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[christiandomme]

Lauren W. Scotto (American, based Woonsocket, RI, USA) - Eastbound, Acrylic, Gouache and Colored Pencil on Paper

#Lauren W. Scotto #colored pencil #acrylic #art #Eastbound #sunset

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Sketches 🕊️ °˖➴

#pretty people handsome humans #body diversity #art #sketching #I like these style takes

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no "other/see results" we die like men

note that I'm not talking about the best SERIES just your favorite CHARACTER

#my favoriting is definitely affected by fanfic of the characters not just the canon #I love Tortall characters so much #the books were very formative for me only rivaled by Animorphs and Ella Enchanted #I'm glad my niece is finally getting old enough to start the series! #tamora pierce #tortall #song of the lioness #protector of the small #immortals #keladry of mindelan #alanna the lioness #daine sarrasri

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a rating of obvious submissives played by tom cruise

(by me, your local soft femdom)

• ethan hunt. the softest spy. random sub moments in the middle of high-stakes chases. lowkey wants to be of service so badly he short-circuits for a hot second when asked to take off ilsa’s shoes. breathlessly sincere and eager to please. pain is necessary for life; in bed, overstimulation will suffice. 15/10 don’t hurt him please, he suffers enough at his day job.

• maverick mitchell. HAVE YOU FUCKING SEEN MAVERICK MITCHELL. the dumbass masochist to end all dumbass masochists. sucker for tall blondes who throw him at walls and call him dangerous. 10/10 getting him a Dom would probably solve all his discipline problems.

• nick morton. maverick mitchell’s evil clone. this kinky motherfucker is repeatedly choked out, held up against walls, smashed into tables, and gets leather-gloved fingers held over his mouth. and likes it. a lot. 100 Jekylls / Hyde.

• roy miller. smuggest sub. knows he’s a good boy and deserves pets, will pout if he doesn’t get them. preens ostentatiously if he does. 12/10 his constant delight is such a damn delight.

• william cage. starts out a 1 and ends up a solid 10. depressed due to living through multiple traumas and the fucking apocalypse; will take anything you throw at him and thank you for it. desperately needs to be taken into subspace, but there’s a war on so he just Suffers instead. begs for ten minutes just to quietly serve Rita, and is radiantly happy when he gets them and she smiles. 10/10 a Very Good boy.

• jack harper. soft and sad because his assigned domme constantly sets him rules he cannot keep. wants to obey, but life has other plans. 8/10 the flower makes him so happy, just…let him keep it.

• danny kaffee. “god danny you’re so fucking stupid” - everyone who’s ever slept with danny, before and after sleeping with danny. likes to be handcuffed, whines about rules. 6/10 WILL, PROBABLY, DEFINITELY, get distracted by something shiny, but then apologize nicely with his Harvard mouth.

• jack reacher. actually jack reacher is just a fae who drifted into the human realm and doesn’t yet understand its sexual concepts. or any other of its concepts. 2/10 (for getting major turner some damn nice low cuban heels.)

misc others

• david aames. kind of only exists in his own mind, but that’s not his fault. 3/10

• mitch mcdeere. dismissive, manipulative, untruthful. repentant? maybe. we just won’t know, until abby makes him kneel to prove it. 0/10 listen to your wife, mitch.

• john anderton. lost his domme and child to a family tragedy; currently dependent on future!coke to cope. 5/10 please help this man.

• vincent. what the fuck, vincent. 4/10.

#I do love this list #D/s in media #tom cruise #academicgangster

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Relationships that have real king/lionheart energy, that whole “I have sworn myself wholly to you, I am your sword arm, I am your dog” to someone else’s “you are the one person in this world I can rely on, and I am both bolstered and burdened by your absolute faith in me” vibe, but it’s in circumstances that are like. so low stakes. Manager of a movie theater/the one usher who doesn’t smoke weed at work.

#this tickles me #liege & loyalty #b to the d to the s to the m

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forehead kisses make me feel so loved and safe

#on the theme of Doms being human beings #I love forehead kisses! #Doms should get forehead kisses too!! #realistic d/s #just a little mwah 😘 #b to the d to the s to the m

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it was really funny in the dominance playbook when the author anton fulmen gave the helpful tip to let your sub see you as human, so they don’t panic or lose respect for you when you need support. it’s a good tip! it just surprised me to learn that there are dominants who try to maintain an image of complete control and accomplishment 100% of the time. personally i don’t have the acting skills. you’ll respect me and submit to me as a flawed human being or we won’t have a dynamic, simple as that. if we’re not connecting as real people i’m not interested. we can play with roles and things that aren’t real, but i personally need the realness underneath for it to really hit

#oh I actually really like this articulation #“you’ll respect me and submit to me as a flawed human being or we won’t have a dynamic” #realistic d/s #b to the d to the s to the m

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I've seen this post running around, so I'm jumping in... when you get this, please write seven truths about yourself, your Majesty.

From an anonymous admirer, who wishes he was kneeling at your feet. 😏

Ha! Not so anonymous, I don't think.

Seven Truths

I have never broken up with someone - only been broken up with.

Although my food hallmark is my love of fruit, one of my top comfort food dishes is wonton soup with two egg rolls from a hole in the wall Chinese carry out restaurant in metro Detroit.

