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Why Does This Energy Keep Coming Back Into Your Life?
Are there any energies that keep coming back into your life? If so, check out this reading to find out what lessons your guides are trying to teach you by bringing this back over and over again.
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Pile One:
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Who are you?
Eight of Cups, Knight of Wands, and Five of Pentacles:
At your core you are someone who is very adventurous, energetic, and someone who is not afraid to leap into the unknown. You may be known in your circles as someone who has an enthusiastic approach to life. All of this being said though, you are not feeling like this in your current moment in life. You have been down in the dumps, experiencing a significant loss of some sort. You have been feeling lost, stuck in the dark with nowhere to go and this has taken its toll on you. For some of you, you are coming out of this darkness, finding yourself seeking deeper meanings for why you have been so stuck recently. You have abandoned the path you are on and are moving on to a different approach to life, trying to find your inner truth.
What is this energy that keeps coming back?
Four of Wands, Nine of Swords Reversed, and Death:
It seems like the energy that keeps coming back into your life is you finding yourself in a dark place unexpectedly. You will be riding a high in your life, feeling great and appreciating all the good in your life and then the next day you hate everything in your life and can’t seem to get out of a mental slump. For some of you, this could be burnout, but for many of you, this could be a lot of addictive behaviors and mindsets coming back after you thought you overcame them. It’s a constant death cycle you can’t seem to escape. These behaviors and mindsets may revolve around your family or home life. Addictions may run in your family which is why you also struggle, or, there may be a specific mindset or behavior pattern that you learned from your family and can’t seem to escape or unlearn no matter how hard you try.
Why does this energy keep coming back?
Page of Wands, King of Wands, and Six of Cups:
This energy keeps coming back because you are not learning the lesson that it is intended for you to learn. You need to dive into your childhood, look at the darkness you are not addressing, and sit with it. Sit with the discomfort that comes with these dark times. When you sit with these feelings you are forcing yourself to feel them, something you have not done in quite some time. Doing this will allow you to better understand where this darkness stems from so you can make a plan of how you are going to heal. Spirit keeps bringing this energy back to you because they want you to heal, so you can become your best self. If you need help doing this please reach out to a professional, you do not have to do this alone, therapists or counselors are great at helping you navigate hard emotions. With the King of Wands coming out too, this is your guides telling you who your best self is. The King of Wands represents someone who faces any problem in front of them with ease, they are a natural-born leader, someone who commands respect wherever they go. Your guides keep sending you this energy so that once you learn this lesson you will be able to face any problem that comes your way with ease. Know that there is light at the end of this tunnel, all you need to do is face this darkness instead of running from it. You are meant to break the cycles that have been in your family for centuries, let this knowledge guide you.
Advice from spirit on how you should approach this energy:
Ace of Swords Reversed, The Devil Reversed, and Nine of Cups Reversed:
The Ace of Swords coming up reversed means that your thoughts are clouded with confusion and chaos at the moment. This isn’t a good time for you to make any decisions, since you do not have clarity on what you should be doing, which means that the chances of failure are pretty high right now if you were to take any actions. Your guides are saying that it would be better for you to prepare yourself and take baby steps - work methodically as you slowly move towards achieving your goals. This is the perfect time to lay back and rationally think your way through each stage rather than acting on impulse which you are wont to do. They are also telling you that it is a good idea for you to seek advice from a professional since things may not be as they seem in your life currently. The Devil Reversed shows someone at a moment of self-awareness in their lives, they are breaking all of the chains that come with their addictions and poor habits. Your guides are saying that this can be you if you listen to their advice. They are tired of you running in circles and are telling you here, that you need change in your life. They say that breaking off these chains, especially those of addiction, is never easy. So, you need to be prepared to make the necessary changes that might initially seem painful to make the adjustments that will pay off in the end by being able to find your true self again. Self-assessment is called for in this case and you need to take some time and list all of the things that you need to get rid of. And once that has been done, then it will be time for you to embark on the difficult journey of self-improvement. Your path has been a hard one, and you’ve arrived at a period where you may have the appearance of fulfillment, but something else is missing. This may outwardly appear as smugness and can indicate your desire to receive attention and recognition for all that you have achieved. But you personally still feel dissatisfaction in yourself, it seems as though your desires are never-ending, a black hole. Where does this stem from? In what parts of yourself are you lacking confidence? The Nine of Cups reversed shows that it is time for you to stop placing a value on all of your blessings, and instead pay attention to the quality of your life. The true treasures lie in your relationships with those around you.
Bottom of the deck energy:
Page of Cups Reversed:
The Page of Cups reversed shows someone who is struggling. Someone who is afraid to face reality, be it emotional, financial, or some kind of illness. You may be escaping your reality by drinking, or using drugs, this is only making it harder for you to face yourself and your guides are sick of you ignoring your problems and are forcing this energy back into your life so you can learn to live a healthier lifestyle.
Some of you may be drawn to the colors; purple, blue, and pink.
I was getting strong pulls toward negative behaviors while pulling for this pile. Many of you may be struggling with addictions, including addictive behaviors and mindsets.
One of the candles I had lit stayed lit even when there was nothing left to burn. This tells me that many of you may be running on fumes, or could be someone who never gives up, no matter how low you go, you always pick yourself back up and keep going.
There was lots of Taurus energy with this pile so, many of you may have significant Taurus placements in your chart.
Wands represent the fire signs in astrology, so, many of you could be a fire sign, Aries, Leo, or Sagittarius, or could have significant fire sign placements.
Extended Reading (how can you learn these lessons and release this energy?)
Pile Two:
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Who are you?
Nine of Coins, Four of Cups Reversed, The World, and Page of Swords:
You have reached an ending of some sort in your life. There has been a completion of a cycle that you have been living through for quite some time now. I feel as though many of you may not outwardly be aware that there is a completion happening in your life but, you feel it happening. There have been some internal shifts happening in you recently. Your outlook on life has changed, you have now started to see the world around you through a different lens and you are experiencing a spark of inspiration and joy you haven’t felt for quite some time. You are excited to jump into this new journey in life, looking forward to all the new things that are soon to be coming in. Many of you enjoy the finer things in life, enjoying a more luxurious lifestyle no matter how much money you have. Due to this lifestyle you chose to live in, you may struggle a great deal in life, struggling to make ends meet, struggling to feel satisfied with what you have. Whatever it may be, it seems to me this mindset may be the thing that will be changing for many of you. For some of you even, it may be that you will be changing your current mindset to start to appreciate the finer things in life if you currently do not allow yourself that luxury.
What is this energy that keeps coming back?
Knight of Coins Reversed, Judgment, The Emperor, The Tower Reversed:
It seems like the energy that keeps coming back into your life is you feeling like there is a crisis or some sort of disaster looming when there may actually not be one. You may be someone who likes having a routine but at the same time, you also get bored of the same thing very quickly. So, when you start to feel like you want to switch things up and try something new all of a sudden you get anxious, feeling like you just screwed everything up and you did something wrong. You fear change yet desire it at the same time which brings you to this energy that keeps coming back of you preparing yourself for the worst and expecting some sort of disaster to come in because you jumped the gun and made a spontaneous change. This leads to you overworking yourself, and making spontaneous decisions because during these moments you lack self-control. You are living in a constant state of survival during these times, not actually living your life only making decisions that you feel will protect you from this unavoidable doom that may not even be coming. Then all of a sudden it’s like the veil of confusion and fear that you’ve been living in gets lifted and you realize that you were living in a state of fear, letting your anxieties dictate your life. Then, you start to reflect on why this happens to you, trying to psychoanalyze yourself to hopefully get to the bottom of this so you can stop it from happening again, yet it never happens and this cycle keeps repeating itself.
The energy that keeps coming back into your life is very confusing and I tried my best to articulate it less confusingly. If you have any questions feel free to comment or DM me and I will try my best to answer them.
Why does this energy keep coming back?
Five of Swords Reversed, Five of Cups Reversed, Eight of Coins, and Ace of Wands:
The reason your spiritual team keeps bringing this energy back into your life is that there is something good coming out of it, yet you do not see that. There is something in your past that you have been feeling guilty or beating yourself up over. You have been struggling with this since it happened and you refuse to allow yourself to feel anything good because you feel you deserve to suffer because of whatever it is that you did. Now, this energy coming back is your guides wanting you to forgive yourself and heal but you are not seeing that. Your spiritual team wants you to start over and have a new more focused and inspired approach to life, but first, you need to forgive yourself and address whatever it is you are punishing yourself for.
Advice from spirit on how you should approach this energy:
Three of Coins Reversed, Eight of Cups, The Wheel of Fortune, and Six of Cups:
You’ve been feeling quite bitter in your life recently and your guides want you to see the beauty and goodness everywhere around you. They want you to challenge yourself by stepping out of your comfort zone. There is change coming in your life and this change will hopefully result in you leaving this negative mindset behind and embracing the positives around you. You have been feeling lost in your life and not recognizing that there are people in your life who are trying to help you. You have shut the door in many people's faces, refusing to believe they have good intentions, and to this, your guides are saying stop. Your guides have sent you a person or a few people who you need to stop shutting out in order to get you out of this darkness.
Bottom of the deck energy:
Nine of Swords:
The nine of swords is the card of intense anxiety. When it comes out in a reading, especially at the bottom of the deck, it represents mental anguish, nightmares, and excessive worry. It comes out in a reading when your anxiety has been at its worst. This has been the thing that has kept you in this darkness, refusing to forgive, refusing to heal. You need to do some self-reflection, and some calming and grounding exercises. Doing this will help you to see the reality instead of your anxieties. Some of you may need to speak to a professional to help you do this, whether it be a psychologist, therapist, counselor, or psychiatrist, please reach out to someone if you need help with your anxieties.
Some of you may be drawn to the color yellow.
There were a lot of reversals with this pile, so, many of you may be feeling like your life has been flipped upside down, or you may be feeling lost currently.
I was feeling strong unevolved Libra energy with this pile. So, many of you could be Libras or have significant Libra placements.
Extended Reading (how can you learn these lessons and release this energy?)
Pile Three:
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Who are you?
Balance, Rebirth, and Messenger of Air:
You are an eternal optimist, believing that anything is possible as long as you put your mind to it. Finding balance within yourself is key to your joy and sense of peace. Speaking of peace, keeping yours is very important to you, and you will do anything to protect it. For most people, it can be difficult to let go of the past, or dreams that haven’t come true, or love that is no longer in our lives, but for you, this comes easily. You are not afraid to let things go if it means that you will come out better and healthier than before. You take pride in being able to live in a balanced and healthy state, and this is something that is admirable to the people around you.
What is this energy that keeps coming back?
Ace of Water, Craftsman of Air, and Three of Water:
There are moments in your life when you become filled with uncertainty and confusion. It's almost as if you are totally fine one minute and then the next you have a fog covering your brain and eyes and you get stuck as a result, not knowing what to do and why you are so confused about where you are in life. While you are in this brain fog, a great deal of emotions you had thought you’d dealt with come rising to the surface, forcing you to feel things you didn’t know you’d not dealt with. As a result of you being forced to feel these things, you become obsessed with trying to find a way to stop this from happening, studying therapy and meditation techniques trying to keep your peace maintained. Meanwhile, you are unaware that doing all of this is actually not helping you at all, which is why this energy keeps coming back into your life when you thought you’d already dealt with it.
Why does this energy keep coming back?
Two of Water, Ancestor, and Nine of Air:
As I established above, you are very proud of yourself and the ways in which you chose to heal and live your life. However, with the energy that your guides keep sending back, it seems to me that they are not happy with the ways that you choose to live. They are saying that you need a change in your life, a death cycle of some sort, and this death has to do with the cycles you keep repeating in your healing journey. They are saying to you that the ways you choose to heal are actually repetitive cycles that have been running through your ancestry for years and years and that they are not as healthy as you think they are. You need to address these issues and patterns you repeat when you try to deal with the problems as they arise. See these unconscious patterns from your childhood, the ways you cope with the traumas and sorrows you inherited from your parents, who inherited it from theirs.
Advice from spirit on how you should approach this energy:
Ace of Air, Four of Fire, Ten of Fire, and Messenger of Earth:
Your guides are advising you to slow down and listen. There are answers coming your way and all you need to do is listen for them. You have a strong intuition and psychic abilities but you are either unaware of this or just don’t tap into them enough, it is time that you do. You need security and peace in your home life and your guides want that to be your focus at the moment. Make sure you are intentionally getting rid of negative energy in your house, smoke cleansing with incense will work well for you during this time. Make sure you are aware of the energies you are allowing into your home at this time. Your home is your sanctuary and when you allow people with negative energy into your home you are tainting the sanctuary you so desperately need to protect.
Bottom of the deck energy:
Six of Water:
In all tarot readings, the bottom of the deck energy gives you the overall energy of the reading. Having the Six of Water at the bottom is telling you that you need to dive deep in order to get through this. You cannot redirect the river of Life. Instead, plunge in, surrender to it, dissolve in it, and allow the “molecules” of your expectations, plans, and intentions to mix with the waters flowing all around you. Let go and let your heart become a vessel of understanding. Let it hold the memories of your life of all life. To remember, you must allow the waters of life to flow through you. Begin now - fill the waters of your life with stories.
There is strong earth and water energy with this pile so, many of you may have earth (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn) and water (Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio) signs or have these significantly placed in your chart.
Some of you may also be drawn to the colors, blue or green, mainly green.
Many of you may be drawn to water or trees.
Extended Reading (how can you learn these lessons and release this energy?)
Pile Four:
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Who are you?
The World, Eight of Wands, and Knight of Wands Reversed:
There is some contradiction in who you are at this moment. What I mean by this is, at your core, you are someone who is well-balanced and has great control over your emotions as well as being very optimistic in life. However, it seems as though recently you have been more erratic, aggressive, and quite sensitive. You’ve been quick to jump down people's throats before giving them time to explain themselves. Lately, you haven’t been acting like your calm, cool, and mature self. Instead, you’ve been unrecognizable in your emotional outbursts. Some of you may know what has triggered this in you, while others have no clue why you are acting this way.
