bibluemoon

[bibluemoon]

twittwr users just reached 2013

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some important words from bisexual magazines/letters

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[ID: Two astronauts floating in space looking at Earth, which has the bisexual flag on it. One astronaut is saying: "Wait so bisexuality is the attraction to all genders?" The second astronaut is behind them, pointing a gun at them and saying, "Always has been." End ID]

[bibluemoon]

Bisexuality is:

the attraction to men, women, and nonbinary people (in other words all genders). they could have preferences, they might not.

Bisexuality is NOT:

- the attraction to men and women only

- the attraction to two or more genders

- transphobic or excluding trans or nonbinary people in any way

- inherently involving preferences

- attraction solely based off genitals

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Friendly reminder that tomorrow is the first day of pride month and if I see any biphobia, I will throw hands

This includes, but is not limited to:

saying that bisexuality excludes trans/nonbinary people (it doesn't)

saying that bisexuality is too binary (it isn't)

saying that bisexuality is outdated (again, it isn't)

saying/implying that bisexuals only care about gender rather than personality (which is gross and untrue)

derailing conversations on biphobia and its effects

excluding bisexuals from mlm and wlw spaces/discussions

speaking over bisexuals in conversations on the issues we face

refusing to listen to bisexuals if we say something is biphobic

ignoring bisexual history and activism

ignoring the present contributions of bisexuals to LGBTQ culture

making demeaning jokes about bisexuals or jokes that rely on negative stereotypes

stereotyping bisexuals in general

viewing bisexuals as 'half-straight'/'lesser' members of the LGBTQ community

and finally, speaking over bisexuals about the very definition of bisexuality

yes this includes saying things like 'that sounds more like [other sexuality]' or 'if you define your attraction that way you're [other sexuality] instead' in response to a bisexual person describing how they define their orientation for themself

[bibluemoon]

there is now research proving not only that pansexuals are biphobic but that pansexual biphobia has a negative impact on bisexuals’ mental health

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every terf who touches my post about gender will explode.

#moon.txt #i don't care about your shitty gender takes. #you have 0 reading comprehension. die.

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that’s the point of this post.

just like it’s important that we let people embrace and be flamboyant with their gender, we must allow people to have gender be a nonimportant part of their identity. a cis woman can love being feminine and claim her womanhood loud and proud, just like another cis woman can just be ‘whatever’ about it. a trans woman can be hyperfeminine and proud, while another can just say ‘yeah i’m a woman’ without it being a gigantic deal to her. a non-binary person doesn’t have to be constantly torn up about their gender identity to be non-binary. all experiences of gender are unique and valid in their own way.

[bibluemoon]

I’m glad a lot of peuple have found comfort in that post i made about gender being a non-important part of your identity. seeing that brought me comfort too.

#moon.txt

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All of these mspec labels have brought on, and continue to spread, a lot of biphobia. And that is a fact.

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of course. i didn’t word this post as well as i could have because i didn’t think anyone would see it, but the point was basically what your last sentence is :)

just like it’s important that we let people embrace and be flamboyant with their gender, we must allow people to have gender be a nonimportant part of their identity. a cis woman can love being feminine and claim her womanhood loud and proud, just like another cis woman can just be ‘whatever’ about it. a trans woman can be hyperfeminine and proud, while another can just say ‘yeah i’m a woman’ without it being a gigantic deal to her. a non-binary person doesn’t have to be constantly torn up about their gender identity to be non-binary. all experiences of gender are unique and valid in their own way.

#when i made it this post was a bit of ranting on my like 50 followers blog. sorry for the poor wording on it!!<3

[bibluemoon]

No, a bi woman mentioning her bf in LGBT circles does not, by any means, make her invasive or a traitor.

No, a bi man mentioning his gf in LGBT circles does not, by any means, make him invasive or a traitor. 

Bi people having the odd ass city to talk about their partners will never be a “betrayal” to the community. You’re just a crybaby. 

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i don't know if you're trying to expand on the post or trying to roast me but this is literally the point of this post lmfao. people are allowed to just ignore their genders.

just like it’s important that we let people embrace and be flamboyant with their gender, we must allow people to have gender be a nonimportant part of their identity. a cis woman can love being feminine and claim her womanhood loud and proud, just like another cis woman can just be ‘whatever’ about it. a trans woman can be hyperfeminine and proud, while another can just say ‘yeah i’m a woman’ without it being a gigantic deal to her. a non-binary person doesn’t have to be constantly torn up about their gender identity to be non-binary. all experiences of gender are unique and valid in their own way.

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unfortunately this person was for real bc their blog was all about whining abt bisexuals and claiming canon bi characters like korra as 'pan character of the week' lmfao just a lot of pathetic behaviors in one person

but yeah sure pansexuals don’t hate bi people right?

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but yeah sure pansexuals don’t hate bi people right?

#moon.txt #fucking sickening

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i’ve been thinking a lot about how most of these new sexuality labels are created by very young and inexperienced people who seem to be under the impression that the whole world is hypersexual 

and i’m not sure why exactly that is but it genuinely seems that these people think that everyone in the world is experiencing sexual attraction and down to fuck at all times to the point where they are convinced that “i need to have an emotional bond with people before i consider them that way” and “i’m attracted to people for their personalities” are weird minority experiences that deserve special labels