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Clarity in Stepping Away

I always find clarity is stepping away. When you think about it when you’re up close to looking at something you see all these little details. However, when you take a step back you are able to see the big or overall picture. When it comes to life too often we obsess over the little details and ignore the big picture. I am no stranger to taking a step back to gain some clarity; sometimes though…

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Learning to date...yourself

Growing up I always watched movies of people going on dates, however, no one ever brought up how important t is to date yourself. Now yes I get it it sounds weird to say or even think about dating yourself.  Learning to date yourself is more to do with stepping outside your comfort zone when it comes to you and your thoughts. Dating is very intimate not just physically but also mentally and…

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Self - Reflection

One of the hardest things we as people do is self-reflection. As part of wanting to continue to grow as a person, I spend time each day reflecting on the good and bad. I always strongly believed that if we really want to grow to be better; we have to learn from our past. The things we did well, okay, and most importantly not so well. Self-reflection is more than thinking of yourself it’s thinking…

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Protect your Peace

In life we all go through different journeys to learn more about ourselves, one of them is learning to protect your peace. It is a phrase that we see all over social media.   “Protect your Peace” – caring for and safeguarding your physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being – in ways that you define yourself. (wernative.org)   When it comes to learning to protect your peace I oftener…

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#creating boundaries #growth #mental growth #mental health #mental mindsets #mindset #peace #protect your peace #self care #self growth

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2023 Bucket list

What would happen if we threw out our 2023 manifest list for a 2023 bucket list? Each year I always want to continue my own personal growth. Not just physically but also mentally, adventure-wise, and even personal growth. Growth is one of those funny things that we think is one thing or another rather than looking at ourselves and saying I want to grow in all areas of me.   Bucketlist: A Number…

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Mental Fights

Throughout the years the one thing that never changes is the mental fights with myself. I am constantly looking for a way to quiet the voice in my head or change the tone to it being nicer to me. The struggle with the voice in your head is it knows you best. It knows your weaknesses, your doubts, and your biggest insecurities. The worst part is it knows all of this because it is you! The voice in…

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New Year, New Mindset

New Year, New Mindset

This is the first New Year where my only resolution is to change my mindset, New Year’s new mindset is my only goal. When it comes to your mindset it truly dictates your entire day, week, month, and overall life. What exactly is a mindset?    Mindset: The established set of attitudes held by someone   In past years I have made a resolutions list or Manifestation list. That has given me goals…

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Let's be Selfish

Let’s be Selfish

To this day I can still remember people angrily telling me to go be selfish because I needed to help myself before I helped them. It makes me even angrier knowing how guilty I felt to the point where I once again choose someone else besides myself. If choosing to put me and my best interests first is selfish, well then let’s be selfish. Growing up I was always told to put others first. The more I…

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#being selfish #put you first #putting you first #self care

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Invest in Yourself

Invest in yourself is a phrase not many people throw around. I’m always being told to invest in the stock market, real estate, or even start-up businesses. The thing is an investment is more than just putting money into something. It’s about taking the time to understand the whys, and how things came to be, educating yourself on it, and looking to say how you can improve or what you should do…

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#be smart #how to invest in yourself #improve self #invest in yourself #invet in you #learning #self growth

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End of the Year - The Final Stretch

End of the Year – The Final Stretch

With the end of the year comes the final stretch. In the last few months, we have had to achieve our manifest goals, become the person we wanted to be in January, and turn 2022 into the year we wanted it to be. A lot can happen in 3 months to really turn the year around.   As someone who honestly thought she was going to make 2022 her year, I’m laughing s I write this. Mainly because as I …

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Daily Reset

Taking care of yourself daily is important, one of the best things you can do for yourself is a daily reset.  Daily rest is not taking a whole day to reinvent yourself, it is a lot more about working on your mental health and happiness. Every day we should be taking steps (no matter how small) to acknowledge, work, and improve our happiness/mental health.    Like I said earlier a Daily Rest is…

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Respecting People's Boundaries

Respecting People’s Boundaries

Respecting people’s boundaries is not something many people truly discuss. Every single person has their own boundaries that they have created. However, not every person is great at expressing their boundaries which is where the issue lies. I am one of those people who don’t always express my boundaries mentally and physically.    Just a quick reminder people have boundaries not because they want…

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Take a step back... and Reflect

Take a step back… and Reflect

When was the last time you took a moment to step back and reflect? I mean truly paused for a second and thought about who you are, who you want to be, and where you want to be. You can’t tell who you are or who you are becoming without reflection. Let’s take a moment to process this. What exactly is reflection?    Reflection: A serious thought or a consideration; an idea about something…

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#reflect #reflection #self love #self reflection

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Creating Boundaries

One of the biggest things I was taught or was spoken to about was creating boundaries. I often find that in today’s society boundaries are a huge topic. Personally, it is one of my favorite things that society has worked on. Now some of you may be asking was exactly is a boundary?    Personal Boundry: Guidelines, rules, or limits that a person creates to identify reasonable, safe, and permissible…

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The Mindsets of Society

The Mindsets of Society

Growing up you learn about the mindsets of society. Now when I say mindset of society it’s not all the thoughts but rather three sides of thought. Don’t worry I’ll get into it in a little bit more detail. When you think of someone’s mindset you think of their thoughts or ideas towards a specific thing or action. It helps shape our values and our goals; especially with how we achieve our…

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#change #changing mindsets #growing up #growth #healthy mindset #minset #minsets #self growth #social mindset #society #understanding society

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Learning to think Positive

Learning to think Positive

It wasn’t till I was older that I realized to live the life I wanted; I needed to start learning to think positive. I always thought I had a pretty positive mindset or at least tried my best. However, I did have a lot of moments where my negative thoughts and mindset controlled me for days at a time. It was those days that made me think this is enough I have to change.     Learning to think…

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Living on a Budget

Living on a Budget

One of the most common talks about growing up and even after college was living on a  budget. Talking about it is one thing and it often almost seems so easy but actually living it is a whole other story.  The other thing that people often don’t talk about is when they say they are living on a budget they are often living paycheck to paycheck. This is the reality of so many people, Even I…

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#Budget #budget advice #budget help #budget living #budget tips #create a budget #figure out your budget #how to create a budget #learn how to make a budget #living on a budget #make extra cash #money #saving #saving money #smart ways to save #spending