What is this energy that keeps coming back?
Four of Cups Reversed, Three of Wands Reversed, Ten of Wands, and Page of Cups Reversed:
You have reached completion of some sort, whether it be that you’ve recently graduated from college and are looking or just got a new job, starting your career off, or you just moved out of your family home and are taking on much more responsibilities than you had in the past. Whatever it is, this energy that keeps coming back is you overburdening yourself with too many responsibilities and then becoming blocked emotionally, and physically because of it. It’s like you were loving life and being hyper-successful one minute and then the next, you’re overworked, drained, and stuck in a never-ending cycle of lacking inspiration. For some of you, it may be that you start to despise the work you are doing or start to realize how you are underappreciated at work or in life and this causes you to become depressed. Either way, it seems as though the energy that keeps coming back ends up with you being stuck in darkness when you used to live in the light.
Why does this energy keep coming back?
Seven of Pentacles Reversed, Five of Pentacles Reversed, Six of Wands, and Eight of Pentacles:
Ultimately your guides are telling you that this energy keeps coming back because you have been putting too much emphasis on getting recognized for your achievements and being rewarded for your work when you really should be just focusing on the work and not the reward. They keep bringing this energy back to you so you can start to realize that you may be doing this job or hobby or hanging around these people for the wrong reasons. You want people to recognize how good you are and to praise you for these things and that is not the reason why you should be working or hanging around people. Success comes when you work hard and have your head in the game. So, your guides are trying to tell you here that to get what you want you need to make changes, you need to come at this with a different approach.
Advice from spirit on how you should approach this energy:
Four of Wands, The Fool, Ace of Wands, and Judgement:
Before this new beginning can come in, you need to do some self-evaluation. Really dig deep, and find out why you want this success and recognition. What is it feeding in you? It may have something to do with your home life, how you were raised, or the way your family treated you growing up. You will also need to evaluate if these things you are going after are things you truly want or, do you just think you want them to feel success and admiration. Once you do this you will need to come at your career and life overall from a new, clean slate. A whole new approach is needed for you to reach the goals you truly want.
Bottom of the deck energy:
Queen of Wands Reversed:
You have been in a low place overall in your life for some time now. You’ve been letting your insecurities control your life and the decisions you make. Because of this you’ve been very short-tempered and tend towards bullying either the people around you or yourself. You demand way too much of the people around you and of yourself and this is not a good place to be in. You know this, as I established above, this is not who you truly are at your core, you are a nice and gentle soul who loves life and loves people but, recently you have been showing a much darker and much more insecure version of yourself that needs to be dealt with for you to reach fulfillment.
There was very cutesy energy with this pile. It's almost like that sound on TikTok, “Looks like they could kill you, is a cinnamon roll” and, “Looks like a cinnamon roll, is a cinnamon roll” Some of you may hide your cutesy energy as a defense mechanism while others are more confident in themselves and aren’t afraid to be themselves.
The color pink, specifically baby pink may be of significance to some of you.
There was a lot of Pisces and Cancer energy with this pile, specifically unevolved Pisces and Cancer energy. A lot of you may be afraid of your emotions, afraid to feel, or you may see yourself as weak when you are emotional. There is also some Aries energy here, but very little, almost like you are a Pisces or Cancer with an Aries moon or other placements in Aries.
Extended Reading (how can you learn these lessons and release this energy?)
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Leo Woman:
Title: “The Knockout”
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For simplicity's sake, I will use the pronouns “he/him” for the male versions of the signs and “she/her” for the female versions of the signs. This is not to say that the people who identify with the male or female versions of each sign identify with those pronouns. This post is focusing on the different sexes (male vs female) not gender. Gender is fluid and I am in no way labeling people with these posts. Also, these posts are focusing solely on the Sun signs of each zodiac, other birth chart placements may cause someone to not fit into everything I have described.
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Mind (how they think):
The Sun rules the sign of Leo, which is represented by the authoritative Father Principle. Male Leos express this characteristic by having huge amounts of energy, an innate sense of ease, and a sense of entitlement. Female Leos express this as a revolt against the patriarchy, a call to leave the universally accepted patriarchal society that is dominated by men.
Typically, she is raised as a latchkey kid, with her parents mostly absent during the day.
She becomes a strong supporter of self-reliance because of this, honing her survivalist skills in the process of creating a stable home environment for herself.
There is oftentimes a dramatic reason for the absence of one or both of her parents. It is most times the mother who is absent in her life, due to divorce, death, or more often just emotionally absent in parenting the Leo female.
The Leo woman's father is most often strict and strong-willed, though has a more sporadic presence at home. In the extreme, he is a tough disciplinarian, dogmatic politically, religiously, or both, against whose dictatorial nature the little Lion girl privately begins to rebel.
Despite pretending to comply with her parents' rules, she disobeys them nonchalantly, secretly following her own path. Her path is rarely what you would expect.
Although she suffered from the strict temperament of her father, she often credits him with giving her the courage to stand up for what she believes in.
She focuses most of her time on her passions, usually those that involve stepping into some sort of spotlight.
It is easy for her to gain the respect of teachers and other grown-ups, due to her self-reliant nature.
It isn’t until she realizes that survival depends on cooperation with others, particularly with other females that she cultivates a pack of women who share the same ideals as her.
As the only fixed-fire female in the zodiac, she excels at pursuits that require sustained action and creativity.
If she sees a creative plan or concept that isn’t being done justice she will step in and develop it into something that fits her image of what it should look like.
It is her birthright as one born under the sign of wholeness and completion, to envision how a half-baked concept could be sufficiently fleshed out and then accomplished.
She isn’t always conscious of her tendency to usurp other people's territory. Regardless, she may easily gain a reputation for being commandeering.
The biggest lesson she will have to face psychologically throughout her whole life is learning when enough is enough. Megalomania is often her undoing.
Body + Soul (what they look like inside and out):
She is infused with so much physical and emotional energy that she often seems larger than life.
She is haughty, cunning like a cat, somewhat savage in her movements, athletic, often exhibiting a defined musculature.
Her brand of beauty is often distinctly fiery, made all the more vivid by her style choices, as she often kits herself out in boldly revealing clothes, brightening her hair to a golden red or flaxen blonde.
Unlike the male Leo who guards his autonomy at all costs, the female Leo eagerly invites a circle of admirers who’ll unfailingly honor her inherent self-styled VIP status.
She is not generally loving, she saves her fervent devotion for just one or two lucky, and hopefully hardy, individuals.
More than most fully matured females, Leo remains devoted to one long-standing best friend from childhood, someone whose life should revolve around her, though rarely vice versa.
She doesn’t so much enter a room as storm it. Her vivacious body language is as eye-catching as her colorfully coordinated appearance.
Her voice stands out, a gravely honeyed growl that regularly crescendos into explosions of full-bodied laughter.
She is naturally fit, blessed with a low percentage of fat and a muscled physique.
There are moments in her life where she could put on some weight. However, that is usually a manifestation of a “blocked” emotional life; and often she’ll lose that weight just as quickly as she put it on when she deals with that blockage.
If she does, however, happen to be bigger than the average Leo woman that does not mean she will hide herself in baggy clothes. She will still be very confident and flaunt herself the way any other Leo woman will.
The Leo woman is generally beautiful, however, there is often a hardness to Leo's face that saves her from being considered ‘pretty’ by others.
No matter her race, her skin is often pale, with freckles, or uneven in tone.
Her skin is usually on the dryer side.
She usually has a heart-shaped head with an infamous mane that frames her face.
Her hair is surprisingly straight, sparse, and dry, she goes to great lengths to make it look more voluminous, often overhandling it.
Her jaw, like the rest of her, is strong and well-defined, her neck sinewy, her shoulders athletically square, as is her upper torso. She has very little curve, even at the waist.
Her boobs are perfectly formed and almost always symmetrical, and she knows this.
Nothing about her body language suggests that she is insecure. She moves deliberately, with a natural grace that is slinky like a cat’s rather than delicate as a swan’s.
Her legs tend to be lean and mighty with the calf and thigh muscles visibly ripped.
Her hands and feet tend to be rough and dry. No amount of cream or other cures can counteract that.
She can’t help but exude naturally raw sexuality, no matter the fashionable clothes she wears, the careful grooming she does, or the constant cosmetic makeovers she gives herself.
Her body temperature tends to hover just above normal. When she is looking for a lover she prefers someone who also runs just as hot as she does.
The Leo woman does not do phony. Mainly because they simply can't pretend to be something they are not. They are terrible liars, tending to overdo it, and giving themselves away along the way.
She finds success by being a bit of a copycat, running with others’ only half-baked ideas. She completes what others stumble upon or pioneer, doing up all she takes on.
She can be loud and pushy. In time she should adopt a sense of calm in the candid expression of her opinions.
A poorly aspected Leo personality will be characterized by brutal curtness and bullying directed primarily at those she maniacally curses for being “better” than herself, unwitting objects of her signature insane jealousy.
Leo will have you know she never caters to anyone by herself. However, she expects others to do any and all the grunt work, while she remains a calm, cool command central.
Only people with a visible passion akin to her own will catch her attention. Those she deems lacking this particular trait, deserve to play the part of handmaiden or fool for her emotional edification.
Sex + Sexuality (what they are like in bed and what they look for in a mate):
Leo Woman Interested in Men:
Leo woman interested in men is drawn to a man with ardent natures, who appear to wear their hearts on their sleeves.
Leo women are notorious for falling head over heels in love with a dark and dashing man. Blonde men usually are not someone whom a Leo woman thinks twice about.
She will typically lighten her own look up, however, to appeal to the men she likes. She goes for a look that most resembles the sun, golden hair, tanned skin, warm warm-toned colors in her wardrobe.
Men ruled by their hearts are those she seeks to capture.
She tends to be blatantly obvious in her feelings. She doesn’t want the man she likes to have to guess whether she likes him or not.
This is to say, she is the one who does the pursuing. She doesn’t typically like a man who pursues her.
She is a master of flirtation, once she’s convinced of a man’s interest in her, she’ll play cat and mouse, toying and teasing him unabashedly.
She tends to think that her naturally tough, ambitious self may frighten men, so, she will instinctively act comically feeble-witted, like the school brainiac who swears she’ll fail tests, only to ever scare A-pluses.
If she is ever pursuing a man, it is because there is intense passion present. If there isn’t she will not waste her time.
She is not quick to fall in love at first sight.
She is an outrageous flirt with an insatiable appetite for sex. But, sex to the Leo woman is a vividly demonstrative means of making an emotional attachment.
She guards her emotions fervently. Though, through sex, exercise, and ambition she shows them.
She is a true romantic. She believes that men with visible passion will love her more fully than she perceives other, more stoic males to do.
It is the promise of sex, not sex itself, that she uses to get men.
She likes to give her partner the impression that they are running the show, and to do this she allows him to act more selfishly in bed. At least, at first.
She will typically take a more passive role, pretending to play the role of a woman who will make no demands in the relationship, with the hopes of not scaring him off.
In truth, however, she is one of the most commanding women in the zodiac.
She wants nothing more in life than to love, and this is something she is wildly capable of doing.
She expects her partner to love her just as much as she loves them.
There is nobody more devoted than the Leo woman in love.
Because she is a fixed fire sign, she will attach her full, feverish energy to whatever creative or loving pursuit has her attention.
To be loved by her is like being offered a challenge, one that demands a man expressing his feelings to the fullest capacity.
She may put her partner through the emotional ringer, constantly demanding more proof of their interest in her.
She will do this until she learns a life lesson that almost every Leo woman will need to learn in their love life; to back off.
Far too often in her life, she will bark up the wrong tree, especially when it comes to romantic interests.
Early on in her life, she will far too often end up in relationships with himbos because of her overbearing nature when pursuing someone.
Once she comes to this revelation, she will learn that she needs to ease up, both in her pursuit of someone to be in a relationship with and in her pursuit of constant validation once she’s in a relationship.
She usually learns the hard way that love chased is often the one hardest to keep.
The man who is lucky enough to get the Leo woman in bed will have to overwhelm her. Only by doing this, will they actually prove themselves worthy of her love.
She wants a man who can keep up with her, some healthy competition is what she really craves.
She enjoys besting and being bested in bed.
She thrives on high-powered men, those who generate growth in the world - makers, shakers, movers, and manufacturers- self-made men and kings of industry, leaders worthy of her company.
It takes a special kind of man to be with Leo, one who gives way to her fiercest dramas, remaining unruffled, but who will nonetheless refuse to be whipped by her.
She will at some point in her life learn that for her, of all women, Mr.Rights are few and far between.
This is when she learns self-love is exactly what she needs to feel fulfilled in life.
She will fuel her love of herself with the admiration of others.
She tends to find the love that she seeks when she least expects it - while she is focused on her personal ambitions.
She demands a great challenge from men, demanding whether they can break her self-protective barrier and love her as much as she loves herself.
Until a man is successful in breaking down her barriers, an emotionally evolved Leo is living proof that if you love yourself, the whole world loves you back.
If the Leo woman has been burned enough times trying to engineer and force relationships, she may one day find herself willing to let a man take the reins in driving their relationship.
Leo women can be so self-consumed that they can’t help but attract men who are secure enough in their masculinity to not feel threatened by her.
She craves someone who will stand up to the rigorous rough and tumble lifestyle and sex life she enjoys without fear of crushing his ego.
She likes to battle her lover for dominance in the bedroom. This is not to say that she is usually a dom. Rather, she is more of a switch and prefers her partner to be one too.
She is an enthusiastic lover and a fast learner.
For her, sex needs to feel like play.
She expects her partner to successfully, and willingly, put her through her sexual paces.
This explains why she typically goes for younger guys.
She appreciates a younger man's innocence and wide-eyed enthusiasm when it comes to sex, and she will eagerly take on the role of their teacher.
She’s not usually one to hesitate jumping into bed with a man too early in the relationship. She needs to check out the merchandise before she fully commits to someone and this is the only way she knows how to do that properly.
She can have a wandering eye when she is in a relationship with a man who doesn’t satisfy her.
Size does matter to her, especially girth.
