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borderline-snailor · 3 years
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Apparently trying to control your partner or checking on them every second is a form of OCD.
Ever since I realized that I had BPD and OCD, it's been easier to deal with because OCD has different coping and treatment methods.
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borderline-snailor · 3 years
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comic about someone’s strange dream (and daydreams)
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borderline-snailor · 3 years
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I hate the parts of my day that bring me down so low and I get nauseated cause I want my fp around.
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borderline-snailor · 3 years
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I channeled my trauma into making YouTube videos!
When it comes to having BPD, going through a mental breakdown is every day if the week. It in order to cope we need distractions to snap us back into reality. Watching horror is a great way to balance out intensity within ourselves. If we are scared in real life, then what's on screen can balance that scared feeling somewhere else.
I have always felt comfort with horror films because of this and I think a lot of do too.
Please take a look and tell me what you think!!
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borderline-snailor · 3 years
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do you know any online support groups or something like for people with BPD? If you don't mind me asking 😅
Facebook groups that are based in BPD help, especially when gaining perspective.
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borderline-snailor · 3 years
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How I catch myself splitting:
-extreme defensiveness ("YEAH WELL I DON'T CARE, YOURE A FUCKING BITCH")
-realizing makes me wish I was dead
-consequences for my actions driving me to suicide because I am evil for being rude, defensive, and not innocent 100% of every moment of everyday
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borderline-snailor · 3 years
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Apparently, after a suicide attempt, there should not be any problem solving coping mechanisms.
And to prevent suicidal ideation, using avoidant strategies helps decrease it.
Funny that. Source:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4345850/
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borderline-snailor · 3 years
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borderline-snailor · 3 years
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I just looked this up and..... guess what !
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borderline-snailor · 3 years
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Its not my fault, people would do the same thing if their mind was telling them that dying will make the pain and suffering end
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borderline-snailor · 3 years
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When you cry at being left on read by your fp:
sorry!!!! I didn't mean to bother you! I'll go away now forever,,, ,
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borderline-snailor · 3 years
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I love crying after sex with my fp cause I think my body isn't good enough for them to stay :')
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borderline-snailor · 3 years
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How BPD Ruins Relationships:
-nothing but impulses and fears- I JUST THINK THAT- *starts tearing up, cries about anxieties, instant regret after getting it all out* JUST FORGET ABOUT IT IM OK LOLOLOLOLOLOL HA HA HA- Please don't leave me!
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borderline-snailor · 4 years
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borderline-snailor · 4 years
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DBT Concept
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The goal is to make decisions honoring logical reasoning AND your emotional desires. The result is “Wise Mind”!
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borderline-snailor · 4 years
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“The worst part of having a mental illness is people expect you to behave as if you don't.”
— Joker (2019)
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borderline-snailor · 4 years
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Master Post of Calming Things
Things to make you feel better:
Make it feel like you are outside also turn on your volume
Talk you threw a stressful time
Automatic flatter 
Quick Distractions:
Draw Silk
Music Squares
jigsaw puzzles 
Sudoku
cookie clicker
Immediate Crisis Help
List of Hotlines - Crisis Hotlines by need
Befrienders - Find crisis hotline information for the country you live in
Suicide Hotlines - A list of crisis hotlines by country
International Rape Crisis Hotlines - A list of international crisis hotline directories
Lifeline Crisis Chat - Online chat help for people in a crisis
IMAlive - online crisis chat
Self Help
MoodGym 
Self Harm Alternatives
Self-help Anxiety Management App
Get Help
Find Therapist
Find a Psychiatrist
How To Help Others
Depression
Anxiety 
Eating Disorder   
Cutting
Suicidal
Panic attacks
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watch the ball
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breath in and out with the box
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