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Me: *Struggling to open a jar*

Sister: THE GAY IS BROKEN! Single Mom, you give it a try.

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Dad: I just don't find you attractive when you do that.

Me:

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Normalize punching creepy old men. Seriously why do we put up with them, when they'd fold like a lawn chair?

#fuck it

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“Those poor boys”

“She deserves to be punished too.”

“I’m not saying I support rape, but-”

“Sorry to say - she deserved it.”

“She put herself in harm’s way”

“But if she was fingered, then that’s not rape.”

“She ruined their lives.”

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I NEED to know if any other farm kids had their parents tell them to go talk to their horse, cow, sheep, chicken, dog, or heck even a favorite tree, instead of ever dealing with their kid's emotions.

#farmliving #farmcore #this is a universal experience #right? #farmlife #childhood #parenting

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#transgender #trans pride #if you disagree #kindly fuck off

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honestly at the end of the day fatphobes want us to jump through this hoop of proving we can be both fat and healthy, & they’re obsessed with the idea that it’s just not possible, but the whole damn argument is irrelevant because it doesn’t MATTER if we’re healthy or not, we STILL need to be treated with basic human dignity. healthy people are not inherently worth more than unhealthy people

im glad people are discussing fatphobia but please don’t throw disabled & chronically ill fat people under the bus while defending metabolically healthy fat people! health is not equivalent to morality or worth & unhealthy fat people’s bodies are no more the business of thin folks than the bodies of metabolically healthy ones.

fatphobia can not be disconnected from ableism. defend and support fat disabled people!!

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So this is probably not a great thing, but I've been blaming being bi on the covid vaccine and waiting too long to get the second shot. Now the great thing is I'm kinda questioning if I'm a lesbian or not, so if/when I get a booster shot I can just say it turned me fully gay. BAM! Problem solved no uncomfortable conversations about feelings, the validity of it, and how I figured it out. Was it a bi phase? No! Twas a medical hiccup.

#lesbian #bisexual. #after covid plans #i guess all shots turn girls gay #not just the alcoholic ones

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When you give your pronouns quickly and maturely without making it weird.

College advisors: 👀💅🏳️‍🌈 so........ GSA????????

#lgbtq #pronouns

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gay

gay

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Being a wlw in a small town is just trying to figure out if a girl is a baby lesbian tomboy or a pick me tomboy.

#wlw culture #just whyyy #tomboy #pick me culture #why do you hate other girls they're literally amazing #like come on #small town problems

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Screw taking cute pictures of my goat herd. From now on I'm only taking pictures of them with the flash on at night.

#cute goats #i love my goats #cottagecore #goats are awesome #cute animals #demon goat #farmlife #farmcore

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I legitimately think most people would be better off if we all just learned how to be casually confrontational, even a bit petty. Some of the nicest, most pleasant people I know are also the most confrontational and petty people I know (<3) and there’s a definite connection there, however it’s difficult to describe.

I touched on it earlier in my bitchfit: it’s kind of liberating to be able to see somebody say something monumentally fucking stupid, make fun of it, even tell them how fucking dumb they’re being, but to not take it very seriously. I kinda think that can help train you to see people as complex multitudes which are contradictory and conflicting, not just a linear slider from “bad” to “good.” If you make confrontation into a taboo, if you make it into this locked-up axe that you only reach for in the most dire of circumstances, it ends up tainting people in your eyes when you’re driven to confrontation with them. That, or you end up resenting people because you want to tell them to stop being a fucker but that’s a no-no. Judgement is kind of similar, and I think that’s why we have this recurring issue on social media where people can’t just dislike eachother. Your distaste has to be justified somehow. When you don’t allow yourself to just be petty over something, then you search for “real” reasons to justify it and it builds up in a similar way.

However, if confrontation just isn’t a big hairy, scary deal, then it rolls off everybody’s back. I have friends who can get bullheaded as fuck with me every once in a while, and when that happens? We bicker! Because I’m willing to tell them to their face that they’re being unreasonable and kind of a shit! But what I’ve realized it is, is that we all understand and know that this doesn’t define us, so it blows over in like 30 seconds because it’s not a big deal.

Lately I feel like putting stuff into words is difficult for me so I hope this comes across in a way that makes sense. This is particularly interesting to me because I used to be this very avoidant and mousey, to the point of it being exploited and causing me serious trauma. The ability to just be a bitch sometimes has helped my recovery so much and has, I think, made me able to have such healthier relationships with people. Even helping meet new people, And SOOOO many nerds are lacking this ability.

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y’know what. i think we need to start validating every single expression of bisexuality. i mean it. if a bi girl claims she has no preference but mainly talks about guys, she’s still bisexual. if a bi guy has only dated men, he’s still bisexual. if someone has a preference, they’re absolutely just as bisexual. also, having no gender preference is absolutely, 100% an expression of bisexuality. when it comes down to it, there is no way to define bisexuality through an individual’s experience. if they are bisexual they are bisexual, no matter how others may see it. 

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Nobody told me lesbians end breakups with "Goodbye, I love you."

#lesbian #how the hecky am i supposed to get over that #but seriously #it is very cool when the person you break up with is incredibly mature and is kind about it #but it still fucking sucks

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unpopular opinion: i love the rush of public speaking. like i know most people are afraid of it but like?? i will be the center of attention. people will be listening to me. my heart races extra fast and i am A L I V E and everyone’s here listening to me in awe. i love it so much

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I'm sorry, but I do not have enough eyeliner to handle emotions right now so please go away.

#if one more fucking person says praziquantel is the same as ivermectin because they both deworm horses #im gonna lose my mind #i hate working at a feedstore during a pandemic #you anti vax morons are going to kill yourselves #and sadly there are people who love you #so if you could just not take horse drugs that would be dandy #I'm so done with this just get fucking vaccinated #please #also fuck hick doctor's who tell their patients to buy horse ivermectin #i hope you loose your medical license and die alone #people i know are dying because pricks decided to make a fucking pandemic political #covid19 #horse drugs #ivermectin