She is not one to like slow and steady sex, she wants it rough and fast. Not fast as in a quickie more like fast-paced. Marathon sex is exactly what she craves.
She’s not necessarily verbal, more like noisy, and a screamer.
She has no interest in role-play and is turned off by men who seem to be too in their heads in bed.
She wants a man who agrees that sex is about getting off as furiously as possible.
Sex needs to be equal give and take for her to be satisfied.
She hates oral and is not one to ever do it and when she does it tends to be quite toothy.
She prefers to reach her climax vaginally, clitorally is too acute for her to feel fully satisfied.
Since she is rarely in touch with her femininity, she does not like a man who is in touch with his own.
She requires a fiercely masculine lover who will be able to handle her ferocious, aggressive self and make her look like a delicate flower in tandem.
She is so often the leader in all aspects of her life that when she finds the right man she will be willing to let him take the lead in their relationship.
Leo Woman Interested in Women:
Leo women no matter their sexuality have a very intense relationship with other women.
The Leo woman interested in women is especially provocative around women. She will always be pushing buttons - pointing out weaknesses, challenging opinions, questioning motives, and especially poking fun - behavior that is intended to test other women’s mettle and elicit emotions.
She likes to turn up the heat on other women, whose placid natures she blames on society's crushing domination of her gender.
This is why she pokes and prods at women so much, so she can see if they have passion in them. For when they explode even in anger she will smile at them with a look that says “I knew you had it in you “.
Most of her relationships with women start with her poking fun at them, gauging whether she has the requisite impassioned responses she’ll later hope to encounter in the bedroom.
Her type of woman is typically the straight-passing girl who will give her the thrill of feeling like she showed them the ropes of sex with another woman.
She also enjoys stealing a woman from their boyfriend.
Unlike the straight Leo woman, she is okay with being in touch with her masculine side
She is relationship orientated in the extreme, usually going for a plain Jane woman who she says has “potential”.
Sex without love is particularly empty for her, what she longs for is rarely found in one-night stands.
Sex for her means the absolute sharing of emotion, and if she’s not feeling the love, she’ll have nothing to give to them.
When she does find someone she loves, she will fall hard, and the subsequent outpouring of her emotions can make any woman feel overwhelmed.
She is profoundly loyal and demands the same in return.
She guards her private life and her lover as fiercely as a lion would her cubs.
Since she is more dominant and prefers to be, she demands that her lover be the femme in bed, often wearing frilly lingerie, performing seductive stripteases, and otherwise indulging in stereotypically female trappings.
She will verbally taunt her love while simultaneously working them over with toys, driving them to orgasm to orgasm.
She is a hopeless romantic, forever surprising her lover with tokens of her affection, or spontaneously whisking her off for a candlelit dinner or surprise weekend away.
As long as she and her lover can be alone together, all is right in the world.
Since Leo is ruled by the 5th house which is associated with procreation and children, all Leos dream of having kids.
Sperm is sometimes all the gay Leo woman thinks a man is good for.
While adoption is an option, she may prefer to produce her child. However, this child can not be made out of wedlock so, before she has a baby with her lover they need to get married.
Leo women can fall out of love without warning. They are rarely promiscuous, rather she will leave her lover and jump into a relationship rather quickly, often getting married many times in her life.
She wants her lover to be successful, so she can flaunt her and her lover to any person she meets.
She is comfortable when surrounded by only men, oftentimes she tends to act more masculine than the most masculine of men.
She will protect her lover passionately.
She doesn't have laissez-faire relationships; she fiercely bonds and extravagantly luxuriates in the lush environment of a fertile, thriving, infinitely hot, and heavy relationship.
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What Unexpected Blessings Are Headed Your Way?
What blessings do you not see coming your way and what are some messages from your spirit guides to help you better prepare for them?
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Pile One:
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Who are you currently?
The Devil and Two of Swords:
You are currently at a point in your life where you have been indulging in temptations, maybe a bit too much. You are obsessed with the material world and obtaining things that you may have struggled to receive in the past. However, with the Two of Swords coming out to represent you as well, this tells me that you find yourself at a crossroads in your life currently. There is a difficult decision that needs to be made in your life and you don’t know which path to choose. One or both of these decisions may deal with your career or a hobby of some sort.
I am getting strong Libra, Sagittarius, and Pisces energy from this pile. So, some of you may have significant placements in these signs.
What is a blessing you don’t see coming into your life?
Ace of Pentacles and The Lovers:
There is a new cycle coming into your life, specifically in your career or a hobby. Now, I don’t want you to get your hopes up with The Lovers coming out. The Lovers doesn’t always mean a romantic relationship, it can signify a platonic relationship, or even just your relationship with yourself. In your case, I believe it is talking about a business partnership of some sort. Someone is coming into your life soon that will bring blessings in your career. I believe that this will be a new person because Ace’s always signify new beginnings, sometimes however they can signify a new beginning with someone you already know but, in your case, I do not believe you know this person.
Any messages or warnings from Spirit before this blessing comes into your life?
King of Pentacles, Seven of Pentacles, and Eight of Pentacles Reversed:
You may tend to rush into things and then once you get there you lose your focus, get lazy, and quit before you finish. To that, your guides are saying that you will embody the King of Pentacles energy with this blessing entering your life. You will be a whole new person with this blessing. You will be much more responsible and reliable. It is worth noting that this person that is coming into your life will help bring this side of you out, so, they may also embody some of the King of Pentacles energy too. This blessing will bring with it a great deal of abundance for you. All you need to do is be patient, which may be hard for you, especially in your current state.
Bottom of the Deck Energy:
The Moon Reversed:
The bottom of the deck tells you the underlying energy throughout this whole reading and having The Moon come out reversed tells me that most of you may be feeling quite anxious in your life or paranoid but, you are hiding this from the rest of the world. I say you are hiding this because The Moon in Tarot deals with deception and all things hidden and because when I was doing this reading I was feeling very optimistic and energetic. So, I believe that many of you are putting up this facade of optimism and excitement for your future when you are not at all feeling that way, or, many of you may have been feeling down for quite a bit now but you are starting to get out of that funk recently, and now you are starting to have much more optimism in your life.
Extended Reading (what is specifically coming and how can you prepare?)
Pile Two:
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Three of Water and The Star Reversed:
Pile two, you have been feeling lost and in a daze/brain fog for quite sometime now. You are normally a very sociable and joyful person who loves to hang out with people and have fun. However, something changed in your life that caused you to retreat within yourself and because of this, you have been feeling very down and anxious. Your self-image has been depleted, you no longer feel like you are worthy of anything, you think that people in your life no longer like you, and because of this, you no longer go out and have fun, instead, you stay by yourself most of the time now, preferring solitude. I was getting some major hot flashes while I was doing this reading so, many of you may also experience this or may just be a person who is always hot. Also, your guides had a lot to say during this reading so, many of you may not have been reaching out as much.
I was getting strong Virgo and Scorpio energy from this pile. So, some of you may have significant placements in these signs.
What is a blessing you don’t see coming into your life?
Seven of Air Reversed and Council of All Beings:
There is a much-needed change coming into your life soon. As I said above, I believe that many of you have been stuck in a funk for quite some time now and because of this you have not been reaching out to Spirit as much or have been ignoring their messages and warnings. Your guides may be forcing a change in your life but, this is not a bad thing. They see that you are stuck in a rut and they know that a change can be so good for you at this moment, so they are forcing it to happen. This change is going to be within you, not around you. It will bring out a more mature and kind energy within you, a loving energy that you have not felt in quite some time, if ever. This blessing is you learning how to love yourself the right way.
Any messages or warnings from Spirit before this blessing comes into your life?
Craftsman of Air, Messenger of Fire, and Ten of Air:
Your guides want you to prepare before this blessing comes in. Now that you know what it is, you can better prepare yourself by learning the proper ways to implement this loving and kind energy into your life. Make sure you are educating yourself in this time leading up to this blessing coming in because this will allow it to not only come in more quickly but also come in more seamlessly. You may be someone who wants an explanation for everything, reasons for why things are happening, just so you can understand why things are the way they are. But, your guides are telling you that it is time to let this need go. There is wisdom in your heart that is longing to be free whether you are aware of it or not. You’re on a journey to awareness beyond the self, inspired by something mysterious and beautiful that is part of you and greater than you. Let go of your need for control and open yourself up to the messages and wisdom from the universe and your guides. Learn the signs and symbols that your guides use to communicate with you so you can understand them better when they come in. You are just about ready for this blessing to come into your life but the only thing that is holding you back is you not being able to recognize when your guides are speaking to you. Start to pay attention to the synchronicities around you and slowly try and understand what your guides are trying to tell you by sending them your way.
Bottom of the Deck Energy:
Initiation Reversed:
Initiation is the card that handles the unknown, diving into the past, and going within yourself for answers. So, having it come out reversed as the bottom of the deck energy tells me that you are struggling to do all these things. You ignore your feelings as they come and do not like to remember your past because it may hurt you. However, by not dealing with the trauma you have in your past and ignoring it, you are making your present life much harder because you have so much underlying stress and triggers that your system is constantly overstimulated trying to protect you from all these things you don’t deal with. This blessing will allow you to release these things holding you back and make it so you know how to navigate these feelings as they come up. Again, however, educating yourself on how you can do this healthily is needed. If you need help doing this, make sure you reach out to a professional.
Extended Reading (what is specifically coming and how can you prepare?)
Pile Three:
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Page of Swords, Nine of Swords, and The Empress:
At your core, you are a very nurturing and creative person. You are someone who is constantly educating yourself, driven by your curiosity. You fully embody femininity at its finest, you are very warm, comforting, and inspiring to the people around you. However, all of this being said, you are currently in a place rippled by anxiety, worry, and guilt. You are struggling with some great internal battles. You are in a time of great emotional turmoil at the moment, which is quite different from who you are at your core, so, you may be feeling very lost and confused at the moment because of this.
There is a lot of suppressing emotions with this pile, you are not allowing yourself to feel your emotions as they come. Because of this, I am getting strong Capricorn energy with this pile, specifically Capricorn Moons. This does not mean that everyone who chose this pile has to have these placements. If you were drawn to this pile then it is meant for you.
I am also getting a strong reserve of energy with this pile. It’s almost like you are currently blinded right now and not seeing your life for what it is, however, you may not be aware of this.
There is a lot of contradicting energy with this pile and contradicting emotions. There may also be some fear of change or even a fear of allowing yourself to feel, with this pile.
Many of you could be or have significant Capricorn, Aquarius, or Gemini placements.
What is a blessing you don’t see coming into your life?
Two of Pentacles, Ten of Wands, and The Hermit:
You have been stretching yourself thin for quite some time now and because of this, you are on the brink of burnout. You are at a significant crossroads right now, one path (the one you’re on) leads you to burnout and a very dark place, and the other path (the path your guides want you to take) leads you to a place of rest and rejuvenation. This blessing coming your way is your guides forcing you to take the other path. They know the outcome of the path you are on right now, so they are going to force you to deter. This blessing will force you into solitude, and force you to seek answers from within. It will force you to do some self-reflection, asking yourself who you really are, and who you have been acting like. How do you bring yourself out of these bad habits, and allow yourself to feel again? This solitude will bring along with it much-needed balance in your life that will lead you back to your true self.
Any messages or warnings from Spirit before this blessing comes into your life?
Ten of Swords, The World, and Nine of Pentacles:
Your guide’s message to you here is exactly what I said above. You are currently on a path that leads to a dead end, a destination that is nothing but despair. They are urging you desperately to make this blessing they are sending your way come in seamlessly. Don’t fight this change that's coming in, it is a blessing, but since you fear change your automatic reaction to this change will be to reject it, however, they do not want you to do this. Know that by accepting this blessing into your life, you will be allowing a completion to the cycle of constant suppression of emotions and the cycle of negativity that comes along with that. The journey to a pure self, a self-set on a solid foundation, and one who lives in a healthy mindset is long and very very unpleasant. It brings up a lot of suppressed and long-forgotten emotions and memories. But, this has to happen for you to build a better foundation to live on. As long as you can remember, the foundation you have lived on has been made up of the negative memories and emotions that are going to come up as you start to change, as you start to heal. Do not give up, the negative things have to come up for you to get rid of them and replace them with good. Whether that be them leaving completely, or just reconditioning your brain to view them in a different, more positive light. Either way, your guide's message here is to not fear this blessing, don’t reject it as it comes in, and don’t quit along the journey, for the destination is one of great success and self-sufficiency.
Bottom of the Deck Energy:
Page of Pentacles:
You are at your core, a star student, someone who is consistent in their path to true discovery. However, the negative place you have lived in for some time now has clouded this side of you. Your guides want you to know this side of you is not gone forever, it is simply suppressed. All you need to do is listen to their advice and you will find this side of yourself again, for it has always been there.
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Hello Aphrostarot
How's the general compatibility between a Leo woman and a Taurus man in and outside the bedroom?
Hi!
As I say in all of my compatibility posts, when it comes to compatibility and just looking at signs I don’t give very definitive answers because any relationship can work as long as you are willing to put in the work. For some zodiac signs, it is harder for them to get along but that doesn’t mean they are not compatible at all. This is why I prefer to look at Synastry charts and Composite charts when it comes to answering questions about compatibility. Your Synastry chart is how the two of you interact together, and what aspects each of your charts makes to the other, which will tell you how you see one another and how you behave around the other. Your Composite chart takes both of your charts and combines them, finding the median of the two, which shows how your relationship is viewed and how your relationship itself is, not how you view the other or how you interact together. Synastry charts give you an overview of how you both as individuals act when together and the Composite chart tells you how the two of you are as one being, how your relationship ebbs and flows, and what impression it leaves on the people around you.