I am appreciative of getting older because I am far more comfortable in my skin here in my late 30's than I was in my late 20's

I am very content being child-free and I love being an aunt but it sometimes strikes me that in thirty years there won't be anyone to remember me as their parent or the quirks of the family we would have built. It's not sad, just a little strange to consider.

People perceive me as far more patient than I am really am - I just have better than average self-control when it comes to letting my impatient comments leave my mouth.

I am glad I am a Dom and if someone offered to remove that part of me with a magic wand I probably wouldn't take them up on it.

On a related note, my subs are an incredible blessing in my life and its hard to imagine how the path of my life would be different if I didn't have them.

#asked and answered #seven truths

[christiandomme]

Sooo ive been wondering for the longest time what you think of prostate massaging and milking. Are you into that with a sub?

Never done it, actually. Intriguing in theory. If I ever do it, I'll report back.

#asked and answered #b to the d to the s to the m

[christiandomme]

So ive been following you for a little while and love your content. One thing i haven’t been able to pick up on is whether you enjoy a boy in chastity or the concept of chastity itself.

There’s something very real about having a man bend over backwards for a domme to subjugate them. Theres a power to them begging for it.

If you do enjoy it, would it make a difference to you if you made that desire known or whether the sub was the one eager to surrender that way?

Chastity is a popular theme it seems.

I had a longer answer but Tumblr ate it so here is a shorter take two.

"Would it make a difference to you if you made that desire known or whether the sub was the one eager to surrender that way?"

I wouldn't make a desire known because I don't have a specific desire for chastity. I like the completeness of making someone mine and being able to turn their biological functions on and off at will, but that's as true about breath play as it is for controlling meal selection; controlling orgasms isn't *specifically* appealing.

If my sub craved it? If we had a sufficiently built up foundation and trust, and I fully understood and approved their motivations, and the stars and moon aligned, I'd consider it.

"Theres a power to them begging for it." That is certainly true. Genuine begging is one of my favorite things, actually. But whether they are begging for release, a different pleasure, or something else I have trained them to crave, it it six of one/half dozen of the other for me.

I do like the freedom to completely ignore someone's arousal or to use it to tease them according to my own timetable and whim - which is a cousin to the power structure of chastity.

#asked and answered #b to the d to the s to the m #denial

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Guess something about me and I’ll respond with true or false

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So I’m unsure if this is true but i have a feeling you might be in to chastity, Christian Domme. Do you on some level believe that men should be caged and shown a better way? Fellow Domme here ;)

Ehhh, I'm making the so-so gesture with my hand.

I connect with subs of any gender so, for me, orgasm control isn't about showing a better way to men in particular.

I have complex feelings about the topic/practice because I have had bdsm buddies that felt like they struggled with their submission unless they were in active denial and for me as a Domme, it's bad for my ego if you are only desperate to submit to me when you are craving a release/being edged, lol.

I've only explored orgasm control/denial in any kind of depth with one dynamic but that has been about an ever expanding sphere of what they were surrendering to me and a reminder that our dynamic centers my pleasure, not theirs.

And caging someone isn't a hard no, but it also isn't on my bucket list.

#asked and answered #assumption/guess ask game #I think? #b to the d to the s to the m #denial

[christiandomme]

Hi :) hope this assumption doesn't come over as rude or self-centered (ok it may be a bit self-centered haha. hadn't actually meant to ever share it but i do love ask games and it's only polite to leave an ask with the person you reblog from). Anyway all this to say, my guess is, you left a comment on one of my fics. Have a nice day 🧡 (in either case ;) )

An excellent assumption! (and definitely not rude or self-centered)

#asked and answered #assumption/guess ask game #I too love ask games #noemitenshi

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An idea I've been kicking around...

Been trying to think of a way to work on communicating more on here, being more open about it, and to maybe brighten people's day a bit...

So here is Asks April - the base goal is very simple: send one ask, non-anon, every day for the month of April. Stretch goals (when and if mental health allows) would include the obvious upping the number to two or three (or however many) each day, and perhaps more specific things like sending asks to particular folks (mutuals, or other criteria) once a week (or shorter time periods) or asking certain types of questions (or choosing from certain lists).

If anyone else would like to join in, and need some inspiration, a fairly reasonable selection of question lists (and other types) can be found under #ask prompts (warning: some NSFW lists included in that tag). Or, of course, you can reblog them to give people stuff to ask you!

#Asks April #I like this idea #late to the party #but better late than never lol

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#eclipse #little shop of horrors

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Did you have a chance to view the eclipse?

I did! I live about an hour north of the path of totality but I still had a pretty cool experience watching it. My local library was handing out eclipse glasses so my grandfather and I went and picked up a pair. It didn't get super dark but in the half-hour before it almost looked like someone had put a sepia tone filter over everything. My mother swears it got colder but my father denies that happened, lol.

#asked and answered #eclipse #freepassbound

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there’s a misconception that grief only happens when we lose people. this is not true. we can grieve circumstances, relationships, missed opportunities. in fact, sometimes when you find yourself plagued with waves of emotion from sadness to melancholy you may be grieving yourself. the version of yourself that you might have been if things had been different, or if only you had said something, or if someone had stood up for you.