clowns ; joker

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everyone who interacts with this blog is a gay clown!

#ark ham ass ; shitposting

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MOSCHINO

Resort 2022 collection

#this is jokercore.... THIS!!! #now that's what i call aesthetic ; jokercore

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        ❝ 𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐤𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐨𝐲𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐫𝐨𝐤𝐞𝐧. 𝐚 𝐫𝐞𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐟𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫, 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐬. ❞                   ʀɪᴅᴅʟᴇᴅ ʙʏ ᴡɪᴋɪᴀ. ᴘᴏᴛᴇɴᴛɪᴀʟʟʏ ᴛʀɪɢɢᴇʀɪɴɢ ᴛʜᴇᴍᴇꜱ ᴘʀᴇꜱᴇɴᴛ.                                ᴇxᴛʀᴇᴍᴇʟʏ ᴄᴀɴᴏɴ ᴅɪᴠᴇʀɢᴇɴᴛ. 18+ ᴇꜱᴛ. 9/11/20.                                                      rules / about.

#he'll ya... #ooc

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#I PROMISE #I’m just mentally exhausted from grad school and mento illness #but I do be having jobker thoughts 💭

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SEND ME ♡ + A SHIP AND I’LL TELL YOU…

feel free to elaborate as much as possible !

Who is the most affectionate?

Who initiates the handholding?

Who worries more for the other?

Who is more likely to ask for help?

Who is the one always losing the keys?

Who leaves little love notes for the other?

Who can’t sleep unless the other is there?

Who is more likely to propose to the other?

Who introduced the other to their family first?

Who is more likely to play with the other’s hair?

Who makes sure the other has meals/stays hydrated?

Who is more likely to stand up to anyone for the other?

Who is the most likely to prepare a surprise for the other?

Who makes the other pinky promise not to do certain things?

Who puts a blanket over the other when they fall asleep on the couch?

#jester’s message ; ask meme #I AM ALIVE

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wake up gang a new ship bingo dropped, anyway send me a pairing and I’ll answer!

#jester’s message ; ask meme

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               “ I’m going to masturbate, who wants to join me ? ”

#we live in a society ; silly liddle ic #no comment just :| #feel free to ignore thIS GPDFHIGF