With all of that being said, Taurus Suns and Leo Suns are not the most compatible. They are both fixed signs, meaning they are both very hard-headed and stubborn, fixed in their ways, and their ways don’t usually match up very well. The Leo woman is intensely ambitious and the Taurus man is immovable. This relationship is difficult to sustain, but if they stick together and try hard to make it work, there is a reward for trying. And, that reward is the sex. These two can have some very heated sexual encounters, this is because of all the emotional tension these two create. The Leo woman demands constant praise and admiration and is forever competing with the Taurus man. As a result, Taurus digs in his heels and gets more sullen with each passing day. Taurus needs appreciation and Leo needs worship, but neither will get what they need from one another. The Leo woman is extravagant and the Taurus man is frugal. There is a basic conflict between the Taurus’s desire for a well-ordered schedule and Leo’s need for a larger-than-life existence. This is not to say the two can not work at all, like I said above, the other placements in each of your charts and how they interact with one another will tell you a great deal more than what your sun signs will.
I hope I answered your question! If you have any more questions or want to book a reading with me feel free to DM me or send another ask!
-Olivia (aphrostarot)
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Hey Aphrostarot!
Your Zodiac personality analysis has to be one of the most accurate I have ever seen.
I have a question - would 20th April be Aries/Taurus? The charts show Aries Sun that year.
Would that man (Pi Venus, Cap Moon) be compatible with a Cancer Sun Woman (Ge Venus, Ar Moon).
It would be incredible to hear from you, but i understand you may be busy. Thank you for your time!
Hi! Thank you for your question!
Make sure you are using a reputable astrology site when you are looking at birth charts. I use astro.com, they have the most accurate readings and charts when it comes to astrology. April 20th is the start of Taurus season so, the person you are asking about is a Taurus Sun, not an Aries Sun.
Now, when it comes to compatibility and just looking at signs I don’t give very definitive answers because any relationship can work as long as you are willing to put in the work. For some zodiac signs, it is harder for them to get along but that doesn’t mean they are not compatible at all. This is why I prefer to look at Synastry charts and Composite charts when it comes to answering questions about compatibility. Your Synastry chart is how the two of you interact together, and what aspects each of your charts makes to the other, which will tell you how you see one another and how you behave around the other. Your Composite chart takes both of your charts and combines them, finding the median of the two, which shows how your relationship is viewed and how your relationship itself is, not how you view the other or how you interact together. Synastry charts give you an overview of how you both as individuals act when together and the Composite chart tells you how the two of you are as one being, how your relationship ebbs and flows, and what impression it leaves on the people around you.
All of that being said, Tauruses and Cancers usually get along very well. The Cancer woman would see the Taurus man as a safe and steady guy, someone she can trust. Whereas, the Cancer woman’s eccentricity stimulates the Taurus man’s caretaking instincts. They are two peas in a pod, crying until they laugh. They both crave security and a sense of permanence which they usually find in each other. The Cancer woman adds a dash of imagination to the Taurus’s otherwise traditional approach to sex. The Taurus is possessive and this is just fine to the Cancer who tends to be a bit clingy. The Taurus man loves to be catered to and the Cancer woman is the one to do it. Taurus is also very good for Cancers moodiness. They both provide what the other needs very well.
I do want to note however that this may not be accurate for every Taurus man and Cancer woman relationship because your other placements and the aspects they make to one another will tell you way more about your relationship than just how your signs get along.
I hope I answered your question! If you have any more questions or want to book a reading with me feel free to DM me or send another ask!
-Olivia (aphrostarot)
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Welcoming Happiness Pick a Pile
What is blocking you from experiencing happiness and how can you clear those blockages? Also, why do you deserve to be happy and what will make you happy?
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How can you accept joy into your life?
The Luminaries:
It is tradition for artists’ tarot decks to include a special edition card that encapsulates their tarot deck. This is this deck’s card. The Luminaries depicts a trio of friends who overlook a city glowing with light. They represent the many sides of humanity and the nature of existing. When this card appears in a reading, it is telling you to listen to your inner voice, and draw from your own experiences when seeking wisdom and advice. So, when it comes to how you can begin to accept joy into your life, your spirit guides are telling you that you already know how to do this, you just need to listen to your gut. Whatever your first instinct is when you think of how to be more happy, that is the answer. Only you know what it is that will bring joy into your life.
What obstacles are preventing you from experiencing happiness?
King of Wands:
This situation calls for you to step into a leadership role rather than the passive role you have been playing in your life for quite some time. You are a natural-born leader, but you have been ignoring this side of yourself for whatever reason. With this card coming out here, it is your guide's way of telling you that enough is enough, it is time for you to take charge of your own happiness and stop relying on others or the universe to bring it to you. You could be a fire sign (Aries, Leo, or Sagittarius) particularly Aries. Or have prominent fire placements in your chart.
How can you overcome these obstacles to happiness?
Six of Wands:
The road to success is often paved with difficulties but, having this card come out here, is telling you that success is something you can achieve. You will see happiness again in your life, you just need to stay on course and not let these obstacles hold you back. Keep your eye on the prize and maintain your determination to achieve success, and it will come to you.
Why are you worthy of cultivating happiness?
Ten of Wands:
You are a talented and hardworking individual who has faced many challenges in their life. You have faced more challenges than the average person does in their lifetime, and this is something that makes you so incredibly strong. However, it seems that you do not see that in yourself. It seems as though you are hyper self-critical, and you tend to ignore your own problems because you're afraid of them. Instead, you shoulder the burdens of everyone around you, which makes you suffer more. You may think that doing this makes you a good person which it may, but it does not help you, and it is time for you to help yourself. This is why you deserve happiness, because you have gone through enough struggles that it is time for you to experience some joy.
What sources can bring you happiness?
Six of Swords:
You are not happy with where your life is at currently and this has been leaving you quite depressed. The Six of Swords talks about moving on from the past and looking forward to the future, this is what needs to be done in order for you to experience happiness. As far as what can bring you happiness right now, travel could be something that will make you happy. Take a break from your day-to-day life and go to a body of water, whether that be a river, the ocean, a lake, a pond, a pool, etc. whatever it is, this card is telling you that going on a boat or just going somewhere near water will bring you some joy.
Bottom of the deck energy:
Knight of Pentacles:
The Knight of Pentacles is the slowest moving court card, what this means for your life and welcoming happiness is that this will not come overnight. You have struggled for so long in your life and have developed these behaviors and mindsets you have as a result, and the act of changing these things and redirecting your mind to a more positive place will not happen fast. This is something that requires you to be patient. Now, as we know the six of wands came out which is the card of success so, this is your guides telling you that you will experience happiness in the future it just may not come as soon as you would like.
What does happiness look like for you? (Extended Reading)
Pile Two:
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The Lovers:
A lesser known meaning of the Lovers is making a choice. There is some sort of choice that needs to be made in your life, pile two. Your spirit guides want you to know that there is no going backward from this point. You must decide which way to continue, and then make your move. It may be that those of you who chose this pile believe that you do not deserve happiness in your life or believe that you do not need to actively work to feel happiness, and if that is the case then the choice you need to make is to allow yourself to feel the joy you have been suppressing. Neither choice is “wrong” or “bad” – they’re simply different, and it’s up to you to decide which path you want to take. Use your head, but don’t ignore your heart and intuition.
What obstacles are preventing you from experiencing happiness?
The Seven of Cups:
This is yet another card telling you about needing to make a decision. Some of you may be overwhelmed by choices in your life, and you don’t know which path to take. For others, it may be that you can’t seem to find any path, you are too stuck in your own head to see the path that's laid out in front of you. Either way, it seems that the obstacle that is keeping you from experiencing joy in your life, pile two, is your inability to make a choice and move forward on that path.
How can you overcome these obstacles to happiness?
The Star:
In order for you to get through these obstacles to happiness, you may need to find hope, inspiration, or renewed faith. This could involve seeking out new sources of inspiration or reconnecting with your core beliefs and values. Remember, even in the darkest times, the Star’s light can guide you towards a positive and hopeful future. This card suggests that you may be feeling discouraged or doubting your abilities, which is hindering your progress. To overcome this, it is essential to cultivate self-belief, seek out motivation, and potentially explore spiritual or philosophical teachings that can provide guidance and insight.
Why are you worthy of cultivating happiness?
The Five of Cups and The Nine of Swords;
Both of these cards talk about grief and sadness in the deepest forms. What this means, in terms of you deserving to be happy, is that you simply deserve it. You’ve been through so much darkness in your life, and have been living in that darkness for quite some time now, you deserve a break. You deserve to have some light in your life.
What sources can bring you happiness?
Justice and The Three of Swords:
You have experienced some deep heartbreak in your life. Whether it be recently or in the past, either way, it has stuck with you and made it difficult for you to ever truly experience happiness in your life. Your guides are saying here that a source of happiness for you is simply healing this wound, getting justice for the wrongs you have faced. Confronting the consequences of the past, seeking closure through fairness, or addressing unresolved issues may be necessary for healing and moving on. This suggests that your ability to move on from this past relationship may be hindered by unresolved issues or past actions that have not been properly confronted or addressed. Seeking closure, acknowledging past mistakes, and striving for fairness in future interactions can help you heal and move forward.
Bottom of the deck energy:
The Four of Pentacles:
Have you been feeling a bit bored lately? Exhausted, even? The four of cups coming out at the bottom of the deck is a sign that life has been feeling heavier than usual for you. Maybe you’ve been a little more wrapped up in yourself than usual lately. The four of cups can indicate that you’ve been dealing with stagnation as a result of you becoming a little self-absorbed, or simply mentally checking out entirely and becoming too apathetic to the world around you. This card is your guide's way of telling you not to give up just yet. Shake the cobwebs from your eyes and do what you need to do to stoke your fires. Now’s the time to make your move, and get back at it. Life is waiting for you.
What does happiness look like for you? (Extended Reading)
Pile Three:
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The Page of Wands and The Four of Wands:
The Four of Wands talks about moving forward in life. Whether it be, taking the next step in a relationship, hitting an important career or life goal, or even celebrating a birthday. Whatever it is, it represents positive forward movement. For you pile three, this forward movement is you embracing the happiest version of yourself, which looks like the Page of Wands. Accepting that you are or have a part of yourself that is, a kind, energetic, and optimistic individual is the first step into accepting joy into your life. You may not be the most responsible person, or even the most experienced, but that should not stop you from being in touch with your happiest inner child.
What obstacles are preventing you from experiencing happiness?
The Queen of Wands Reversed:
There is a part of you that doesn’t think the person I described above is you. You see yourself not so much as a bad person but as someone who has a lot of bad qualities and as someone who doesn’t deserve happiness. The Queen of Wands reversed as an obstacle or challenge can represent a need to address personal insecurities, develop self-confidence, or find clarity in your goals. This card encourages introspection and self-improvement, urging you to identify and confront your self-doubts. It’s a reminder that building self-confidence and setting clear, achievable goals can serve as a robust foundation for overcoming any challenge.
How can you overcome these obstacles to happiness?
The Six of Coins:
Here’s the thing, you know how to treat other people with kindness and know how to see the best in everyone you meet. However, you do not know how to do this to yourself. This has caused an imbalance of energy given and energy received within you. The way to overcome this challenge is by leaving this dynamic in the past and allowing yourself to receive the same amount of kindness that you are so willing to give to others.
Why are you worthy of cultivating happiness?
The Hierophant:
The Hierophant coming forward in tarot readings represents a lot of instability in your life. It tells you to find solid ground through tried and true methods; now is not the time to blaze your own path. You deserve happiness because you have been feeling so lost, unfocused, and lonely in your life recently. Your guides are saying that it is time for you to surround yourself with people that you share some sort of commonality with. They are reminding you that there is strength and happiness in a community.
What sources can bring you happiness?
The Eight of Cups and The Hanged Woman:
Taking time for deep self-reflection before making any major decisions is needed at this time. You have been yearning for some passion in your life, especially in a certain area of your life that you feel has lost its vital zest, which is causing you to want to give up on it. This is your guide's way of saying that the way to bring that zest back into that area is by looking inward and finding out why you don’t feel so passionate about it anymore. It is time for you to backtrack and rekindle your fire for an old dream you've been wanting to give up on. Embrace changes in your life and your consciousness in order to welcome happiness into your life. Break up your routines, wake up a bit earlier, take a scenic route to work, grab a latte to go, etc. Whatever it is you need to do, start small and work your way up, and soon you will start to realize that happiness is coming back into your life at a much quicker pace.
Bottom of the deck energy:
The Eight of Swords:
You’ve been feeling stuck, trapped, or backed into a corner in your life at the moment. Whatever the battle you have been fighting, it feels to you like you have to do it alone. You’ve been feeling melancholic, isolated, and maybe even exhausted. This card is telling you that all is not lost. The solution to your problem lies in your perception, so try seeing things from a new perspective. You have the strength to fight your way out of this.
What does happiness look like for you? (Extended Reading)
Pile Four:
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How can you accept joy into your life?
The Devil and Two of Swords:
The Two of Swords usually indicates that there is a tough choice to be made. You’re having trouble making this decision, and this could be because you’re lacking clarity. You may be stalling, or even avoiding making a decision altogether, but know that you can’t do this forever. This dilemma won’t magically go away. The solution requires that you take a step back and center yourself so that you can see things more clearly. With the Devil coming out alongside the Two of Swords, this tells me that this decision that needs to be made involves addiction. The Devil presents itself when there has recently been a period of overindulgence in your life. This overindulgence may even have evolved into an addiction. While this can be a frightening card to get in a tarot reading, it’s important to recognize that you have the power to free yourself from the archetypal Devil’s grasp. This coming out here is a warning from your spirit guides that says, “get it together! Restore balance in your life! Don’t succumb to your vices; you’re stronger than they are!” Once you start believing in your own strength, you will be one step closer to accepting joy in your life. Remember, there is no shame in asking for help. If you feel like you need help getting through this, reach out to someone, a therapist, an addiction specialist, a counselor, support groups, etc. Admitting that you require help is courageous, and a powerful first step.
This addiction does not have to be to drugs and alcohol. For some it may be, for others it may be, an addiction to self sabotaging yourself, an addiction to fun, to adrenaline, to sex, etc. Only you know what it is.
What obstacles are preventing you from experiencing happiness?
