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fun fact:

HOT PEOPLE CAN BE AROMANTIC/ASEXUAL/AROACE TOO

#yes #i hate the stereotype that we’re all innocent babies #aromantic #asexual #arospec #acespec #aroace #aspec

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as someone who's aromantic but very allosexual I just feel like queer people and allies who get up in arms at the idea of people fucking their friends and remaining completely platonic friends just really aren't the type of people who are gonna be actual allies to me. Like idk I don't think sex has to be some special intimate thing and I just think its age old conservative dogma being used to shame people this time just coming from people who claim to be more progressive. its dumb. its just "save sex till marriage or else you're impure" again.

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Happy Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week everyone!!

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hey it's feb 14. Love is in the air. So I turned some of the aspec flags into plague doctors.

because is love in the air? No. Miasma.

here's my tribute to the aspec community, to make this day a bit bearable, I guess. :))

#this is SO FUCKING COOL #aro art

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This Aro Week, I've made cross-stitched card designs perfect for gifting to your favourite slightly-snarky aromantic.

The free tutorial includes patterns, card and fabric dimensions and a materials run-down as well as instructions on attaching an aida swatch to cardstock and other border techniques.

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happy aromantic visibility day! love being visible for once!

inprnt

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it's time for me to share this cake I decorated for valentine's day

DO NOT TAG AS ACE

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To all my fellow aroallo gays, you guys are cool as fuck and please keep being the absolutely icons that you are

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Good morning to aromantic kinksters, polyamorous aromantics, aromantic doms, aromantic subs, aromantics in long term sexual partnerships, aromantics who enjoy casual hookups, hypersexual aromantics, and all aromantics who have been stereotyped as manipulative or heartless for having sexual relationships

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Subtle Greyromantic Forest Wallpaper for anon

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a romantic relationship ❌️

aromantic relationship ✅️

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honestly my advice for people questioning if they're aro is kind of the same as my advice for people questioning if they're trans which is do less worrying about whether or not you inherently fall into this arbitrary category and do more considering what you want in and from your life. like ultimately deconstructing societal ideals of what relationships (or gender) should be like and figuring out what you want them to look like in your life is what matters and whether or not you experience romantic attraction is kind of immaterial

#aro #questioning aro #i agree with this

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This is what the aromantic flag stands for btw (sources: dude trust me)

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aromantic talking:

in the song my love mine all mine by mitski i genuinely kid you not thought she was talking about the concept of love and how she had the power to use it however she likes but i just realized that was Big Aro Dumb of me and that when she sings “My love..” she’s referring to a person and i just aksnfjrkrks

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that post going around where op is like "I love having sex with my friends, a fine and normal thing to do" and the notes are filled with people going absolutely fucking nuclear melting into goo screaming about how "hookup culture" is disgusting... genuinely what's going on there

#as long as it is completely consensual #there should be no problem with it