The Tower Reversed:
You have been resisting change in your life for quite some time now. You know that you have a problem, and you know you need to fix it, but you are afraid of what your life will look like when you change, or you’re afraid of admitting you have a problem. Either way, this resistance will only prolong your difficulties and prevent you from moving forward. It’s important to recognize that while change can be uncomfortable, it is often necessary for personal growth and development.
How can you overcome these obstacles to happiness?
The Four of Cups and The World:
The process of closing one chapter to begin another can often involve a complex mix of emotions and unforeseen obstacles. It’s important to recognize that every transition comes with its own difficulties and requires a period of adaptation. Both of these cards coming out are yet another sign that you have been resisting change and fear the unknown. What you need to do in order to work through these obstacles and get to a happy life, is, let go of your fears, and change your perspective. Which can be easier said than done, but, if you continue the way you have been, happiness will not enter your life, and this is something I know you want, even if you are too afraid to admit it. It is time for you to reach out and ask for help if you feel you can’t do this on your own. Sometimes bouncing your thoughts off of another will help you change your perspective.
Why are you worthy of cultivating happiness?
The Two of Pentacles and The King of Wands:
You are a highly motivated person who knows what they want and will stop at nothing to reach their goals. However, this does not make you overconfident and arrogant, you are very humble and don’t take anything you have accumulated for granted. You have a goal in your mind right now that you have been trying to reach, but you do not have the necessary pieces to get there. Whether it be your finances, a specific mindset, etc. you know what it is you need in order to reach this goal, but you are stuck. This stalemate has caused a deep depression in you, which is why joy is lacking in your life right now. Your guides are saying that you deserve happiness because you have never given up on anything you set your mind to, no matter how many roadblocks get in your way. You have been stuck for quite some time now, but you have not let this stop you from getting creative and finding new ways to get around this block. Your guides say that this is something that deserves to be celebrated.
What sources can bring you happiness?
The Moon and The Eight of Wands:
You have been feeling overly anxious, helpless, and worried in your life at the moment. This is because you have been getting stuck focusing on the negatives in your life and allowing this mindset to control you. When the moon comes out here, it is telling you to shift your perspective. Your guides are saying that once you do this, happiness will be flowing into your life rapidly. Here are some ideas of things to do in the meantime to help you shift your perspective on life; Make sure the people in your life have positive energy and intent. Ask yourself, “Do they have my best interest at heart? Do I feel good when I am around them?” If the answers are “no”, then limit your time spent with them, or consider moving on completely. Make sure you are eating healthy food that will fuel you through this moment in your life, and remember to take your vitamins, and medicine! Lighten up your energy by laughing. Watch a funny video clip, read your favorite comic, or funny book, or listen to a hilarious new podcast. Make sure you are protecting your energy during this time, and make sure you are aware of what energy you are accepting and giving.
Bottom of the deck energy:
The King of Swords:
The obstacle you are facing in your life requires a clear head in order to overcome. Make sure you are clearing your mind and seeing things clearly as you work through these problems as they arise. You have the strength to be a clear-headed, intelligent leader in your life, you just need to channel this energy in order to be it.
What does happiness look like for you? (Extended Reading)
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Why Are You Toxic? Pick a Pile:
What makes you toxic and how can you heal?
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Pile One:
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What is your energy?
Queen of Coins:
There is strong earth energy with this pile so, you could be an earth sign (Taurus, Virgo, or Capricorn) or for some of you, you may be an earth dominant. This pile made me feel very calm and grounded, so, those of you who chose this pile, may be calm and grounded in your life right now or are trying to get there. This may be something that comes fairly easily for some of you and for others it may not; however, having this card come out here does tell me that you are putting a lot of work into getting to a point in your life where you feel more stable.
What toxic quality do you have that you have not worked towards healing?
Five of Coins and Nine of Cups:
It seems to me that many of you who chose this pile are stuck in a position where you do not have the finances to get to where you would like to be in life. You are really struggling to make ends meet, and you have big dreams of what you want your life to look like, but you are not making any moves to get there. Either you do not think there is anything you can do to make your dreams come true, or, you simply do not think you need to make any moves and that it will all work out for you in the end. Having this come out here is telling you that this is not a mindset you should be living in, and that it is actually holding you back. This is your toxic quality that you need to work on healing if you want to see positive improvement in your life.
How will working on this heal you and your relationships?
Ten of Cups Reversed:
Your relationships have been negatively impacted by the current state you find yourself in. There is a distance in most of your relationships that wasn’t there before. You may even be feeling really isolated in your life, this could be self-imposed isolation for some of you, but for others it may be that the people in your life have started to pull away from you. Your guides are saying here that the way for you to heal your relationships is to start working on healing this part of yourself.
How can you encourage yourself to work through this?
The Emperor:
You need to have some strong self-discipline in order to work through this. Your heart has been the leading decision maker in your life for quite some time now, and it is time for a change. It is time for you to listen to your head instead of your heart, so you can see the best results. It may be a good idea to clean your surroundings. Be it, your room, house, work place, etc. whatever it is that is messy in your physical state. It is hard to work through things in your mind when your environment is messy. Make sure you keep at this and hold yourself accountable, it may be easy for you to fall back into the routine you have been living in for so long, but it is time for a new routine, a much healthier routine and continuing to work at it will make it easier to stick to it much more quickly.
How can you show yourself empathy through this process?
The Empress:
Be patient with yourself during this time, and make sure you are making time for some self-care. Don’t rush the process, it may take some time for you to see progress, but don't let that discourage you. Make some time in your days to go outside and spend time in nature. While you are outside, take note of all the beautiful things that surround you, this will help you to be grateful for the things you have in your life at the moment. It is easy to get stuck in a negative mindset and think there is nothing good in your life. But, that is not true, there is so much of this world to be grateful for and noticing these things will help you get out of this darkness you find yourself stuck in.
How can you learn to communicate this issue with others while you work through it?
Four of Swords:
You need to allow yourself time to rest and relax, so you can heal, and the people in your life may not understand that this is something you need to do. Either they have no idea what you are going through or they don’t know the extent of it. If they continue to not understand what it is you are going through, nothing will change in your relationships. So, a good way for you to bring this up to them is by explaining that you needed to take a step back from your relationships to heal your mind, or that you need to do this. If they do not understand this, then they are not someone you want in your life. The people who are meant to be in your life will still be there when you feel ready to come back to them. Give yourself time to heal and relax and if you feel up to it maybe spend time with them in a calming environment. Don’t over exert yourself to make others feel comfortable, now is the time for you to protect yourself and your energy, not other peoples.
Bottom of the deck energy:
Death:
The bottom of the deck energy in a Tarot reading tells you about the overall energy of the reading, and having the Death card here tells you that you are going through a death cycle right now. This is a good thing, you are going through a transformation in your life for the better. You are shedding what is not serving you anymore and blooming into a much better version of yourself.
Advice From Spirit Extended Reading
Pile Two:
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What is your energy?
Two of Cups:
There is strong Libra energy with this pile, so, some of you could be a Libra or have prominent Libra placements in your birth chart. The energy you have right now, is someone who is a very agreeable person, someone who doesn’t want to rock the boat so, you go along with everything everyone around you says. You are a people pleaser at heart and hate when people are upset with you. You want healthy relationships in your life, and this comes with you being willing to do anything to please your loved ones. Some of you could be Cancer risings.
What toxic quality do you have that you have not worked towards healing?
King of Wands Reversed and Ace of Wands:
You are a creative person who loves to start new projects and hobbies, however it seems that you can be quite domineering when it comes to getting what you want out of these hobbies. You are not the best team player when you are working on something. In friendships and in relationships you are a good team player, but, as soon as you start to work on something you are passionate about with other people, you are really pushy and can be quite toxic. You are very demanding because you may be a perfectionist, and it is hard for you to let mistakes slide. So, when someone makes a mistake, you criticize them quite harshly. This quality makes people not want to work with you, which can leave you quite confused because you like to work with others, you just don’t know how to do it harmoniously.
How will working on this heal you and your relationships?
The Moon:
The Moon represents uncertainty and illusion. A time when nothing may be how it seems, and having this card come out here confirms to me, that you truly do not know how the people in your life see you. You are unaware of this toxic quality you have and are left confused when people try to get out of working with you. This is not fully your fault because the people in your life are not communicating their feelings to you, however, it is partially your fault because you are not being nice to these people. You make these people feel like crap for no good reason when they are working with you on a project, and that is not good. So, how will working on this toxic quality heal you and your relationships? It will open your eyes to how you have been treating the people in your life, and once you are aware of this you can begin to correct these behaviors as they come up.
How can you encourage yourself to work through this?
Four of Pentacles:
One of the many interpretations of the Four of Pentacles is boundaries. What this means for you and how you can encourage yourself to work through this, is by reminding yourself that boundaries are a good thing to have in every relationship you have, including the one with yourself. Because you are a people please it may be hard for you to understand that boundaries are good to have, you may view setting them as being rude and selfish, but that is untrue. I label placing boundaries as an act of healthy selfishness, and everybody should practice healthy selfishness in their lives. Once you begin to place healthy boundaries in your life and also begin to recognize other people's boundaries, you will begin to heal.
How can you show yourself empathy through this process?
Five of Swords:
You are very hard on yourself because of your perfectionistic tendencies. Your whole life, you have been striving to reach perfection but, the truth is that perfection does not exist. It is simply a societal construct to make everyone strive to be the same, and why should you try to be like everyone else when you are amazing just as you are? It is hard to get out of these self abusive cycles and patterns, but it is something you need to do in order to heal. Making mistakes is okay as long as you learn from them, and beating yourself up for making them is not helping you learn. Stop living in your past mistakes and heartache and start living in the here and now. Once you begin to do that, you will soon realize that you actually like who you are, and then you will see what is important to you and your healing journey.
How can you learn to communicate this issue with others while you work through it?
Death and The Empress Reversed:
There has been a lack of growth and progress in your life for quite some time now and this has been holding you back in both your healing journey but also your relationships. The next step after realizing this yourself is to start to explain to others what it is you’ve been going through and will continue to go through. This realization will catapult you into a death cycle that allows you to shed the old and toxic energy and start to bloom into a new and healed version of yourself. This is what you need to explain to the people in your life. Explain that you are going through a healing process of trying to recognize your negative qualities, so you can begin to change these behaviors.
Bottom of the deck energy:
King of Swords:
The bottom of the deck energy tells you the energy surrounding the whole reading, and having the King of Swords at the bottom of the deck tells you to maintain a level and clear head throughout this whole process. Make sure you are reading every situation through clear eyes and using your intellect to make the right decisions through this process. Stay vigilant and hold yourself accountable.
Advice From Spirit Extended Reading
Pile Three:
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What is your energy?
Nine of Swords:
It seems that you have been struggling with your anxieties recently. I say this because this pile made me very anxious as soon as I started to work with it. Your energy is clouded with fears and insecurities, and it seems that this is how you have been for quite some time now.
What toxic quality do you have that you have not worked towards healing?
Ace of Swords:
You value honesty above anything else, and this can tend to lead you to be too brutally honest and blunt. You don’t consider other people’s feelings enough before you speak most of the time. Likewise, you may believe that the truth needs to be heard no matter what, which leaves you looking like the bad guy most of the time. The truth is, sometimes the truth does not need to be said, sometimes it’s better to bite your tongue to spare other people’s feelings. It seems that it is very hard for you to understand not only your own emotions, but others as well, and this has gotten you into trouble far too often. You are viewed as a heartless person, whether this is true or not. There is strong air sign (Libra, Gemini, Aquarius) energy with this pile, particularly Aquarius. You may have significant Aquarius placements, particularly an Aquarius moon.
How will working on this heal you and your relationships?
Two of Wands Reversed:
This card coming out reversed is not so much telling you how your relationships will heal, but more so telling you how not working on this will affect your relationships. If you continue to go the way you are going, the people in your life will leave you. They are getting sick or will be getting sick of you constantly hurting their feelings without seemingly any care in the world. Your guides are telling you here that if you don’t make the necessary changes to heal and grow, you will be left with nobody.
How can you encourage yourself to work through this?
Ten of Swords and Six of Pentacles:
The Ten of Swords is the card of major disasters but, the Six of Pentacles is the card of great generosity. So, what this tells me is that you may think that changing yourself and healing means you are losing important parts of yourself. However, this couldn’t be any further from the truth. You are growing into a newly healed version of yourself during this process. This is not a bad thing, be gentle with yourself during this process. Be generous with your time and energy with yourself as well. Allow yourself to feel whatever it is that comes up, don’t shove it down. Feeling this loss will help you let it go and heal.
How can you show yourself empathy through this process?
Eight of Swords:
You are stuck in your own head at the moment, especially when it comes to healing this part of yourself. It may be that some of you feel like there is nothing wrong with you being so blunt and not caring about if you hurt others in the process, which is why you are imprisoned in your mind. For others, it may be that you do not know how to change this and that you feel that you deserve all the negative things that come your way from not changing this aspect of yourself. Whatever it is, you need to be gentle with yourself during this time. You have the strength to get through this, it is just time for you to start believing that. Change your perspective on this, and that is how you will show yourself empathy during this process.
How can you learn to communicate this issue with others while you work through it?
Two of Swords and Five of Cups:
You have been denying that there is anything toxic about you for quite some time now, and this has caused a stalemate in your life. Nothing good has been coming in, it seems that only negative energy has been coming into your life because of this. How you can communicate that you are aware of this toxic part of yourself and are beginning to heal it with the people in your life is by doing exactly that. Say to the people in your life that you are finally aware of how your behavior has been impacting not only these people but also yourself and you are now willing to heal, so you can get into a better state in your life.
Bottom of the deck energy:
King of Swords:
You in your highest energy are the King of Swords. What this means is, at your core, you are a person who values honesty and integrity which you do know; however, you are not emotionally mature enough to be able to do this in a healthy way. Once you begin to heal this part of yourself, your emotional maturity will grow, and you will become a much more balanced version of yourself. You will be someone who values honesty but knows when to be brutally honest and when to bite their tongue. You will start to put others before yourself in a healthy way, and this is who you are destined to be.
Advice From Spirit Extended Reading
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Leo Man
Title: “The Natural”
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For simplicity's sake, I will use the pronouns “he/him” for the male versions of the signs and “she/her” for the female versions of the signs. This is not to say that the people who identify with the male or female versions of each sign identify with those pronouns. This post is focusing on the different sexes (male vs female) not gender. Gender is fluid and I am in no way labeling people with these posts. Also, these posts are focusing solely on the Sun signs of each zodiac, other birth chart placements may cause someone to not fit into everything I have described.
Masterlist
Mind (how they think):
The Leo man is the quintessential golden boy.
He has great charisma and an innate sense of ease and entitlement.
He tends to be a real know it all. This is because he has a hard time seeing the world from any other perspective than his own.
He believes that he is the main character in everyone’s lives. So, he tends to steal the center of attention in any conversation he is in.
Like the Lion that rules his sign, injury makes him dangerous. He will usually either sulk, seeking to make the people around him as miserable as he feels, or he will succumb to one of his infamous temper tantrums.
He has a god complex in the way that he believes he has the utmost authority over everyone he encounters. He believes he is better than everyone who crosses his path.
More than any other man, he believes that his way of thinking is the ‘right’ way.
He has little respect for any authority other than his own. With the expectation of his father, who he tends to worship.
He despises formal settings and attire. This is because he needs to feel relaxed and comfortable at all times.
He isn’t interested in pleasing or impressing anyone. In his eyes, you either take him as he is or don’t take him at all.
Leo is ruled by the 5th house, which is the house of fun and games and sport and amusement. So, Leo men are usually predisposed to natural athleticism. Though, he is typically not infused with the team spirit that often comes along with sports.
He can sometimes be addicted to gaming and gambling because of that 5th house influence over him.
He is the zodiac’s ultimate father figure. This is because he never fails to be perceived as a leader, at home or in his career.
He is frequently depended on by almost everyone in his life. This image of being the one that people can depend on is an image he has carried with since childhood and is one he can have the most trouble escaping.
He tends to be pretty physically strong from a young age. This could also be mirrored in his intellectual capability.
He is clever, witty, talented, and has a strong moral fortitude.
More than most, when he fails to meet his goals, he feels guilty and disappointed in himself.
He is often set apart from the other members of his family, which causes a psychological rift to build between him and his family.
He will typically experience an intense sense of blame for outshining his siblings.
Because of this rift, he will often downplay his achievements to his family in particular. This is pretty ironic because he loves the attention he mom gives him for his accomplishments. Which then makes him believe he is a rising star in his family.
No matter how hard he tries, he will never get the same positive feedback from his father that his mother gives him.
He respects his father and holds him in such high regard, but his dad never returns those views.
His dad will frequently chastise him for “trying too hard” and so, in turn, the Leo man stops trying.
Since it is his dad’s opinion that mattered the most to him when he was a kid, he will frequently avoid his feelings of guilt when failing to fulfill his goals. Because of this, he adopts a no-effort attitude towards life, only finding success when it comes to him easily and naturally.
He goes through his life feeling wholly confident, this is an easy stance for him because he never takes risks, emotionally and otherwise.
In all of his interactions with others he’ll make little or no effort to establish a personal connection, only securing friendships that, like everything else, develop with zero strain.
He hates people who he thinks “try too hard” because in his eyes he is the guy who “has it all” and has no respect for people who wear their insecurities and hearts on their sleeves.
Whenever someone he doesn’t know shows sincere interest in him, he will tend to lie to people about his accomplishments in life, or just any detail of his life. In his eyes, he's just “pranking” them or “fibbing” and it’s no big deal. This is because he believes that these people are not worthy of his time and effort to be open and honest, especially if he expects to never see them again.
It is cliché, but the men of this sign are truly the center of attention.
Most people feel that just being in his presence makes them feel better about themselves. This is because his confidence is complete, and it inspires others to stop second-guessing themselves.
To his loved ones, the Leo man is their emotional bodyguard. He will stand up for the people he cares for. He would kick anyone's ass who he deems looked at you sideways if he truly cares for you. It’s just that he really tends to have a very small group of people he really cares for, and it is almost impossible for you to get into that small group.
Body + Soul (what they look like inside and out):
As the personification of a masculine-fixed-fire status, by the time he is an adult he already considers himself a star, regardless of profession, and as such, he doesn’t need proof in the form of universal attention on any kind of grand scale.
He knows people are drawn to him. So, he simply just selects those he deems worthy to enter his personal private sphere.
As much as he tries, the attention seems to always find him wherever he goes.
He seems so laid back and candid when you look at him, this is why people tend to gravitate towards him. It’s almost like his physique is calling you to him.
Many may mistake his openness as him having an outgoing personality, when in reality he is actually quite the introvert. This doesn’t mean that he is shy, it’s just that most people don't have anything but the vaguest of interest for him, so, he doesn’t try to get to know them.
When it comes to friendships, he is notorious for having few to none, and save for the one queen or king this manically monogamous man is forever expecting to meet, he makes no room in his life for close relationships.
He does not mind being single. In fact, he is delighted to go about his daily routine solo.
To 99 percent of the population, he will remain an untouchable, unattainable entity.
He is usually fairer skinned than other members of his family, slightly more blotchy and flushed than the rest of his family.
He may have slightly blonde or red hair, regardless of his ethnicity.
He typically has a Lion’s mane of some sort. Typically sporting thickly tousled locks, coarse or straw like in texture, with a very low hairline.
His face is often weathered; and even from a young age, his face is crinkled with what appears to be laugh lines on his cheeks, temples, and even his bushy brow.
He typically has very dry and sensitive skin, that sunburn and freckles very easily. He needs to be careful and protect himself against moles and small skin cancers caused by the harmful rays of his ruler Sun.
It is very hard to get him to even crack a smile, which is why the wrinkles and lines on his face are most definitely not laugh lines.
He is reluctant to express pleasure with even the most restricted grins. He feels these shows of favor are not easily won, so he will never hand them out easily.
He is naturally fit. Which may make him somewhat of a fatphobe, either to other people or to himself.
Cotton and wool are typically the mainstays of his wardrobe. Anything “peppy” is what he goes for.
He likes to show off his torso, so he may oftentimes wear v-necks or have his shirts unbuttoned.
He likes to look put together wherever he goes but, he typically won’t iron his clothes, he likes a more clean but crumpled look.
He is born with the pectoral muscles that most men spend their whole lives trying to get at the gym. This is why he tends to show off his chest, because it is typically well-defined.
He normally has a flat middle that is nearly impossible to chisel into a six-pack.
He is big-boned with more thick skin rather than fat.
His body is typically evenly proportioned, right down to his big hands and feet.
His “package” is similarly designed. Typically, not overly hung, but perhaps considerably thick.
He has some wild body hair, symmetrically situated and often blondish in hue, rarely, if ever, will he be extremely hairy.
In the pubic area, his hair will be sparse, wiry rather than dense, and often trailing into his butt and inner thigh region.
However, those areas of his body are rarely seen. He does not like people to see his body, so, even on the hottest of hot days, he will be wearing full-length trousers and a button down shirt.
He is easily the most modest, least promiscuous and the most pickiest of all the zodiacal men.
Sex + Sexuality (what they are like in bed and what they look for in a mate):
Leo Man Interested in Women:
When it comes to sex, nobody can hold out on “getting some” like the Leo man.
He is vigilant in his determination to “do without” until someone worthy enough comes along.
Sex for him is an empty experience if his heart isn’t in it.
He trusts his heart over his mind, and will never settle for second best.
More Leos will marry their high school sweetheart than any other zodiacal male because once he feels he finds the one he is committed.
However, if he does not end up with his high school sweetheart then you end up having a whole different type of Leo man, who is willing to work through a string of women, holding an ongoing contest for his permanent affections, putting each woman he links up with through a trial by fire, gauging her emotional capacities.
The Leo man hopes to appeal to a woman who’ll buy into his presumption of superiority, sharing in and, thus, imbuing herself with that same dominance and authority.
The Leo man will always live in the spotlight no matter how small that spotlight may be; and he, consciously or not, hopes that his “place in the sun” will lure potential lovers to him.
He wants a woman who is strong, autonomous yet fiercely loyal, and a haughty diva in public but a valuable little girl in private. Not that he wants to overpower her, but rather, he wants to please, protect, and come to her emotional rescue.
Often without even knowing it himself, he is drawn to women who lack a father's love in their life. Women who have a toughened exterior that is hiding an ultra tender, aching heart.
He will purposefully run hot and cold, testing a woman's emotional stamina.
He also has a tendency to toy with women's affections, while he has no interest in them and has no intention of investing emotionally in them.
He gets a thrill out of stringing girls along.
He is ultimately searching for his regal counterpart, he will even get bored with women who continuously make themselves ‘too’ available to him.
The Leo man looks for a woman who is deserving of him, and oftentimes it is the one who demands to be deserved by him.
He wants a woman who will deliver him an ultimatum. One that says that he can go around with all those other women, but he has to treat her like gold, or she’s gone. That is when he will finally settle down because she is the woman he has been waiting for his whole life.
He has been waiting to find the woman who has the courage to demand he be her champion and protector, considering herself worthy of the royal treatment he will offer.
Relationships are all or nothing for him. He spends most of his early life holding back, both emotionally and sexually, until he finds a love worthy of pouring himself into.
Because of this, he has a hard time letting go when he is broken up with.
He feels the need to be a father figure to women.
He isn’t looking to be adored, but rather to find himself a lover worthy to adore.
He is typically drawn to the dark woman who exudes a sultry sensuality encased within a sturdy, full-figured woman.
As I mentioned above, he can oftentimes be a fatphobe, however he still holds the curvy, hourglass, woman in the highest esteem.
He gravitates towards vivacious women who seem full of good health and vigor, perhaps by way of athletic capabilities.
Despite the fact that he ends up with a woman who demands royal treatment, he still expects her to understand that he is above her in the relationship. He is the king and she is his queen.
He is the most monogamous of most males; and he believes that even looking at other women is almost as bad as touching them.
He prides himself on loyalty, and when in an unhappy marriage he would rather grin and bear it than admit defeat. Still, even then he would never stray. He’s not one to seek sex. But he will let love find him. If his heart begins to swell for another woman, he will pack up and leave for her. And when he goes, he is gone. This is because as deeply as he loved, the loss is more profound than any love he ever felt for that person.
He has the hardest time recovering from lost love, especially when he didn’t see it coming. He will be crippled at being cast aside, that the sulking could last for years.
When it comes time to consummate the relationship, in his mind, this is a ceremonious affair.
The actual act of sex is a big deal for the Leo man, and it is a turn-off if his lover doesn’t share this heightened, somewhat dramatic perspective.
If he even gets the slightest whiff that his lover is “too seasoned” in the bedroom, he will leave her in the dust.
He is one of the most sexist of all the other men in the zodiac.
He is very vanilla. Sex to him should never be too sleazy, which is why he is rarely one to try new things.
Most often, it is the woman who must take on the driver's seat when it comes to initiating sex with this guy.
If he is feeling a bit freaky, it is most regularly a dominance role-play he will embark in. Obviously it will be his partner who is submissive because he still feels superior even in the bedroom.
However, in most cases, the Leo man does not have a kinky bone in his body.
Sex always has to be taken slow with him. And every sexual encounter should feel like the first time, or at least a special occasion.
He is not really a giver in the bedroom, however he would love to receive.
He expects sex as an everyday thing in his relationship and if the schedules don’t permit it, then he will find a day to devote to sex. Making it an all day event to make up for the lost time.
Playing with his balls, especially by running your fingernails across them, during intercourse will have him in the palm of your hand.
Other erogenous zones for him are his chest, his back, his scalp, and his neck.
Sex is something he would never boast about outside his home. Where, even there, it is something he avoids in conversation.
Leo Man Interested in Men:
The gay Leo man is typically straight passing. Because when he is young, he is slightly afraid to own his sexuality and be proud of it. So he tends to want to appear straight so no one questions him.
However, as he matures, he is more out and proud than most of his gay friends; pride itself is a more prominent virtue for the gay Leo man than it will ever be for the straight one.
Looking ‘straight’ also serves another purpose for him; it attracts female friends, who usually make up the greater part of his adoring fan base.
Regardless of sexual orientation, the Leo man needs to know he appeals to a pride of women.
Most of his male friends are straight, and, they too, are subject to his dominion, being typically wimpier in the presence of the Leo man.
He will put his straight friends' dates through the same sort of trials by fire the straight Leo man puts his prospective mates does.
His friends are forbidden to express any opinion about his choice of lover, though it will be very tempting for his friend circle to do so.
He tends to seek out the streety, even tricky types whose character might be, if not suspect, then at least wholly out of sync with his own.
While the straight Leo wants a ready-made queen, the gay Leo seems to enjoy slumming it in search of some “lost” male orphan whom he can adopt and have benefit from his natural fatherly energy.
He typically goes for younger guys, however, he can sometimes go for guys his own age too.
Once he settles down, it is usually with a guy from a similar background as his own. If not someone who is from the same town, school, or socioeconomic sphere. Though this guy will be decidedly less sunny than him.
He will typically find himself in the black cat and golden retriever type of relationship. Where he is the golden retriever.
He wants to shower so much affection on his partner that it has a healing and stabilizing effect.
He is seeking to be the most successful good-looking, masculine gay couple of all time.
He may attract a partner who is willing to bask in the glory of being around the Leo man and not want to put in any work, only reaping the rewards that the Leo man worked so hard to achieve.
However, the Leo man expects his partner to at least pretend to have some sort of ambition. So, if his partner doesn’t he will leave them in a heartbeat.
He is the most jealous man with, hands down, the hottest temper of any man in the zodiac, and he takes cheating as a crime against nature, God, and along such lines, himself.
That goes for the straight Leo man as well.
The only way the Leo man would entertain the thought of another in the bedroom is if that third party wanted nothing more than to watch. He loves to show off how good he is.
Deep kissing and body contact typically top the list of his favorite things. Along with massage and mutual masturbation.
He will let his lover “blow” him, but he is uncomfortable in the service position.
He wants to be adored in the bedroom so, his partner should be the one to worship his body, not the other way around.
He places great emphasis on love as opposed to sex, and if his heart isn’t in it, then he will not do it.
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hey hope you're fine pls say about moon in 5th house and moon sextile Jupiter
Moon in the 5th House:
A person who has their natal moon in their natal 5th house usually has their emotional needs tied to their creative self-expression and playfulness. They tend to be an extroverted individual who has a big heart. Now the sign the moon is in will tell you more about how this presents.
This person typically places fun over everything else in their life. Fun is what makes them feel nurtured and loved in their life. They need to enjoy their life and the things they do in their life. So, they tend to ignore any problem that arises because they prefer the lighter emotions and fun.
This person tends to be quite spontaneous and dramatic when it comes to their emotions. They know how to assert themselves and gain attention. They know how to express their emotions in an open and honest way.
The fifth house is also the house of romance, so these people tend to be true romantics. Being in love is a source of safety and security for this person. They tend to not like to be single because they like to have fun, and fun for them comes in the form of being with someone.
They are also a very creative individual who has a complex imagination. They are very charming, so it is quite easy for them to make friends. They are the people that others go to for a good time.
Moon Sextile Jupiter:
People who have their Moon sextile their Jupiter are naturally generous and able to smoothly express their feelings and thoughts to the people around them. They often look for ways to support others and are optimistic about their own abilities to achieve their dreams. When they are going after their dreams, they tend to be more cautious and prefer to plan things through before they take action. They have a natural ability to get themselves and the people in their lives out of almost any circumstance because they can always identify the resources and relationships that will help them to overcome any challenge. These people are able to accomplish more than they believe is possible. Their expansive nature allows them to overcome any barrier they fear is blocking them.
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Who Are You Pick a Pile
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Pile One (Amethyst):
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How do you see yourself?
Seven of Pentacles:
You view yourself to be someone who is an extremely hard worker. Someone who stops at nothing to achieve their goals. In your mind, never taking a break is the best way to succeed. In your eyes, you are a patient person who is constantly manifesting your desired reality. The color purple may be significant to you, it could be your favorite color for some of you, it may be your aura color for others, etc., lavender may also be significant for some, and as this is the Amethyst pile that may be significant for you too. If you don’t already have Amethyst in your life, I’d encourage you to purchase some. Keep in mind when you are purchasing crystals to buy ethically sourced crystals. Do your research before purchasing.
How do others see you?
Six of Pentacles:
This is interesting because you see yourself as the Seven of Pentacles and the people in your life see you as the card right before it, the Six of Pentacles. People represented by the Six of Pentacles are very generous and caring, this is how the people in your life see you. They believe that you are the type of person to stop at nothing to help the people you care about. They see you as a deeply spiritual person whose spirituality has taught them to be patient and calm. In their eyes, you are always striving to do good deeds for others for their benefit.
What does not represent you?
Nine of Wands:
People who don’t know you well enough see you as someone who has too many expectations of the people in your life. They believe that you are too hard on people and impose these expectations too much. This is something that does not define who you are. As I said, the people who believe that you are like this do not know who you truly are. If you have run or run into people who think this of you, do not let it bring you down, it is not who you are.
What is important to you right now?
Strength:
You may have started to focus more on your confidence and self-love recently, or you have been thinking about doing so, and to this, your guides are saying it is a great thing for you to be doing. Continue to focus on improving your confidence and self-love.
What is not important?
The Emperor:
You may have control issues, either in all areas of your life or only in specific areas, either way you do have control issues. Your guides are saying that this is something that is important for you. You want to be focusing on your self-love, and your control issues are not going to help you in that process.
What are some things in your life right now that you don’t need?
Page of Pentacles:
Based on the amount of Pentacles that have come out in this pile, you may be an Earth sign (Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn) or, you may have significant earth placements in your chart. As for the Page of Pentacles being something that you don’t need right now, there may be a new project in your work that you want to start, and your guides are saying that you should not be starting that. You have too much on your plate right now, and now is not the time for you to be adding more to your plate.
What goddesses are you most like? (Extended Reading)
Pile Two (Orange Calcite):
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How do you see yourself?
Knight of Swords and Four of Pentacles:
You see yourself as a strong individual who is very good at making decisions. You also believe that you are funny and fun to be around. Not only that, but you believe that you are a natural leader. In your eyes you are driven by money and success which is what makes you more confident, better looking, and superior to others.
This is the Orange Citrine pile, so, it may be worth purchasing one to have in your life. Keep in mind when you are purchasing crystals to buy ethically sourced crystals. Do your research before purchasing. Orange may be significant to some of you and sunsets as well.
How do others see you?
Ace of Wands and Ten of Wands:
The people in your life see you as a very hard worker, which seems like something you want to be known for, so this is a good thing. However, these same people believe that you have a tendency to over work yourself and punish yourself when you get things wrong. They think that you put other people's needs over your own too often. They believe that you ignore your own problems because you are afraid of dealing with them. All in all, though, they view you as a very successful person who is constantly pushing forward towards their next goal. For some of you, you may be a highly spiritual person and the people in your life recognize this and believe it is why you are so successful.
What does not represent you?
Four of Cups:
People may see your constant drive towards success as you being dissatisfied with your life. They may think that you don’t see your life for what it is and take things for granted. Your guides say that this is not you, don’t let these false assumptions define who you are.
What is important to you right now?
Nine of Pentacles:
As we have established, your success is very important to you and with this card coming out here it seems that you have been very successful recently, and your guides are saying that it is time for you to bask in these rewards. You have been accumulating so much and haven’t been allowing yourself to stop and feel the joy that comes with your dreams coming true. Based on all the information that has come out with this pile, some of you may be a Capricorn or have significant Capricorn placements in your chart.
What is not important?
King of Swords:
You have very high standards for yourself and where you are going in life, and because of this you tend to focus too heavily on your failures, or what you believe to be failures. This is something you should not be doing. You need to get out of your head and stop over intellectualizing your feelings, especially when it comes to your feelings regarding your mistakes.
What are some things in your life right now that you don’t need?
King of Pentacles and Three of Swords:
Some of you may have an ex coming back into your life recently wanting a second chance and your guides are saying that this is a bad idea. Do not take them back. For others, you may have recently lost out on a business opportunity or made a major mistake in your career, and you are feeling very heartbroken about this. You may feel like giving up, and this is something you should not do. You have been focusing too heavily on the negatives and this is something you should not be doing, focus on the positives here. It is time for you to heal and move forward, not stay stuck in the past.
What goddesses are you most like? (Extended Reading)
Pile Three (Sodalite):
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How do you see yourself?
Eight of Pentacles:
You see yourself as a very hardworking individual who is devoted to a person or project no matter what. You love the beginning stages of any project you start and are constantly looking to expand your knowledge and find new projects to start. Not only that, but you may feel that other people don’t get you, especially when it comes to the things that interest you. Furthermore, you may feel that people think you focus on things that are not important, but they are important to you and that is all that matters.
This is the Sodalite pile, so, it may be worth purchasing one to have in your life. Keep in mind when you are purchasing crystals to buy ethically sourced crystals. Do your research before purchasing. The color blue may be on some significance for some of you as well.
How do others see you?
Seven of Wands:
The people in your life see you as an outspoken individual who is not afraid to stand up for what is right. They see you as very brave and determined. They see you as someone who cares deeply about others, especially the underdog, and believe that you will stop at nothing to help the people who need it. However, they also believe that you have a tendency to be on the defensive too much and see problems where there aren’t any.
What does not represent you?
Ten of Swords and Six of Wands:
You may feel like you have failed recently and that you are in a state of ruin right now and to this, your guides say, this is not who you are. They say that you are not seeing your situation for what it is. This may be because you are wanting recognition for what you have done and continue to be doing and because you aren’t getting this you believe you are a failure and that is not true. You are successful and don’t need recognition to be that.
What is important to you right now?
Knight of Swords:
You are someone who loves to start new projects and is very determined when you are doing something you love. However, this comes with perfectionism. When you are thoroughly obsessed by a certain idea and strongly wish to manifest it, you are oftentimes so blinded by the actual desire for its fulfillment that you fail to note the difficulties which you may come across, or the actions and consequences that it could bring. You become so obsessed with getting it done perfectly that you forget to notice what that perfection may take to get. And this is something that you need to recognize about yourself. That is what is important to you right now.
What is not important?
Four of Wands:
You may be wanting to celebrate right now in your life, either by hanging out with friends or family, or by throwing a party, and your guides are saying here that you need to not be focusing on this right now. Your desire to fit in with the people in your life is causing you to not focus on what is important to you right now.
What are some things in your life right now that you don’t need?
High Priestess and Queen of Wands:
You may be prioritizing your intuition and spirituality over your intellect and conscious mind right now in your life, and your guides are telling you that you need to focus on your 3d realm and your reality rather than your unconscious mind and the spiritual realm. You may have been too focused on what your guides are saying to you either through your dreams, music, etc. and because of this you are missing things in your reality that are important to you at the moment.
What goddesses are you most like? (Extended Reading)
Pile Four (Black Tourmaline):
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How do you see yourself?
Seven of Wands:
You view yourself as someone who is very outspoken and not afraid to stand up for what you believe in. You see yourself as being very brave, determined, and not willing to let anyone stand in your way. Not only that, but you always root for the underdog and are willing to help anyone who is in need. Likewise, you also know that you are highly competitive and have a hard time trusting people.
Since this is the Black Tourmaline pile, it may be worth purchasing one to have in your life. Keep in mind when you are purchasing crystals to buy ethically sourced crystals. Do your research before purchasing. You could also be a Scorpio or have significant Scorpio placements in your chart. For some of you, you may have people in your life who are Scorpios. Also, mushrooms may be significant to some of you. There are also some of you who may have been drawn to pile one and if that is the case it is worth checking out as well.
How do others see you?
Ace of Cups:
The people in your life see you as a deeply spiritual person who loves very deeply. They believe that your intuition, creativity, and instincts guide you to make the right decisions in life. They think that you are wise beyond your years and admire that you are in tune with your inner voice. Not only that, but they see you as someone who never strays, they think that once you are committed you are committed and that this is what makes you such a great person.
What does not represent you?
Eight of Wands:
You may be someone who is very fast acting in your life and because of this people tend to think that you are someone who doesn’t think before they act, and you just leap into things. This is not something that you are. You think deeply before you make decisions and just because others don’t see that, that does not make you that person.
What is important to you right now?
Strength:
You may feel on the defensive in your life right now. That you need to stand up and be strong in the face of what is happening in your life right now. To this, your guides say you do not need to be doing that right now. It is okay to feel your feelings, you do not need to be putting on a brave face right now. Allow yourself to stop living life in survival mode and to feel everything you are repressing.
What is not important?
Ace of Wands and The Emperor:
There is something you are wanting to start in your life that you may have been thinking about doing for quite some time, but now is not the time for you to be starting anything new.
What are some things in your life right now that you don’t need?
Four of Swords:
You have been putting on a brave face for quite some time now in your life and distracting yourself instead of allowing yourself to feel. Your guides are saying that this form of self-protection that you have been doing is not helping you to heal at all. You need to stop forcing yourself to pretend that everything is alright when it is not alright. People will not think any differently of you if you allow yourself to show emotions, and if they do, they are not meant to be in your life.
What goddesses are you most like? (Extended Reading)
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Hi, I'm really curious to know how you do group tarot readings? I know for this you need to connect with the spirit guides of a number of people. But how to choose those spirit guides? I mean, how do you know who is going to use your reading to connect with their spirit guide?I think it is a strange question. but I would really like to hear your answer
Hi! Thank you for your question! When I am doing collective readings (the readings I post) I channel into each pile and whatever spirit guides come forward with messages, I take them. I don’t ever choose what spirit guides come forward, even when I am doing individual readings (the private reading you pay for). When I am doing private readings I channel through the person, this is why I usually ask for a photo of you and your name and pronouns when I am doing your reading, because it is easier for me to tap into your energy this way. With collective readings I am tapping into the energy of each pile and some spirit guides come forward with messages through the Tarot cards, this is why not all messages in collective readings will apply to you, because I am channeling messages for a large number of people. I never know exactly who will pick each pile, I just get your general energy and some information about you, this is all revealed to me as I am doing the reading, not before. Now, with individual readings I know who you are before I do the reading for you, so this is why they are more reliable and accurate to you than a collective reading will be. I hope that answers your question!
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Hi hope you’re doing well! I just wanted to ask a question in regards to financial success and stability. What in our chart helps us find those things and how can we implement it into our lives? 🩷🌸
If I’m being honest my way of managing money in terms of spending isn’t the best but I’m trying to learn because I know with habits like mine I’ll be in situations where I don’t want to be like right now. I did secure an internship but due to travel and financial reasons I wasn’t able to commit to it and now I don’t have a job and I have responsibilities which require paying bills and loans so it’s tuff at the moment especially as a college student😭
I’m a hard worker and the career aspect of my life is usually where I do well compared to my love life lmao but I still wanna know how I can gain success and stability in my life cause I truly need it like others do, thank you💗
Hi! I’m sorry to hear about what you’re going through. There are a few things in your birth chart that show how you are with finances and success. Jupiter, Pluto, Saturn, Mars, the 2nd house, 8th house, 10th house, and the 11th house all deal with money and success.
Jupiter and Money:
Jupiter is the planet of wealth. It brings expansion, growth, and abundance to anything it touches. The aspects to your Jupiter can tell you a great deal about which planetary energy you should focus on to grow and find your good fortune. For example, Jupiter trine Uranus, shows success in science, technology, and engineering.
The house that your Jupiter is in can also show you the area in your life where money and success flow easily into your life. The sign that your Jupiter is in will tell you how to activate this.
Pluto and Money:
Pluto is the planet of extremes. Whatever this planet touches in your chart will be scaled up 1000x. If you have Jupiter aspecting Pluto in your chart, this is a great indicator of success and wealth. This planet has a tendency to maximize darker areas of your life, and it may make things more difficult for you in the long run if you let it run rampant in your life. Learning how to heal the darker parts of this planet will help you garner success and wealth in your life.
Saturn and Money:
Traditionally, Saturn does not deal with money, it deals more with longevity and dedication. This is the planet of hard work, so it teaches you to hold on when things get tough. If you learn how to deal with the energy of this planet correctly, it could lead to great success. Saturn in the second house is often said to be an indicator of poverty in the birth chart, but this doesn’t have to be true. A nice Saturn in the birth chart gives self-discipline, persistence, structure, and an effective way to achieve your goals. Without Saturn, you can get rich, but it is hard to stay rich.
Mars and Money:
Mars is not typically associated with money, however, it provides the drive to be successful. People with a strong Mars are extremely ambitious. Mars in aspect to Jupiter or conjunct the Moon or Mercury is a frequent indicator of success in what you do.
The Second House and Money:
This house is the house of resources in the astrological chart. Everything that supports you belongs to this house: your savings, possessions, the food you eat. The second house is associated with money and finances.
Planets in the 2nd house are an indicator of an inner drive to become financially successful. The Sun, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Pluto here all point into this direction. The Moon, Uranus, and Neptune can bring a lack of stability and clarity when it comes to finances. Saturn in this house is an infamous placement, but it doesn’t have to mean poverty, it can suggest money earned through persistent work and conservative money management. People with their Saturn here are frugal and know how to save. While with Jupiter in this house, money seems to come to you almost on its own, but you tend to spend carelessly too.
Planets in this house show you how you generate income.
The Eighth House and Money:
This house is one of the most complex houses. It governs quite a few life areas, but let’s focus on its connection with money. The eighth house is directly opposite the second house, and it is the second house (resources) from the seventh (partners). It governs other people’s money you have access to. Here you rely on others, as opposed to the second house, where you work for what you have.
This is an important house for all kinds of partnerships, including business partnerships, too. The eighth house governs banks, loans, investing, tax, accountants too, so it is a rather significant house for extraordinary finances.
The 8th house is also associated with inheritance, your spouse’s money, money you make through investments. In the birth charts of people who have inherited larger sums of money, there seems to be a connection between the rulers of their 8th house and the 2nd house.
A nice Venus or Jupiter in the eighth house can indicate luck in these life areas.
The Tenth House and Money:
The 10th house rules the things that we are known for in the world: our career choices, social status, achievement, and prestige. The 10th house is one of the three “earth houses” of material matters and shares similar traits to Capricorn, the tenth zodiac sign. This is where we leave a legacy and provide for our families. If you want to cultivate yourself as a boss, study your 10th house for clues on your leadership style. As the sector of career achievement, there’s competitive quality to the 10th house.
The Eleventh House and Money:
Also called the house of hopes and dreams, the eleventh house is the house of support you receive from the world. It is also the house of the personal assets you accumulate through your career and social status. As the natural house of Aquarius, the eleventh house leads you to new ways of doing things and achieving your goals with the help of others. People who live in the public eye often have a full eleventh house. An emphasized eleventh house in the birth chart indicates a lot of helpers on your journey. This house is the house of groups, organizations, your social circle, networking. It is how other people help you level up.
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I recently came across your blog and love it!! I chose pile three in your spirit guide reading and it was so spot on I was curious about buying the extended version. Can you tell me more about what else is revealed in the extended? Is it a lot more info? Any additional info about the extra information would be helpful. Thank you!!
Hi! Thank you! I’m glad you like my blog! The extended readings for those piles include more specific channeled messages from your guides, advice from your guides, charms that give you more specific messages, and channeled angel numbers which also give you more specific messages and advice. Each pile has a different amount of additional information given but, in all my extended readings, I try to give a lot more information and additional advice. I hope that answers your question!
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aphrostarot · 10 months
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Hi! can you explain about Pluto in the 7th house squre venus? one more question,You're familiar with astrology and tarot. so in your opinion, which one is more correct and the probability of error is less?I really like your vibe and your blog* - * much love to you💕💕
Hi, thank you for your question! That is a really interesting question that is a bit difficult to answer because it really is all opinion based, so it could vary from person to person.
In my opinion, they both have a relatively similar margin of error. However, Astrology is a science so, there are more facts when it comes to Astrology and what it means. Whereas with Tarot each card has its own meaning, but each reader uses their intuition to describe what is being said with each card. So, in my opinion, Astrology is a bit less likely to be incorrect when compared to Tarot. However, that's not to say that all Astrology is correct and all of Tarot is incorrect. Every person has their own life experiences and their own genetics which dictate their own reality, and Tarot and Astrology don’t always take that into account. So, some things may not apply to you in Astrology and Tarot because of your life experiences. With Tarot collective readings (the readings I post) may be more likely to be incorrect than compared to personalized readings (readings you purchase through me) because collective readings are for the public so, not everything being said in the reading will apply to you because when I am channeling for that reading I am connecting to many peoples Spirit Guides, not just yours. All in all, what I am trying to say is that it may ultimately vary based on the person and their own life experiences as to how Astrology placement interpretations apply to them and how Tarot readings apply to them. Thank you so much for that question, I really enjoyed answering it! I hope my explanation makes sense!
Pluto in the 7th House:
Pluto brings obsessive tendencies and intensity to whatever house it is in, in your natal chart. So, in the 7th house (the house of long term relationships) the native may crave a deep and intense connection but be too obsessed with the relationship itself and the person they are with to maintain the relationship. This native may have deep trust issues when it comes to romantic relationships, which makes them fear committed relationships. However, this is not to say that this person can not maintain a committed relationship and be in a happy and healthy relationship, there is just some healing and work that needs to be done before that can happen. This person can be overly jealous and fear losing their partner, which results in them showing some of their more toxic traits that are all deeply rooted in fear. These behaviors they exhibit in relationships will sometimes make their partner leave them. This is why there needs to be some healing and growth with this person if they want to be in that relationship they crave so deeply. This person is attracted to very intense people. People who may have Scorpio placements or just resemble a Scorpio in some way. They are attracted to powerful personalities and power struggles in the relationships they are in. It is important for this native to make sure they are not falling into a repetitive pattern of being in toxic relationships. They are attracted to Plutonian personalities, but they need to make sure the person they settle down with has a balance with their plutonian ways, others they will be jealous, possessive, and disagreeable.
Pluto Square Venus:
Those with their natal Pluto squaring their Venus have a strong drive to fulfill their deepest desires, with a willingness to persist through periods of the death and rebirth cycles that come with Pluto. These people are often faced with the challenge of coming to understand the depth of who they are at a soul level. Part of that process may typically include periods of loss and renewal in their relationships. They may find themselves in some pretty toxic relationships or relationships that make them feel some pretty intense feelings, these relationships are there to teach them how to love themselves on a deeper level and how to accept themselves as they are. They may frequently feel like their self-worth is taken from them or lost in relationships, and these experiences will give them a great opportunity to recover and regenerate, which comes naturally to them. Likewise, they will become much stronger through these experiences. Not only that, but they will start to discover who they are and how they want to love themselves and want to be loved. One thing that they need to learn, though, is to let go of their habit of compulsively needing another person to fulfill their needs.
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aphrostarot · 10 months
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I have a grand trine in my chart with Lilith in pisces in the 10th house (my moon is also in pisces exact conjunct my mc still in the 9th), Venus in Scorpio in the 6th house, and Jupiter in Cancer on the border of my 1st &2nd , falling in my first. I’m not sure what this means for me!! I can’t find much info about it!
Hi! Thank you for your question, I’m not the most knowledgeable about Grand Trines in a chart, but I know a bit about it so, I will do my best to answer your questions.
Grand Trine in Chart:
A Grand Trine occurs in a birth chart when you have three planets that share the same element; fire, earth, water, or air. They also have to be within 120 degrees of each other.
It typically means that some things come easily to you, that you have effortless strengths, talents, and gifts. Now the element it is in can tell you more about what these are.
Water Trine:
People with their grand trine in water typically have a great intuition and are able to tap into their more sensitive side more easily than others. Their ability to tap into their emotions is their biggest strength, they should use them to make decisions in their life because their emotions are typically their intuition giving them messages.
These people are typically very empathetic and oftentimes become the emotional support and comfort person to the people in their lives. This is something that comes naturally to them.
Earth Trine:
People who have an earth trine in their chart typically find establishing consistency and productivity to come easily to them. They are typically very level-headed individuals who can connect to their more logical side fairly easily. They are very grounded individuals who are very loyal and reliable. However, they tend to be a bit stubborn at times.
Fire Trine:
People who have a fire trine in their chart are typically very energetic individuals. They are often very eager to start new projects because they are constantly inspired. They excel at motivating people in their lives, even themselves. Furthermore, they are natural optimists who have a drive and excitement to live life to its fullest.
Air Trine:
People with air trines in their chart are very opinionated. They excel at communicating their thoughts, ideas, and opinions to the world. They would be great writers, speakers, or teachers. Likewise, they love to learn new things, so they are constantly searching for more ways to expand their knowledge. Their brains are constantly moving, the wheels in their brains are constantly spinning.
Pisces Lilith in the 10th house:
Lilith in your birth chart signifies the point in your life where you rebel, where you embrace your darker sides. So, having it in Pisces shows that you rebel through escapist tendencies. You may be ashamed of your fantasies, compassion, and/or neediness. In a sexual way, you may be embarrassed to share your fantasies with people, and you may be ashamed of your desire to be submissive.
You may struggle with drinking, sex, or gambling to escape your fears.
The 10th house tells you more about where in your life these things come into play. So, you may overcompensate in your career to show that you are worthy. You are probably a perfectionist who wants to show everyone that you are the best. You are a hard worker who wants to make a great impact on the world. Likewise, you want to be accepted by the world and may find it hard to choose a career that you enjoy.
This placement gives you power to easily influence others, especially when you bring emotions into it. You should however pay attention to your escapist tendencies and how they affect your public image, because any impulsive action may ruin your reputation.
Lilith Conjunct MC:
It is hard for you to suppress your inner longings in professional settings. Your sexuality, power, and inner feelings fuel your public image. You are fiercely protective of your ambitions. Because Lilith is where you rebel and the 10th house or MC is your public image and career, it is fairly easy for you to rebel against authority figures and the status quo and this helps you succeed in your career. Your sexuality and ability to stay true to yourself will help you gain success and recognition in your career and in society.
Venus in Scorpio in the 6th house:
People with Venus in Scorpio usually have a need for intimacy and power in their relationships. This need for power often manifests as a controlling attitude, however if you work on this you can have a great amount of sharing of energy in your relationships. You may have trust issues especially in your relationships which is where your need for control is manifested. There is a possibility that because you struggle to trust people, you struggle to be intimate in turn. Which is why it may be difficult for you to enter relationships.
With Venus in the sixth house, you may approach relationships from a dependent perspective. On the other hand, the self-analysis, striving for perfection, and humble attitude that are associated with the 6th House can create in you an ability to relate sensitively to others and also to develop a discriminating sense of values, including a more positive appreciation of your self-worth.
If you are an insecure person, you will often find yourself being dominated in relationships. You will take on the more submissive role in most of your relationships and serve your partner's every need. You have a set of expectations when it comes to how you want your relationships to go, and this may make you overly demanding either of yourself or your partners. This will lead you to be in a constant state of dissatisfaction in your relationships.
With Venus in the 6th House, your evaluative faculty is focused on areas involving self-refinement and service. You may have strong preferences with respect to your work environment, health matters, moral or cultural standards, or modes of serving others. You may be a harsh judge of yourself, evaluating your thoughts, motives, and actions critically. These judgments are more likely to be expressed as feelings rather than thoughts, and they may also be projected onto others. Having Venus in the 6th House, the judgments that you make are likely to be influenced by codes and standards, by your work or health environment, and by consideration for the welfare of others.
Jupiter in Cancer in the 1st and 2nd House:
Jupiter in Cancer in the first house can make the native pretty good-looking. They are typically someone with great intelligence, especially emotional intelligence. They are typically good-natured, generous, truthful, charitable, and loyal. Jupiter in Cancer people typically have a great understanding of morals and follow their own moral code very strictly. They are typically great friends who are emotionally attached to these people. People with Jupiter in the second house tend to accumulate a great amount of wealth due to their ability to manage their money and save as well.
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aphrostarot · 10 months
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Hiii. What's deference between the sun in 11th house and venus in 11th house. thanks 💙
Hi, thank you for your question! I’ll do my best to answer it.
The Eleventh House in Astrology is associated with; society, friends, social circles, hopes, and wishes. So, having a planet in this house will reflect those themes in that planet's area. It is also worth noting that the sign the Sun and Venus are in will tell you more about how it is reflected.
The Sun in the 11th:
The Sun is the planet of your ego, your individuality, so, the sun here shows that you are a very social person who can make and keep friends easily. Usually, people with their Sun in their 11th house tend to be very open-minded but set in their opinions and beliefs. They place great value in their friendships (maybe even preferring their friends to their families) however, they will tend to only be friends with people who share similar beliefs or values to themselves. This does not mean that they will judge someone for having a different opinion to theirs but it may be hard for them to be friends with someone who has a differing opinion of things they view in high regard. They tend to be very optimistic and have extremely high goals in their lives. They want to make a difference in the world and have creative ways to make changes to whatever cause they believe in. It is very easy for them to get people to see their point of view and even join their cause.
Venus in the 11th:
Venus is the planet of love and pleasure. It shows how you love and how you want to be loved. So, having your Venus in your 11th house shows that you are a very sociable person who loves to be surrounded by your friends. Usually Venus in the 11th housers has lots of friends from different walks of life. You will likely benefit from your associations in life. You may only pursue a romantic relationship with someone that you are friends with. However, Venus in the 11th housers tends to confuse many friendships with love and pursue a relationship with someone they are better off just being friends with.
I hope I answered your question! I’m going to link some other great posts that talk more about each of these placements down below.
Sun:
@astrolocherry has a few detailed posts about this placement:
Sun in the 11th
Sun in the 11th
@elysiansparadise has a very good post about this placement as well:
Sun in the 11th
Venus:
@elysiansparadise has another great post about this placement:
Venus in the 11th
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